Anyone eating off these older chicks on dating apps?

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Ive had a side chick in every relationship I ever been in & I aint never been that stressed out :russ: what the fukk is this a sitcom?

But nah man do u, I dont lie to every female but when I do I get in and I get out.:mjgrin:
I had girls/women on the side in every relationship I had, too.

If y'all are honestly saying the juggling and lying isn't a stressful system, y'all are of a different breed but, I am not trying to impress anybody here.

I remember the feelings of late night exploits and the phone rings with it being my main or me being with my main and it's a woman on the side and being like :merchant:.


I've had those situations involving women who were confronting other women I was seeing that sound crazier than could be believed but it's not necessary to go into those exploits.

That stress from juggling and, most significantly, lying, multiple partners is not worth it, breh.

Then, I started getting into convenient situations with mature women who were agreeable to no bullshyt intimacy... I legit was like...why the fukk wasn't I just being honest from jump.

Again, not trying to convert but it's something to consider.

nikkas have to break out of the fallacy that only std ridden thots want no strings attached sex. That is one of the most ridiculous theories in the dating game.


fukk no, in my single days i actually got MORE women when I was just up front with my intentions, and suprisingly, older women like a more straight up dude.

You'd be surprised how many older women are about that "just fukk" tip :ehh:
Breh, co-fukking-sign.

It's not just older women, though.

Women, mature women at whatever the breh's age who would be almost happy that a nikka was telling the truth instead of being on some ponzi scheme shyt.

the more brehs are truthful, the more women will be more genuine, also, about what they want.
 
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I had girls/women on the side in every relationship I had, too.

Y'all are of a different breed but, I am not trying to impress anybody here.

I remember the feelings of late night exploits and the phone rings with it being my main or me being with my main and it's a woman on the side and being like :merchant:.


I've had those situations involving women who were confronting other women I was seeing that sound crazier than could be believed but it's not necessary to go into those exploits.

That stress from juggling and, most significantly, lying, multiple partners is not worth it, breh.

Then, I started getting into convenient situations with mature women who were agreeable to no bullshyt intimacy... I legit was like...why the fukk wasn't I just being honest from jump.

Again, not trying to convert but it's something to consider.

nikkas have to break out of the fallacy that only std ridden thots want no strings attached sex. That is one of the most ridiculous theories in the dating game.


Breh, co-fukking-sign.

It's not just older women, though.

Women, mature women at whatever the breh's age who would be almost happy that a nikka was telling the truth instead of being on some ponzi scheme shyt.

the more brehs are truthful, the more women will be more genuine, also, about what they want.


eh....

I'm gonna be straight with you breh, even women who aren't getting any dont wanna hear "Look, i'm just trying fukk u and bounce :camby:"


The "dream" doesn't have to be something like "i'm gonna marry you:wow:"
It can be something as simple as "Lets go to dinner"... .then you end up taking her back to your place and... "Oh well since we're here :mjgrin:"



















Not that I endorse lying, i've never lied to a woman in my life :whoa:
 

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Breh, co-fukking-sign.

It's not just older women, though.

Women, mature women at whatever the breh's age who would be almost happy that a nikka was telling the truth instead of being on some ponzi scheme shyt.

the more brehs are truthful, the more women will be more genuine, also, about what they want.

I'll be damned if I gotta remember what I said to different chicks :scust:

When I was in Korea this married dude was fukking around, and he had a different name in every bar :mjlol:


This the heights some of you go through for a piece of ass :hhh:
 

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Okay... Let's be honest. Your goal is p*ssy, right?

So, I imagine you're trying to "sell the dream" until you get the p*ssy. shyt, maybe it's got firecrackers coming out of it and you're like, shyt, I need to try this more than once - now you have to continue selling the dream.

The lying you're doing before you get to your goal is going to have you trying to stay on top of your lies until you get it. If a professional athlete making millions could get stressed when he's lost a game...I'm sure you get stressed or anxiety when an open phone on the jawn's nightstand while you sleep might fukk up your whole plan.

The shyt that you'll be doing, the anxiety that you will be feeling in order to keep up the bullshyt is unnecessary energy.

You could either be a breh who has not an ounce of stress/anxiety wherever he leaves his phone or wherever he's seen by friends of the jawns you are involved with.

Or you could be the nikka jumping over restaurants booth seats trying to hide from a side chick number 2 who thinks she is going to spend the rest of her life with you or sweating when you can't find your phone walking from a jawn's crib.

Not only that, nikkas don't even realize they are basically accepting the fact that the specific target of their hustle would not fukk with them if not for the lies. That's low key embarrassing when you think about it.

Regardless, we are just discussing the topic, breh. I'm not trying to convert you or anything extra. Do you. :hubie:

No thanks. Give this advice to women when they avoid telling you their actual body count.
 

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eh....

I'm gonna be straight with you breh, even women who aren't getting any dont wanna hear "Look, i'm just trying fukk u and bounce :camby:"

Not that direct breh :mjlol:

Something as easily as "we can be on some chill shyt and have fun every now and again" is straight up and don't have the chick feeling some type of way. It's very surprising how much chicks are about that shyt :blessed:
 

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eh....

I'm gonna be straight with you breh, even women who aren't getting any dont wanna hear "Look, i'm just trying fukk u and bounce :camby:"


The "dream" doesn't have to be something like "i'm gonna marry you:wow:"
It can be something as simple as "Lets go to dinner"... .then you end up taking her back to your place and... "Oh well since we're here :mjgrin:"



















Not that I endorse lying, i've never lied to a woman in my life :whoa:
Breh,

I respect the reply. I definitely agree with you, especially the bolded.

