Apparently Deante Kyle (Grits & Eggs Pod) Got the Internet Mad about “Accountability”

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but that shyt isnt launched at any other group, and considering the rate at which black men vote democrat, its insane that belittling is a used tactic

Why would be focused on non-blacks? Black folks working against us need to be stomped out. It just so happens that more black men do it but black women who c00n get it too

 

[High Art]

This guy is full of it and his message pointless. If you are going to proselytize to me, at least be persuasive lest you find yourself preaching instead to your already faithful and not reaching anyone. Seriously. When you craft and put out a message, you need to understand who it is for and what action are you trying to gain. The problem is that this message is for no one other than people who already agree (and thus it is useless because the action you are hoping to gain has already been implemented and that action is not working or you would not be putting out said message in the first place). It's not for people who disagree because there's literally nothing in his message that is persuasive enough nor truly acknowledges the realities that many black men face nor does it acknowledge those for whom the message may not be for. I'm not even going into how expects this accountability to take shape or how he expects the actions of another man to be policed when the people who are supposed to be policed are, by virtue of needing policing, are not people who are amendable to any accountability in the first place, unless he wants roving gangs of accountability mobs in which case, I don't know what to tell you.

I'll further say that it feels like they are trying to pull a Dr. Umar and spread the blame of the issues in the black community to good, law-abiding black men and, by extension, claim they are to blame for the ills of the black community due to them not holding people accountable enough, reminiscent of a scorned woman mad at black men for not playing clean-up man. They are mad that many of these black men are focusing on their own lives instead of killing themselves for some who would view them as lame or something to that affect. It's a subversive shaming tactic with an ounce of shame that, if they had the latter, would not be saying such things. shyt like this is why dudes keep heading over to the right.

 

[O.Red]

This guy is full of it and his message pointless. If you are going to proselytize to me, at least be persuasive lest you find yourself preaching instead to your already faithful and not reaching anyone. Seriously. When you craft and put out a message, you need to understand who it is for and what action are you trying to gain. The problem is that this message is for no one other than people who already agree (and thus it is useless because the action you are hoping to gain has already been implemented and that action is not working or you would not be putting out said message in the first place). It's not for people who disagree because there's literally nothing in his message that is persuasive enough nor truly acknowledges the realities that many black men face nor does it acknowledge those for whom the message may not be for. I'm not even going into how expects this accountability to take shape or how he expects the actions of another man to be policed when the people who are supposed to be policed are, by virtue of needing policing, are not people who are amendable to any accountability in the first place, unless he wants roving gangs of accountability mobs in which case, I don't know what to tell you.

I'll further say that it feels like they are trying to pull a Dr. Umar and spread the blame of the issues in the black community to good, law-abiding black men and, by extension, claim they are to blame for the ills of the black community due to them not holding people accountable enough, reminiscent of a scorned woman mad at black men for not playing clean-up man. They are mad that many of these black men are focusing on their own lives instead of killing themselves for some who would view them as lame or something to that affect. It's a subversive shaming tactic with an ounce of shame that, if they had the latter, would not be saying such things. shyt like this is why dudes keep heading over to the right.

This ain't even touching on the fact that prisons and graveyards are filled with black men that crashed out because their sister/girlfriend called on them to attack or kill someone

 

[parallax]

Why would be focused on non-blacks? Black folks working against us need to be stomped out. It just so happens that more black men do it but black women who c00n get it too

not at the rates that they do black men. people still put their heads in the sand when it comes to black women saying fukked up shyt. if that were the case there would be a lot more people going after swirlers who call black men bulletbags and wish death on black boys and to abort black male children. a lot of cats are willing to outright ignore these dusty ass women rather than call them out for it. you see it here all the time.

and the reason i mention other groups is that we see that other groups supported trump at a much higher rate and yet even in the end, they werent belittled at the same rate. it makes me think that black people take amusement in belittling black men

 

[Don Snow]

I’d love to hear 3-5 examples where you believe he’s pandering to substantiate your first statement.

That’s how I feel regarding the accountability statement hence why I said start, I also expressed how I rock with him and honestly I agree with most of his takes



But this statement below is crazy



"you may know how to take rejection, the majority of men that most women deal with do not...AND YOU ARE ACCOUNTABLE FOR THAT AS WELL"



I don’t agree with that and I hope his content doesn’t continue in this general direction

 

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not at the rates that they do black men. people still put their heads in the sand when it comes to black women saying fukked up shyt. if that were the case there would be a lot more people going after swirlers who call black men bulletbags and wish death on black boys and to abort black male children. a lot of cats are willing to outright ignore these dusty ass women rather than call them out for it. you see it here all the time.

and the reason i mention other groups is that we see that other groups supported trump at a much higher rate and yet even in the end, they werent belittled at the same rate. it makes me think that black people take amusement in belittling black men

Women saying that should be publicly shamed

 

[It is a mystery]

Even if you were to swap the genders, he'd still be wrong

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

I was just going to make a genuine heartfelt take, then it occurred to me a that a no neck, double chinned breh is talking about accountability.

Breh isn't accountable about his calorie intake.

 

[David_TheMan]

Accountability doesn't have to be tied to others being held accountable at all. Single mother nonsense is like that is why some folks will always be at the bottom.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

That’s how I feel regarding the accountability statement hence why I said start, I also expressed how I rock with him and honestly I agree with most of his takes



But this statement below is crazy



"you may know how to take rejection, the majority of men that most women deal with do not...AND YOU ARE ACCOUNTABLE FOR THAT AS WELL"



I don’t agree with that and I hope his content doesn’t continue in this general direction

I don't think he means we as black men are all to blame, but we should give grace to women, due to the bad actors among us and their reactions to rejection.

Hence him parallelling it with racism from white people.

All white people aren't gonna be bad. Full stop.

But due to our history with them, who can blame us for thinking otherwise?

 

[The Burger King]

I’m not familiar with dude. If he’s saying “some men can handle rejection, while others can’t, but women have to be careful when interacting with ALL men” then OK that makes sense.

But if he’s parroting that Dr. Umar “all black men are responsible for what Pookie and Ray Ray does” nonsense, then he’s wrong and it doesn’t require any explanation as to why.

Either way, I couldn’t sit through too much of any of the videos. Dude is a little too “sassy” in his delivery for my tastes.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

No one pushing gender wars between Black prople is a good person with genuine intentions

 

[GreenGhxst]

Gender wars and circular logic will never go away

Y'all don't get tired of this same shyt

 

[HimmyHendrix]

but we should give grace to women, due to the bad actors among us and their reactions to rejection.

where are the numbers that support this?

 

[Zero]

id be mad too if I came for some grits and eggs and got some gender babble