I aint trying to do all that and never listened to pua before.
Obviously and I wasnt gonna do that anyway. Im stuck in Manhattan for a couple hours for school, my nikkas aint here so i soon may start doing this:
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Obviously and I wasnt gonna do that anyway. Im stuck in Manhattan for a couple hours for school, my nikkas aint here so i soon may start doing this:
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Eh, that only works if she's the type to make the first move. A lot of girls may be interested, but won't hit you up because they just don't want to call or text first.
PhonZhi
Veteran
Yep, get that initial "rejection" out the way and you'll get immune to it. You'll pull a few so the rejections won't mean shyt.
Matter fact the feeling of regret of NOT approaching is 10X worse than actually getting rejected.
Yeah If I had this mindset, I would be virgin until today.
Doing cold approach>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
This comes from a lookless broke ass nikka. After years cold approaching, You'll have no fear of rejection, sharp your game to the fullest etc.
OP walk me through some of your past attempts, keep it 100 
It's kinda cliche sounding but confidence is 100% the key, admittedly I don't often 100% cold approach, I usually approach women that I see more than a couple of times
See each other a few times, exchange glances, smile
Then one day 'Hey I keep seeing you around you live / work around here'
From there you just have to keep the convo going try to ask questions if you stuck.. you should be able to identify common ground
Travel to party destinations also helps greatly with confidence too, my recent trip to Vegas I was approaching groups with my phone out on some 'Whats good for tonight?' Someone always grabs the phone
*spoiler it was Drais every night 
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I came home and found it hard to turn it off
*Keep in mind if you go in 100% cold, after you get the number its a whole different game, more times than not she aint gonna reply
She prob gave out her number a bunch of times, she will reply if you got the sauce
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It's kinda cliche sounding but confidence is 100% the key, admittedly I don't often 100% cold approach, I usually approach women that I see more than a couple of times
See each other a few times, exchange glances, smile
Then one day 'Hey I keep seeing you around you live / work around here'
From there you just have to keep the convo going try to ask questions if you stuck.. you should be able to identify common ground
Travel to party destinations also helps greatly with confidence too, my recent trip to Vegas I was approaching groups with my phone out on some 'Whats good for tonight?' Someone always grabs the phone
*spoiler it was Drais every night *I came home and found it hard to turn it off
*Keep in mind if you go in 100% cold, after you get the number its a whole different game, more times than not she aint gonna reply
She prob gave out her number a bunch of times, she will reply if you got the sauce*
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Truth.
1st bolded = Good looking dudes can walk in anywhere and got chicks fiending for 'em. If you a regular breh like most of us, you ain't that, so don't try to do that. The success rate of cold approaches drops if you ain't the type of dude chicks schlick themselves to on Instagram or put up on they wallpapers.
2nd bolded = If you honestly don't give a fukk about being curved, you ain't care about your chances since at the end of the day you done got curved by 3 others and prolly hooked 2. If you got the ability to not dwell on shyt like that, then you can just hack away until you hit something.
3rd &4th bolded = Major importance. You ain't a head turner, you don't got that 'I don't give a fukk' attitude, you got feelings and ya heart is encased in paper towels. Give yourself a chance by making sure she has SOME interest in you, even if it's just polite eye contact and a silly grin. She responds with a grin or at the very most, a laugh.....shoot your shot.
Eye contact, smiling. When she makes herself available or gives u opportunity to approach. Most importantly if she says hi outta no whr im usually eating that body later.
VFib
All Star
How do you let a woman know you want to approach? Do you give off any signs? What if she didn't see you and you noticed her first?
just be real. let her you find her attractive. most women need to feel desired before they reciprocate
When it comes to woman its really a numbers game. U holla at a certain amount and a certain amount respond. Its gets better with time its seriously like gaining level in a game. U have to get some experience and keep tryin and u will get better . So u approach some woman and u may get shot down. But its cool u realize how shallow most people are so hit the gym and prefect yourself. Focus on learning skills that benefit u too add to the substance.. But honestly after you have reached a certian level u can tell a chick likes u when u start to talk to her u feel it.
Tips
When u see a chick just be natural and comment on something she is doing or what she got on.ICE BREAKER small talk complement in a respectful way then
go for the kill(get the number) and leave dont linger too much.
Watch alot of stand up comedy to get a sense of humor a little bit.
Hit the gym. Woman are still animals just like the rest of us. They canT ignore nature. Get inshape and you will do NUMBERS. IF U CANT GET TO A GYM WORK OUT AT HOME. DO PUSH UPS AND SIT UPS...AT LEAST 100 EACH
OVER COME THE FEAR woman are human too. If she sexy just picture her farting or something to kill the illusion of a goddess and knock her of the pedestal u put her on.
Get your money right if your young dont stress it that u arent whr u wanna be start now. Work a job or two grind learn code or a skill u like read on investing and finance.
Practice and have fun prob the most important thing (next to money and the gym) on here is to have fun and practice. Keep approaching females and dont take it to the heart if they reject some girls are loyal and have men or just are going thru shyt. Just laugh it off and keep it moving thr is a sexy girl is waiting to get hollered at... Good luck grasshopper...
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Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Cold approach is rare as hell for me. I need to get some kind of eye contact or body language first. Then I'll hit em with a subtle compliment if I'm able to exchange words.
Fied experience is king.
You gotta treat every rejection or every approach as 10/10
You can't judge yourself
Ohh it's a lot easier and you get less flake when you do it during the day
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
That 1st statement was awfully discouraging don't ya think
The rest of it is slightly accurate
I usually wait until I get some sort of eye contact or something before "cold approaching" ...
I like for her to at least see it coming a lil. Never sneak up on a woman. To me it doesn't matter how smooth you are sneaking up on her outta nowhere trying to holla makes an already guarded woman even more guarded. Which would make it even more difficult to score.
Worthless Loser
Blackpilled
I very rarely approach because im ugly as fukk honestly, but the times ive had ive had success due to personally, sarcastic humor and charm.
I don't know why dudes need to stop a female...just walk with them if their on the move and talk
