how does your family view black people as a whole?
how did they view your relationship?
im not trying to connect dots or prove anything
im just interest to know
Approach A Chick On POF. She Said She Doesnt Date Her Race?
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how did they view your relationship?
im not trying to connect dots or prove anything
im just interest to know
i respect that. every one has a specific way of doing things
what works for some wont for others. i wont get into self validation tho
do you slime
Desirous
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I don't divulge into private information about my life on this site. To keep it simple, I've never had issues regarding anyone I have dated, no matter what his race is.
Because of this thread, I went and poked around POF. When did all these attractive women decide to join?
I looked around that site a while back, and it was nothing but scustastic thotties.
I looked around that site a while back, and it was nothing but scustastic thotties.
OG_StankBrefs
Da Spice...
It's bof fascinatin and disturbin how people develop dese kinda warped perspectives.
Just like...how?
Just like...how?
im asking a simple ass question lol
no need to get politcal with ya answer
if ya family racist just be honest about it
the last girl i messed with was completely honest with me. told me her mom hated that i was talking to her. her brothers fukked with me.
Because of this thread, I went and poked around POF. When did all these attractive women decide to join?
I looked around that site a while back, and it was nothing but scustastic thotties.
just a pile of sh*t giftwrapped
Desirous
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I answered your question...
What does MY family, who I date, etc. have to do with your life though? Unless you and I are "dating" it's not your business. If this girl isn't attracted to you for whatever her reason may be (whether or not you like it, understand it, etc), it's just not something worth worrying about...life is too short for that.
Imma be real, she didn't put down black men at all. She simply said she wasn't interested.
Self-Hate by definition means she finds fault in herself. It doesn't mean herself and people like her. Ethnic self hatred would.
1. We don't know her life, we only know this snippet, and The Coli bias for anyone saying something like she did automatically means she will be demonized.
Is the prevailing preference on the coli to date only blacks a form of ethnic love, or simply a hatred for others? We can't have it both ways.
2. Again, she never put down black men, and she made a fair arguement. She might be in love with alabaster skin, square jawed, Calvin Klein model types. What is wrong with that?
Granted, I can never understand writing off dating people simply because of their skin color or ethnic background, as it seems silly for me to say "I dont date black girls/indian girls/white girls/etc" when I find all kinds attractive. That said, her preference to not date them doesn't make her bad, especially if she didn't go on a tangent about the lazy and disrespectful Tyrones and Deshawns of the world.
She might very well love herself, she just don't find particular features of black men attractive. I typically don't find flat butts attractive, whether on white or black women, but its more prevalent on white women. Does writing off a white woman with a flat butt make me racist, and not accepting a flat butt sista me exhibiting self hate? I think this term is being used as a weapon and not a diagnosis.
Self-Hate by definition means she finds fault in herself. It doesn't mean herself and people like her. Ethnic self hatred would.
1. We don't know her life, we only know this snippet, and The Coli bias for anyone saying something like she did automatically means she will be demonized.
Is the prevailing preference on the coli to date only blacks a form of ethnic love, or simply a hatred for others? We can't have it both ways.
2. Again, she never put down black men, and she made a fair arguement. She might be in love with alabaster skin, square jawed, Calvin Klein model types. What is wrong with that?
Granted, I can never understand writing off dating people simply because of their skin color or ethnic background, as it seems silly for me to say "I dont date black girls/indian girls/white girls/etc" when I find all kinds attractive. That said, her preference to not date them doesn't make her bad, especially if she didn't go on a tangent about the lazy and disrespectful Tyrones and Deshawns of the world.
She might very well love herself, she just don't find particular features of black men attractive. I typically don't find flat butts attractive, whether on white or black women, but its more prevalent on white women. Does writing off a white woman with a flat butt make me racist, and not accepting a flat butt sista me exhibiting self hate? I think this term is being used as a weapon and not a diagnosis.
Desirous
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You took her preference too personally
post the profile though breh
