NelsonSwagdela
All Star
It's not. But when it's used as a backhanded compliment and used in a condescending way, that's when it becomes insulting.
Exactly my appearance is on point, I'm at the same job or school as you and yet its a surprise that I can speak well? I've literally had people gasp at me because of my vocab and manners. Unless you're doing the same time you talk to every white person shyts offensive.