Seems to me like a lot of women are raised and pushed by their mothers to have a child regardless of if its a good situation for the woman. As in, the mother wants her daughter to have a child and it doesnt matter what happens, the mother knows she will take care of the child even if the daughter a) cant, b) is not ready.
IMO its very selfish and scary and leads to these girls finding the best guy they can (has a job, a vehicle, and works hard) then having a baby (oops the condom broke, bs), then they have the kid then realize they are not ready to be tied down - and the guy is like what the fk just happened. Hes taken advantage of.
Maybe im pessimistic but seems to happen a lot... its sad. Strap up boys dont let it happen to you.. and always get a paternity test.