Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

[K-Deini]

About to be on a date now and she already ten mins late

 

[Bossino]

About to be on a date now and she already ten mins late

Took a broad who approached me at work last week on a date earlier today (I'm 23 she's 32). She was 20 mins late. She was apologetic and I could tell she's has issues with nervousness/anxiety. I'll be beating later in the week, I had to screen her though, because at this point I'm slick picky on fukking now

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Ehh I'm a average looking single dad of three. They type of chicks that I aren't checking for me. Even when I do match with a baddie, they quickly unmatch when they find out about the kids.

Play dirty and don't say anything about the kids.

 

[Neuromancer]

Had another girl I invested like 8 months in and things didn't work out. The investment of money, time, emotions, it's just becoming way too much and it's just an extreme letdown when it ends. I'm just kinda at the point where I'd rather fukk women with no attachment because relationships are way too difficult. I'm jaded honestly because I really liked both....honestly I loved the one girl who I spent 8 months talking to.

I can see why dudes hate spending money. Women have to make less investments in dating. Tbh shyt gonna get bad if prostitution becomes legal.

 

[Neuromancer]

Took a broad who approached me at work last week on a date earlier today (I'm 23 she's 32). She was 20 mins late. She was apologetic and I could tell she's has issues with nervousness/anxiety. I'll be beating later in the week, I had to screen her though, because at this point I'm slick picky on fukking now

I wish women asked me out. #average gang.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Good shyt bro. First date? Where ya'll went? What does she do?

Yeah first date. Been talking for like a month, had her on my Snapchat for a while but I felt intimidated. I just shot my shot one day while she was sulking.

Movie theater by her spot cause she live an hour away from me and it was late af. We had that particular movie room or whatever you call it to ourselves. We ended up talking a lot and laughing.

Afterwards we talked in the car parked at her spot for like 4 hours yet shyt felt like 30 mins. She lives with her grandparents anyways and wants to take it slow. I never had chemistry this good with any woman. Work from home customer service shyt.

 

[semicko82]

Seems like most modern women want the guy who already has everything together ( high value man)or the guy they want to build up. The middle of the road guy gets the short end of the stick

 

[The ADD]

Seems like most modern women want the guy who already has everything together ( high value man)or the guy they want to build up. The middle of the road guy gets the short end of the stick

What makes up “middle of the road”

 

[Bossino]

I wish women asked me out. #average gang.

I swear I'm average gang, I just cleaned up diet which led to dropped body fat and clearer skin. This also leaned my face and sharpened my jaw lines/facial features. I'm 5'8'' 150, I want to get to 165-170 at my current 10-12% body fat but I have far to slow a metabolism, and don't eat nearly enough to put on mass (once twice a day). I need to be more consistent with workouts, protein, and sleep. I will buy a few plates for my home bench by next week, weight I'm doing now is too light. That plus knowing how to get clothes with the right fit, forget swag, it just properly complementing your figure goes a long way too.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah first date. Been talking for like a month, had her on my Snapchat for a while but I felt intimidated. I just shot my shot one day while she was sulking.

Movie theater by her spot cause she live an hour away from me and it was late af. We had that particular movie room or whatever you call it to ourselves. We ended up talking a lot and laughing.

Afterwards we talked in the car parked at her spot for like 4 hours yet shyt felt like 30 mins. She lives with her grandparents anyways and wants to take it slow. I never had chemistry this good with any woman. Work from home customer service shyt.

That's good bro. Keep that going. Slow ain't bad sometimes it makes things more soild.

 

[Bossino]

I can see why dudes hate spending money. Women have to make less investments in dating. Tbh shyt gonna get bad if prostitution becomes legal.

The whole reason it isn't in America is they know families/births would drop drastically--> no kids ---> lessened consumerism and potential workers for bs/dead end jobs ---> capitalism goes caput

 

[semicko82]

What makes up “middle of the road”

Blue collar workers, students, average looking guys, lame educated guys

 

[Redguard]

I gave up trying to date a couple of years ago and haven’t looked back. I occasionally get the longing to try again, will get to talking to women at my job on a casual tip, hear their mindsets and what they’re currently putting their significant other through (while seeing NOTHING wrong with how they’re acting and taking ZERO accountability for their role in the turbulence in the relationship), and I’m quickly snapped back to the reality and reason I gave up dating to start with.

Before I say this, let me begin by saying. I do NOT hate women. No one has hurt me. I just came to a sudden realization and had an epiphany one day. Everything just became so clear to me. Women are a distraction and a drain on resources. Those resources to include money (the most obvious one and most talked about), time and peace of mind (the most important ones to me). They’re literally never satisfied. The more you give em, the more they want. Always manufacturing some shyt in their head to be upset or in crisis mode about. And I just eventually grew tired of that shyt. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore. Women these days don’t wanna please and be a helpmate to a man like women’s past. These bytches wanna BE men. Smh. Y’all can have it. I turned in my player’s card. I had my fun. fukked and dealt with PLENTY of women in my youth and wouldn’t have ANY of those hoes back if they came gift wrapped and holding 10 stacks. I don’t miss ANY of them hoes. They were nothing but headaches and constant drama. I’m good. I choose solitude. I choose peace. I choose keeping my resources in the green instead of letting some nothing ass bytch with nothing but used p*ssy, bad energy and another nikkas b*stard kids drain me to the red….

We underestimate the value of peace of mind. Get involved with the wrong woman and your finances and mental health will deteriorate.

 

[RAX 010]

I'm engaged but we about to be single maybe...
This shyt is stressful as fukk

 

[semicko82]

I'm engaged but we about to be single maybe...
This shyt is stressful as fukk

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