Anybody imagine themselves never getting married?

[Rawtid]

Exponentially so. The VI is relatively insulated from the world. The few people who are doing well have their heads up their asses. Men and women. The majority who check for me are women in not attracted to physically or professionally. There was one woman but she just went ghost on flaky on me overnight. I didn't bother finding out why.

Maybe it's "simply" a matter of relocating...easier said than done.

Get you an overweight chick with a cute face, a nice job and quit playing.

 

[Jahmal]

My brother is living that life right now.....40+ no kids and no wife



Great having money sucks being lonely

Unmarried doesnt mean you have to be lonely...

I'm 35, no wife,no kids. I have a rotation of women coming over my cribbo every other day. Smashing one puzzy for life is wack.

 

[Vice Queen]

45 is considered old?

My grandpare are early 70s, just went to Sedona and Vegas last month, have a cruise planned in October and are already figuring out the logistics of taking their motorcycles to Myrtle Beach next year.

I'm definitely not gonna be one of those seniors sitting in the house waiting to die.

 

[Elle Driver]

yea that's what I meant lol.
Although foreign men tend to be more marriage minded, a lot of them tend to have archaic views on women and skewed ideologies through religion on traditional relationships. But your husband is american so would it be safe to say he is more western?

He's very traditional, but not in an archaic sense. He believes in providing for the wife and family. That might be a culture thing. He's American by nationality but extremely close to his roots. It used to be stifling but he calmed down a lot and I grew up.

 

[Mowgli]

I have no biological kids of my own but I am raising lil boo boo with @Tuaminator



@Mowgli

Look both ways when you drive through intersections. You're going to get into a car wreck and never talk like this again

 

[iBrowse]

#TeamESL
#FirstGenSquad

We out chea








Forget them 30 year old "big sisters" though with their jaded ass stories, find you a young tenda in NY, someone like 21-23 and get her to follow you to where you live. Most chicks would die at the chance to live where you live.

I'm in NY until tomorrow morning so I better get started .

 

[Vice Queen]

I'm an only child amongst other things. I became comfortable with being by myself a long time ago. If no one comes into my life it'll be unfortunate but not the end of my life. Tbh social media got me fukked up, plus I have a couple attractive women in my life who I consider to be my "big sisters" (both 30) and they give me the 110% about women. They're very successful but are very sex positive living in NY. Based on what they've said me being a poindexter with a future makes me food . Some poster made a thread last week talking about taking risks..I get that but I'd amend it to state that a nikka needs to take measured risks in life. Everything is a gamble but the playing field is not amicable for marriage. @Poitier said how everyone in the West prioritizes self. Women want money and careers and men want to do nothing yet be considered the patriarch that everyone follows, (and the they're jealous of the attention women get).

Yes I can imagine never getting married because it's more of a reality than of actual marriage .

 

[Rawtid]

Exhibiting fidelity, devotion and commitment is essential for marriage to work, however, you won't find many people willing to abide by those things in a basic relationship, let alone marriage.

I don't disagree, but if you place the idea of building your finances at the forefront of your marriage, I think that makes those things a little easier to deal with, imo. A good deal of people are motivated by money, not emotions. It's one thing to cheat on someone with replaceable qualities like sex, cooking, cleaning, etc, but replacing someone you're building your money with or even that is on the same page as you financially is WAY more difficult and you don't want to risk that relationship. And I'm not talking about someone taking care of someone financially, I'm talking two people who are actually putting in financial work...living on a budget, not going out to eat, paying off debt together, etc.

 

[iBrowse]

Get you an overweight chick with a cute face, a nice job and quit playing.

I know of one
Edit: 2

 

[Malta]

I'm definitely not gonna be one of those seniors sitting in the house waiting to die.

Get into wingsuit flying when you're like 55, really high mortality rate and it would be a cool story for your grand kids to tell if you have any.


"My grandmother just passed "
"I'm so sorry. How'd she die, was it cancer?"

"No, she got to close to the ground and hit a tree at 150mph in the french alps"

 

[iBrowse]

I don't disagree, but if you place the idea of building your finances at the forefront of your marriage, I think that makes those things a little easier to deal with, imo. A good deal of people are motivated by money, not emotions. It's one thing to cheat on someone with replaceable qualities like sex, cooking, cleaning, etc, but replacing someone you're building your money with or even that is on the same page as you financially is WAY more difficult and you don't want to risk that relationship. And I'm not talking about someone taking care of someone financially, I'm talking two people who are actually putting in financial work...living on a budget, not going out to eat, paying off debt together, etc.

Now you nikkas see why I tagged her in here .

 

[Rawtid]

I know of one

it doesn't go down in your PM

 

[Aceofspades404]

He's very traditional, but not in an archaic sense. He believes in providing for the wife and family. That might be a culture thing. He's American by nationality but extremely close to his roots. It used to be stifling but he calmed down a lot and I grew up.

yea I don't mind traditional at all. I think my fear is that for a lot of them submissive equals doormat and that's where the whole concept of traditional marriages get abused. I know for a fact that I couldn't be in a healthy relationship with a man who thought like that
How would you say he's calmed down and what do you mean by grew up?

 

[Malta]

I'm in NY until tomorrow morning so I better get started .

You should have been up @ Columbia, Fordham Law or Hunter looking for undergrads and grad students.

How you not at the Hillsong church looking for cute ass black women who are on the verge of giving their life to the lord or to the devil ( )

 

[iBrowse]

You should have been up @ Columbia, Fordham Law or Hunter looking for undergrads and grad students.

How you not at the Hillsong church looking for cute ass black women who are on the verge of giving their life to the lord or to the devil ( )

I was in Philly over the weekend getting turnt .