Are Average Women RUINED by being Sidepieces to Ballers, Players or just Men with Better Options ?

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[RareHunter]

Hi

I didn't mean your advice. I meant that post you made above the one I quoted. I meant to say I don't believe what you wrote. I don't believe it's true. Thank you though. I am and will be fine . I adjust.

Lol what don’t you believe if I may ask? I do hope the best for you.

 

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[RareHunter]

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I don't agree with the fleecing statement. I also don't agree with only singling out women with that specific verse. Everyone are behaving in a manner the book disapproves of and everyone are judged. You chose that instead though.

The book also talks about men's treatment of women. They are supposed to respect them, care for them, be attentive to them, praise them, honor them, etc. If so many men aren't doing that, why do so many just expect loyalty or submission?

This forum just doesn't seem like the place for this discussion, lol. Honestly, I was shocked when I read your post.

With this 'roster' stuff. Do these women know they are part of a roster? Are these average men letting them know what's happening or are they exclusively dealing with women that are about that too? Are they sleeping with them? Depending on the answer, this contributes to the problem. Trusting someone with your body and they corrupt it, is what is contributing to 'ruining' women. Do you have a roster?

At the least, women that are dealing with a high profile man probably know and sticking around anyway. I just don't believe most women are going to stick around to join some roster of an average man. I wouldn't risk my health.

Why are men talking to women about this? The main people keeping a lot of men from certain access or wealth are men. Take it up with them. Why are men doing it? Do you know?

Thank you. The best to you too.

Lol I never said men shouldn’t treat women right. I do hold women accountable, as they choose who they lay with for nothing in return and most of them know full well they are in a rotation, but they just don’t care if the dude is good looking or cool enough.

Husband and wives are to submit to eachother, but men should only praise The Most High, not women under any circumstance ever. If you’re referring to women being created from men and for men and not the other way around, then that is true. Women are help mates. It is the woman who is suppose to reverence their husband. Society has made women “equal” for a time, but that time is closing soon. That said find a good man, while you’re young if that’s your goal, but inquire of The Most High first. A man who doesn’t fear Elohim is basically a land mine. You never know when it will blow.

 

[SNG]

No they will give up there prime to the highest bidders and top picks and once they get older and out of there prime years the smart ones start settling while the one's that don't want to retire the jersey holding on for dear life end up being miserable and dying alone.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Ruined? More like volunteered to be a sidepiece

In general younger women just want to have fun in their 20's.

Both parties should be honest on what they're looking instead of playing mind games. Saves time and trouble.

 

[Bossino]

I didn’t give advice tho. Gen Z is very pretentious I see. I was answering your question about men trying to leech off women with making more money. The system purposely works against men to propel women. That said do what works for u or your family but my advice would be to keep your legs closed till marriage.

This isn’t your mother or aunt’s day and even the squarest men are aware of how women have always moved nowadays, so if you “have your fun”, you’re likely to be the first to break the cycle of married women unless you a looker, im talkin a real looker.

You let the cat out of the bag a lot of Gen Z girls won't sniff a relationship that lasts longer than a year, bc they grew up on girl power, and looking down on most men, and men can smell that shyt a mile away, the only men open to stomach that type of disrespect are simps.

As women are more materialistic and overly sexual with their appearance they legit devalue themselves into literal whores, but until they reach that conclusion the saga continues

 

[Big Boss]

This is honestly what we do as men. We get a baddie, we raise our level up a notch. I know I did.

shyt, for me. I was always handsome and cute and when they did the rating game, I got rated as well as my white homie Jason. We both got 8s. Jonathan Taylor Thomas punk ass got 10s in elementary and I always had girls.

Got to middle school. Hoes were NOT feeling me. I got told I was ugly as hell and why would anyone want to marry me from a girl I was crushing on who looked like Geri from Spice Girls. I had to hang with the lames. nikkas wasnt fukking with me neither. No one wanted to sign my yearbook.

Got to 8th grade. Growth spurt. 6'3 from 5'4. I had hoes on my dikk again. Girls wanting me to come over. Yearbook had nasty notes from hoes and I got grounded from my mom and I didn't even do shyt

Going into 9th grade. I baddie who looked like my Mya wanted me at Christian camp. Grabbing my ass and my dikk like constantly.

Weeks later, a baddie who I been crushing since 3rd grade made it her mission, she wanted to fukk me. Sista looked like prime Jada. You nikkas know.

I was a menace after that. nikkas with girlfriends who I found desirable knew I was a damn predator and their girl was the prey which wasn't too many around my area but outside of it, hell yeah. Girls were very aggressive with me. Especially white girls and Latinas too. I always got what I wanted no matter where I went or was going. If a nikka was getting a lot of D1 looks and I wasn't, I was like, your girl think I'm D1 and a nikka would get scared. A lion hunting for your bytch is literally a lion hunting for your bytch. Seducing is easy as 1, 2, 3. nikkas were cool with me even if it was fake love and they weren't real nikkas.

So yeah, we as men do raise our value based on what we can get. When I was in middle school, I was like, no female wants me till around 8th grade and even then, it surprise me when it happened. I wasn't expecting change. Then the same ones that would make fun of me, are driving me where ever I want to go on their dime.

Payback was a bytch for them birds who hated on the Kang.

 

[How Sway?]

This is very true. But it comes down to values instilled during their youth and home environment.

Many of these "ruined" women don't come from stable households with ACTIVE parents.

Emphasis on ACTIVE because even some two parent households can still be negligent and toxic which can still leave children vulnerable to outside peer pressure. Esp. In this social media world.

Tldr: A lot of these women are already messed up before they get with the "ballers" that further ruin them

 

[King Poetic]

The black community as a whole is fukked up when it comes to relationships

All parties live in this dream land on how they individual relationship should be and be so perfect

But at least black men once we get our wake up call we actually focus on reality

Black women doesnt matter if they are a 1 or 6.5 ,,rather 21,25,30,35,40,45 and 50 years old they still live in this fantasy that Eldris Elba is coming knocking at they door

1. U got average sisters with 3 kids by 2 or 3 different men who usually be broke nikkas talking about they won’t settle for a average man making 40/50k a year and need a high value man because they themselves are high quality women… but u as a average breh likeu got 2 or 3 kids with low value men and u saying a 50k average breh is not good enough..

u can’t make this shyt up

2. U then have average professional sisters who really are the worst , that can be 35,40,45 years old and man these women will pumped up their careers and lifestyle and think that’s good enough for a baller/entertainer type to scoop them up..

 

[Dave24]

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[nairdas]

Women truly do be having fantasies about how a relationship should be and truly believe those fantasies bc they "see" it happen for the other women. That's where they fukk up at. I put see in quotation because they don't actually know what's going on in that other woman's seemingly perfect relationship.

On top of all that a lot women over value their worth. You can't be a 5, not a throat goat, and have a trash personality while looking for 8 and up men. Women a lot of the time just don't live in reality and that's how they end up alone. When they don't get what they want to a T they feel like they're settling. No, bytch that's what you deserve. If anything the MAN is settling.

 

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[UWasntThere]

Unrealistic expectations is definitely the reason so many women are currently single and alone.

Everyone wants to date up but most people can't