But that's the thing, is it really that radical to be of the opinion that the women who aren't down for the shyt you are genuinely down with have a reasonable stance and you should just move on the the next one gracefully?

It's a low key dirty game to be playing Get p*ssy or Lie Trying, breh. It's crazy because the more I talk about it in this thread, the more introspection I get regarding my past. Like, fukk, I was on some grimey disrespectful shyt.

We don't see anything wrong with the thought process of: 1) She is bad, I want to fukk! 2) shyt, she looks like she wouldn't want to fukk with me if I wasn't interested in exploring a committed relationship. 3)fukk it, I need that p*ssy, I'm going to get it whether I'm being myself or if I have to be the nikka she has a right to be looking for!

Again, there are women who want a relationship, women who want something that could be a committed relationship, women who just want some dikk from a nikka that makes her wet when she looks at him and women who may want these things at different times.

Go for the women you don't have to lie to. :yeshrug:
 

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Breh,

I respect the reply. I definitely agree with you, especially the bolded.

But that's the thing, is it really that radical to be of the opinion that the women who aren't down for the shyt you are genuinely down with have a reasonable stance and you should just move on the the next one gracefully?

It's a low key dirty game to be playing Get p*ssy or Lie Trying, breh. It's crazy because the more I talk about it in this thread, the more introspection I get regarding my past. Like, fukk, I was on some grimey disrespectful shyt.

We don't see anything wrong with the thought process of: 1) She is bad, I want to fukk! 2) shyt, she looks like she wouldn't want to fukk with me if I wasn't interested in exploring a committed relationship. 3)fukk it, I need that p*ssy, I'm going to get it whether I'm being myself or if I have to be the nikka she has a right to be looking for!

Again, there are women who want a relationship, women who want something that could be a committed relationship, women who just want some dikk from a nikka that makes her wet when she looks at him and women who may want these things at different times.

Go for the women you don't have to lie to. :yeshrug:

That would be nice if women weren't a$$holes. Never met one so they do not exist.
 

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No thanks. Give this advice to women when they avoid telling you their actual body count.
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You know what's funny. I purposefully didn't go down the path of saying, "You shouldn't lie to women because we need to respect our women!" because brehs would just dead my shyt by saying I'm just simping.

Although, that's a part of me growing up a little, I do believe that... that's actually not my overarching point.

A woman telling the truth about how many men she's slept with has no bearing on my point that the goal should be "less stress for my coli brethren."

Me proselytizing to women about the benefits of telling the truth about her past is not helpful for my point. (Funny thing, though, I'd imagine women may lie about their body count because immature nikkas may or have condemned her as a slut regardless of knowing the context.)

All I'm saying is being upfront about what you want can actually save you time and energy.

Think about it...you said "selling the dream" could mean saying we are going to dinner but taking a detour towards the house on some, "welp, since we're here."

nikka, how about being upfront and she's thinking the same thing as you and you didn't even have to waste the gas or fake planning to drive in the direction of the restaurant in the first place!

I'm spending a week's conversation talking about life, bullshyt, jokes and how I'm going to give her some grade A dikk and finding my way to her crib.

The other option is spending a week's conversation talking about forced shyt just to sweep her off her feet, fake looking up restaurants, and working on the best way to "welp" fall into the p*ssy after the detour.

The truth is like Geico with relationships. It'll save you 15% on the bullshyt you would have lied about. :pachaha:
 

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Some of us are just out here starting the rookie rounds in the 18-22 pool :mjcry:


Help me brehs I’m struggling:huhldup:


Tryna attract them hipster broads :snoop:
 

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:jbhmm:

You know what's funny. I purposefully didn't go down the path of saying, "You shouldn't lie to women because we need to respect our women!" because brehs would just dead my shyt by saying I'm just simping.

Although, that's a part of me growing up a little, I do believe that... that's actually not my overarching point.

A woman telling the truth about how many men she's slept with has no bearing on my point that the goal should be "less stress for my coli brethren."

Me proselytizing to women about the benefits of telling the truth about her past is not helpful for my point. (Funny thing, though, I'd imagine women may lie about their body count because immature nikkas may or have condemned her as a slut regardless of knowing the context.)

All I'm saying is being upfront about what you want can actually save you time and energy.

Think about it...you said "selling the dream" could mean saying we are going to dinner but taking a detour towards the house on some, "welp, since we're here."

nikka, how about being upfront and she's thinking the same thing as you and you didn't even have to waste the gas or fake planning to drive in the direction of the restaurant in the first place!

I'm spending a week's conversation talking about life, bullshyt, jokes and how I'm going to give her some grade A dikk and finding my way to her crib.

The other option is spending a week's conversation talking about forced shyt just to sweep her off her feet, fake looking up restaurants, and working on the best way to "welp" fall into the p*ssy after the detour.

The truth is like Geico with relationships. It'll save you 15% on the bullshyt you would have lied about. :pachaha:
Breh is dropping some wisdom :wow:

I didn't figure all of this out until I lied to a girl who ended up SOMEHOW :yeshrug:being my girlfriend for 2 years who I consistently cheated on which blew up in my face which made me realize I wasted so much of this chicks time...and it wasn't worth anywhere NEAR the amount of psycho shyt I had to endure from her:what:. I definitely matured from that :mjgrin:
 
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