Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

[GoAggieGo.]

I took the advice of the OGs above me and just decided on getting myself right, and building up my empire. When I’m ready, I’ll get back in to try and find a wife.

Honestly, I’m more than likely going to try to work things out with my BM. She’s made some changes, and since I got a kid with her, I’m like I might need to make it work with her. As long as she keeps improving, I think i want her back. There was a reason I chose her to begin with. She was there from the start when we were both grinding it out as 21/22 year olds.

 

[Thanos]

I don't feel anything for anybody, We focusing on bread.

 

[Mastamimd]

Nooooo. Nope! Had a close call but nah.
Maybe one day tho. I think marriage is beautiful. But fukking terrifying.

Preach lol

 

[Big D Bangston]

Not dating. By choice.

working on me physically and financially

 

[Project Pooch]

I’m honestly just focused on improving myself , like starting a career, getting my body right etc

before I jump back in the game

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Yikes. Sounds like dude was a dumbass. How’d u meet him?

At this little local bakery in my city called Amelies. I was doing some writing and he caught me in line ordering some food. He’s not a bad guy. Just not who I vibe with. He kept trying to explain shyt to me like he was my guide to non-blk culture.

 

[TRUEST]

I took the advice of the OGs above me and just decided on getting myself right, and building up my empire. When I’m ready, I’ll get back in to try and find a wife.

Honestly, I’m more than likely going to try to work things out with my BM. She’s made some changes, and since I got a kid with her, I’m like I might need to make it work with her. As long as she keeps improving, I think i want her back. There was a reason I chose her to begin with. She was there from the start when we were both grinding it out as 21/22 year olds.

Go tell her that. Lay out for her the rules of the glue that can make your bond inseparable.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I cant see any real masculine man who would enjoy dating in todays world, dating in 2021 is basically for simps. Women nowadays would rather be men then women.

Most modern women are emotionally burnt out from dating by the time there 21, that's the world where living in people are growing up to fast.

growing up fast? hardly

my grandmother prolly had 4 kids by 21

we are burnt out from the state of the world but maturity is highly lacking for example most millenials can't even afford their own homes so they have delayed maturity to an extent. can't have kids and a wife, can't afford em.

less adults are sexually active now than ever in recorded history.

and a major portion of the ones that are active are versed in hook up culture not relationships.. big difference. Some dudes think they playboys and they ain't had they first heartbreak in life yet as adults. I know a lot of men like this. just cuz they was getting ass don't mean they learned much about women

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

I took the advice of the OGs above me and just decided on getting myself right, and building up my empire. When I’m ready, I’ll get back in to try and find a wife.

Honestly, I’m more than likely going to try to work things out with my BM. She’s made some changes, and since I got a kid with her, I’m like I might need to make it work with her. As long as she keeps improving, I think i want her back. There was a reason I chose her to begin with. She was there from the start when we were both grinding it out as 21/22 year olds.

I fux with this post

Blessings to your endeavors

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I definatley have way less sex now than I did at 18



I got my own home and scared to fukk new nikkas on the bed me and my baby daddy used to share

Being a ho with morals is

 

[Krisrunner2049]

I definatley have way less sex now than I did at 18



I got my own home and scared to fukk new nikkas on the bed me and my baby daddy used to share

Being a ho with morals is

Drop the addy and I’ll fix that, brehette

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

I just let it come to.me nowadays
I ain't forcing nothing ever again just cold approaching.

I pull them easily but It doesn't go where I want sometimes and it feel like such a waste of everything.

Use to give bytches 2 weeks but I pulled it back to a week cause I get in my feels when shyt don't work out


I be pulling bad lil hotties so it hurt to let go sometimes lmao.fukk yall

 

[DaddyFresh]

These women ain’t wives. Too much goin on in the world. The p*ssy allure is gone.

This. Trying to find a wifey is zero to none. Social media corrupted the potential small market because it turned every female into a narcissistic delusional sociopath. Every girl thinks they the main character in a movie . I would recommend dating casually and don’t ever get overly invested financially or emotionally.

 

[Bossino]

Any of you single dudes actively not dating women at the moment and if not how comes?

I'm not none are up to par, modern women are so far from what I watched my mother do for my father as well as myself and brother that I'm just uninterested. Occasionally I want sex, but I mostly just work, workout and sleep.

I'm also done chasing, been off it a couple years, if she sends choosing signs and I'm in a good enough mood I'll engage. But frankly I'm disinterested in women in aggregate

 

[Fanservice]

I don’t really “date” anymore. Every relationship feels like a waste of your time when things end, and things eventually will end.

As much as I wish I could find the “perfect” women for me and start a family with her, that shyt is way easier said than done. Women are just too emotional and difficult to please. You can do a million things right in a relationship and they’ll focus on and leave you over one thing you did wrong. I just can’t do it anymore.

Best thing I ever did was befriend this thot and her stripper friend. I just text them every other weekend asking if they wanna chill, smoke and do whatever. I enjoy this situation a lot more than taking women out to dinner and pretending to be interested in their hobbies and career