Ain’t no way I’m falling off to that level having a bytch grabbing my face…. Look at me. That ain’t a life I would ever want to live relying on a chick to make it

scust.
Women have changed from dating and marrying men who are above them... older, more mature, financially better, mentally and emotionally better etc.
To dating their equals and dudes who are lesser.
This way woman don't have to be better, and there's no one to hold them to a higher standard.
It also gives them control. And no matter what he accomplishes, she can always say "I made you....or I helped you get there".
I remember this video in OP.
That's the way mother's talk to their son.
Not to a man they respect.
Like you said a man should never ever be in this position as a man.. or ok with this. A woman should never feel like she needs to do this.
If she ever feels like she needs to talk to you like this.. In the words of thecoli gmb nikkaz. "You share that woman"