Approaching Women

[SheWantTheD]

That 1st statement was awfully discouraging don't ya think


The rest of it is slightly accurate

I usually wait until I get some sort of eye contact or something before "cold approaching" ...

I like for her to at least see it coming a lil. Never sneak up on a woman. To me it doesn't matter how smooth you are sneaking up on her outta nowhere trying to holla makes an already guarded woman even more guarded. Which would make it even more difficult to score.

No it isn't. Cold approaching is you approaching her with no signs of her wanting you to come over, liking what she sees, or even noticing you.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Yeah If I had this mindset, I would be virgin until today.

Doing cold approach>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


This comes from a lookless broke ass nikka. After years cold approaching, You'll have no fear of rejection, sharp your game to the fullest etc.

Do you know what cold approaching is? It's you approaching a woman that doesn't even know you were there until you approached her. I never said not to approach women, just don't cold approach if you don't have the above characteristics.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I don't know why dudes need to stop a female...just walk with them if their on the move and talk

Because that's creepy AF.

 

[Retired Account]

OP walk me through some of your past attempts, keep it 100

It's kinda cliche sounding but confidence is 100% the key, admittedly I don't often 100% cold approach, I usually approach women that I see more than a couple of times
See each other a few times, exchange glances, smile
Then one day 'Hey I keep seeing you around you live / work around here'
From there you just have to keep the convo going try to ask questions if you stuck.. you should be able to identify common ground

Travel to party destinations also helps greatly with confidence too, my recent trip to Vegas I was approaching groups with my phone out on some 'Whats good for tonight?' Someone always grabs the phone *spoiler it was Drais every night *
I came home and found it hard to turn it off

*Keep in mind if you go in 100% cold, after you get the number its a whole different game, more times than not she aint gonna reply She prob gave out her number a bunch of times, she will reply if you got the sauce*

Never approached outside of a party and havent gone to any lately. Cant travel anytime soon but im stuck in ny.

Do you know what cold approaching is? It's you approaching a woman that doesn't even know you were there until you approached her. I never said not to approach women, just don't cold approach if you don't have the above characteristics.

I changed the title to just approaching because i dont really know what that shyt means

 

[Marco Zen]

No it isn't. Cold approaching is you approaching her with no signs of her wanting you to come over, liking what she sees, or even noticing you.

Do you know what cold approaching is? It's you approaching a woman that doesn't even know you were there until you approached her. I never said not to approach women, just don't cold approach if you don't have the above characteristics.

Sneaking up on her???

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

Said most of this shyt in those other threads regarding this topic recently but idgaf.

1. I can't say it often enough: You dont need to be some fukkin model to have success with approaching. Selfe confidence, humor & talking skills are key. Its what makes women really interested in you like on some "This guy isnt like all them other dudes". I've seen plenty of dudes some would consider ugly etc. get play/taking home dimes. They just confident af and their game is on point. To make it even clearer there are lots of dudes girls would consider very good looking, but if they aint got no game its absolutely useless. Chicks wont be into you if you cant even talk to em/kick some jokes etc.

2. There are too many chances wasted on NOT approaching dimes at places outside of the club. If you get rejected , you prob wont see her again and its 1000times better than the feeling of "damn I shouldve approached her "


3. Especially go for dimes. They are usually happy to be approached because 9 outta 10 dudes are fukkin shook of them and dont approach. If you do it she'll be like "finally someone who isnt just creeping around me, starin me down n shyt"


4. Every rejection you get is just another step in sharpening your game, so go for it

 

[WaveGang]

Said most of this shyt in those other threads regarding this topic recently but idgaf.

1. I can't say it often enough: You dont need to be some fukkin model to have success with approaching. Selfe confidence, humor & talking skills are key. Its what makes women really interested in you like on some "This guy isnt like all them other dudes". I've seen plenty of dudes some would consider ugly etc. get play/taking home dimes. They just confident af and their game is on point. To make it even clearer there are lots of dudes girls would consider very good looking, but if they aint got no game its absolutely useless. Chicks wont be into you if you cant even talk to em/kick some jokes etc.

2. There are too many chances wasted on NOT approaching dimes at places outside of the club. If you get rejected , you prob wont see her again and its 1000times better than the feeling of "damn I shouldve approached her "


3. Especially go for dimes. They are usually happy to be approached because 9 outta 10 dudes are fukkin shook of them and dont approach. If you do it she'll be like "finally someone who isnt just creeping around me, starin me down n shyt"


4. Every rejection you get is just another step in sharpening your game, so go for it

To anyone who ain't got hoes, this is the Blueprint.

Sadly its only half the battle doe.

 

[WaveGang]

I wear glasses but don't wear them when out. Cold approaching is how I came in the game, can't see shyt anyway.

Because that's creepy AF.

It's only creepy if you ain't attractive. Rt

 

[mannyrs13]

Just go for it cuz if not you'll end up regretting it. You won't realize how easy it is until you do it consistently. Even if you fail, the feeling of confidence that it gives you is nice. You may think what's the worse that could happen. Only two things mostly, she says she has a boyfriend or husband or she says no and gives you the , if so then say fukk it and move on. You'll get over it quick. Don't put women on a pedestal. We're all equals out here, no matter what others may say.

Just go up to her and say something like hey, I'm God's gift to women , or your real name, and say you noticed her and were interested in getting to know her. Maybe drop a compliment or a bit of humor and go from there. Most women will let you down gently and rarely or never that I've seen, would one make a big scene. But that's why you approach when she's by herself or discreetly. Takes the pressure off dealing with a crowd or other people since you're just a beginner anyways. Can't be letting someone else ruin your game.

Go try, you never know what could happen. Look up some conversation starters or other guys suggestions and use those if you need to. But just be yourself.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

If you get rejected , you prob wont see her again and its 1000times better than the feeling of "damn I shouldve approached her "

The Coli really needs to stop with this narrative.

Not talking to some random chick on the street is not that serious.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Just talk to them

 

[FSP]

Conquering fear. Builds characters, builds confidence, and if she ends up liking you, then that's cherry on the cake

 

[#SOG_soldier]

i'd advise you not to approach random women on the street breh

go to a bar or lounge if you want to meet some chicks, they'll be way more open and easier to approach

Common sense. Who the hell wants to talk to a damn stranger in public. Only a complete thot would give you draws and y'all met on the streets

 

[FSP]

Common sense. Who the hell wants to talk to a damn stranger in public. Only a complete thot would give you draws and y'all met on the streets

Sounds like what I'm looking for

 

[4fossa]

Do you know what cold approaching is? It's you approaching a woman that doesn't even know you were there until you approached her. I never said not to approach women, just don't cold approach if you don't have the above characteristics.

90% of girls I've pulled in my lifetime was via cold approach. I usually use indirect questions as openers. Or sometimes more direct like "hey I was there doing blabla and I had to get here ask who you are/whats your name, you have this cool vibe blabla"


To me, this is the best way to start improving your game to a whole new level. Every guy with average charisma can approach a broad who are giving signals.