Anyone here scared to talk to females?

[1stPick]

He's only nervous around dating/sex prospects. If he met an older chick he wanted he'd probably clam up to.

It could also be that since it was girls his own age dissing him growing up that would could explain why he's nervous around them. When I was super shy I was more comfortable around older women too.

Makes sense. Its usually white and black girls who make him nervous to. Those races are probably the ones that played him

 

[Suicide King]

No, that's not normal at all. It sounds like he has anxiety issues and definitely has low self esteem. Being afraid to look others in the face, eye contact and being anxious are all signs of high anxiety. He needs to find ways to combat his anxiety symptoms and then become more used to interacting with females. It's not just about approaching them since not every guy is obligated to care about that, but it still matters for general social skills purposes.

Yep, he should resolve his issues first, before hollering a females.

Guys who think like #ElliotRodgers always think the love of a woman will change their life.

 

[Eczema]

feels

 

[the cac mamba]

was he abused as a a child, scared to smile they called him ugly

 

[1stPick]

Yep, he should resolve his issues first, before hollering a females.

Guys who think like #ElliotRodgers always think the love of a woman will change their life.

nice username

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

He will get over it (or at least in hope so). All it takes is one female to alter his perception of himself. I use to get nervous as well, that is when it came to talking to a girl I like. Just finding the right words and saying something to properly express myself. I'd also talk indirectly or in a roundabout way instead of expressing myself fully. I still don't until the time comes, but in the past I'd be more anxious about it and my timing would be off. It's comes from fear of reject I suppose. He might just have general social anxiety too, typically it's not just a "i can't look at females" problem. If you have a hard time with one sex, you probably have problems with both.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

I tried to holla at a joint in the mall today and got shot down
No biggie life goes on. I could be sitting here wondering what if.......
Just gotta take the chance. One of these days ill run into one that will be with it.

 

[Dwolf]

Little cousin huh

 

[1stPick]

Little cousin huh

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

I've been where your cousin is except not to that extent. Growing up I was a fat kid who got made fun of all the time. Played football in high school got in shape, but took a ton of shyt for other reasons. I thought I was the ugliest dude ever had no confidence.... Then one day I said to a friend that I thought I was ugly. He came back at me and said "My mom seems to think you're actually a really good looking guy man."

That changed everything for me for some reason. All it took was one person that wasn't a family member to pay a complement and for it to be sincere. I attempted to start talking to women, and got good at it over time to the point that people call me charming now. Also being damn good looking helps. Tell him to hit the gym or find something he's passionate about and get good at it.

Kids are fukking cruel man, and that kind of shyt can really fukk you up. I'm tougher for it now, but there was a time where depression was a way of life for me.

 

[1stPick]

I've been where your cousin is except not to that extent. Growing up I was a fat kid who got made fun of all the time. Played football in high school got in shape, but took a ton of shyt for other reasons. I thought I was the ugliest dude ever had no confidence.... Then one day I said to a friend that I thought I was ugly. He came back at me and said "My mom seems to think you're actually a really good looking guy man."

That changed everything for me for some reason. All it took was one person that wasn't a family member to pay a complement and for it to be sincere. I attempted to start talking to women, and got good at it over time to the point that people call me charming now. Also being damn good looking helps. Tell him to hit the gym or find something he's passionate about and get good at it.

Kids are fukking cruel man, and that kind of shyt can really fukk you up. I'm tougher for it now, but there was a time where depression was a way of life for me.

agreed

 

[Smoke]

This ugly life not for the weak hearted

 

[Music Fiend]

Used to be me.

Honestly the dude just needs a challenging routine.

Its the only way.I highly doubt its just females, he's likely socially incompetent. What changed my life was changing my routine. i did lose weight, start the gym and that helps but it can also hinder you. Soon as you start to slip or lose gains you'll feel the same. u gotta get comfortable with yourself.

I stopped staying inside, and started joining things. And just walking around to different places. I also started hanging with more social people. Before I knew it, women were hitting on me and I went from 0 confidence to some hood level of arrogance.

I remember when i finally got confident, I would lowkey talk to a chick for 5 minutes, and hit her with the, so when we fukking? my place or your place? still had 0 game then but I started to pull.

Just gotta get homie to realize people see him differently than he seems himself.

I've been where your cousin is except not to that extent. Growing up I was a fat kid who got made fun of all the time. Played football in high school got in shape, but took a ton of shyt for other reasons. I thought I was the ugliest dude ever had no confidence.... Then one day I said to a friend that I thought I was ugly. He came back at me and said "My mom seems to think you're actually a really good looking guy man."

That changed everything for me for some reason. All it took was one person that wasn't a family member to pay a complement and for it to be sincere. I attempted to start talking to women, and got good at it over time to the point that people call me charming now. Also being damn good looking helps. Tell him to hit the gym or find something he's passionate about and get good at it.

Kids are fukking cruel man, and that kind of shyt can really fukk you up. I'm tougher for it now, but there was a time where depression was a way of life for me.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

A nikka that's scared to get p*ssy is scared to get $ too.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

get that boy a gym membership