Anyone Else have problems with intimacy or empathy?

[↓R↑LYB]

Fully loving someone and doing anything you can for them? Showing them you do care? Or that you understand and show them support when they're in trouble? I honestly say that it's a number of things for me: depression, no self-esteem, lack of affection, etc. how y'all?

I don't have a problem showing people I care, it's just that most the time I really don't mean it.

Like I'll do something super nice for my girl......
Then have a one night stand with some random bytch I met at the club and not use a condom..........
Then fukk my girl 2 days later......

But hey, we all gotta day one day, and bytch is coming with me

 

[The 2020 New Member]

this young man had felt colder than ice many times before. this was something the poster was all to familiar with. however, billy ironically felt empathy for the OP.

 

[Illuminatos]

Selfishness gets such a bad rap. I mean at the end of the day all you got is yourself.

 

[b@squ1@t]

yessir OP

i have major issues with intimacy

buuuuut...ive been diagnosed with PTSD and several other disorders

my life is lowkey fukked up when it comes to "love"

crazy thing is ive smashed over a hundred chicks but im not capable of a legit relationship

its funny too cause i stay havin women sweatin me..im just lightweight sociopathic tho


the things i say only on the internet

 

[The Nigerian]

Fully loving someone and doing anything you can for them? Showing them you do care? Or that you understand and show them support when they're in trouble? I honestly say that it's a number of things for me: depression, no self-esteem, lack of affection, etc. how y'all?

I've yet to fully emotionally invest in a female. Way too big of a risk. I make sure that my happiness is a personal thing and not at the mercy of some woman's fickle sense of attachment or loyalty.

 

[BocaRear]

When it comes to females I'll convince myself I need that broad, but when I get her I'm disgusted by her. That feeling of when a broad really loves you is just to me.

The chase > getting the girl

 

[yo moms]

im emotionally retarded/broke.

 

[DemureNatural]

You, my friend, most likely have antisocial personality disorder. I got it too, I don't think I truly love/care for anyone

@Batz there's always therapy! You haven't lived until you've loved and been loved!

 

[x2y]

When it comes to females I'll convince myself I need that broad, but when I get her I'm disgusted by her. That feeling of when a broad really loves you is just to me.

The chase > getting the girl

I felt the same way about my last 2 relationships.

 

[BocaRear]

I felt the same way about my last 2 relationships.

when you know you have that much power over a broad's feelings

 

[no.]

Sometimes I pride myself on being so independent, but other times I'm sad that everyone is so disposable. I've got my family, my mother and father and grandmother and cousins who I love very much, but everyone else in my life? I wouldn't mind not ever seeing them again. Not one tear shed. Just indifference. That is not normal.

And in relationships in particular, no matter how much I like a guy, there's always this voice in my head that goes ''I was fine before him and I will be fine after him.'' Post-break up, I just kept going. And there's a certain security in that sense of self-assurance, that I don't know yet if I'm willing to sacrifice for some starstruck fantasy of undying love and devotion.

I don't know if one day I'm ever going to be able to say ''I can't live without you'', but I do want to find someone who I can share my life with, one day at a time. And I guess with time we could build something.

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

empathy for things/people i shouldnt and not so much for people/things i should

i have trust issues more then anything

 

[Matt504]

thread has potential to reach Gold or Platinum levels.

I appreciate the brutal honesty brehs.

 

[x2y]

when you know you have that much power over a broad's feelings

Word broads be like you're so cold, you never tell me you love me, you don't call me by sweet names...

 

[BocaRear]

Word broads be like you're so cold, you never tell me you love me, you don't call me by sweet names...

I think it's prolly once you get the girl it's just a boost to the ego and once you have it it's all