Are black women holding black men to unrealistic standards compared to white standards of relationships?

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One day we’ll just be honest and say women dgaf about systemic racism, inflation, oppression or any of that in regards to men:yeshrug:

Either you’re winning or you’re not. And we are not.
I've come to this conclusion a few years ago. Women are controlled mainly by their instincts and environment. They only care about the winners in mass
 

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I've come to this conclusion a few years ago. Women are controlled mainly by their instincts and environment. They only care about the winners in mass

Is what it is. Theres no way anyone could logically look at the economy and yet still have these grand expectations for men they come up with. But they do.

Dare I say it, Black women lowkey more accommodating than they could be.
 
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black men and black women are both toxic in their own separate ways, the result of extreme social conditioning that our community has been subject to for decades, a defense against which most of us lack because of poor education.

the simple and unfortunate truth is that the majority of black people aren’t able to exercise critical thought, which has left us dangerously susceptible to the psychological manipulations of white supremacy.

we don’t examine the propaganda that our brains consume, unable to distinguish between fact and fiction, taking what we see and hear at face value and digesting it like a robot would a program.

so, black men want a bad bytch that looks like a video ho, and black women want a thug nikka getting that bag.

:unimpressed:
 

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I'll say this, a woman's genuine nature becomes evident when she achieves financial independence. Her choices and preferences authentically represent her character, as she operates from a position of empowerment, no longer reliant on a man's resources.

For instance, a woman who is wealth off is not inclined to settle or be with a man she lacks a genuine attraction to, be it based on appearance or personality. Some women may feign interest to be with affluent men, but such compromises often take a toll on their inner selves.
 
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black men and black women are both toxic in their own separate ways, the result of extreme social conditioning that our community has been subject to for decades, a defense against which most of us lack because of poor education.

the simple and unfortunate truth is that the majority of black people aren’t able to exercise critical thought, which has left us dangerously susceptible to the psychological manipulations of white supremacy.

we don’t examine the propaganda that our brains consume, unable to distinguish between fact and fiction, taking what we see and hear at face value and digesting it like a robot would a program.

so, black men want a bad bytch that looks like a video ho, and black women want a thug nikka getting that bag.

:unimpressed:
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It depends on which standards.

Despite all the bullshyt they say online, the only standard I've seen that black women actually hold us to is physical attraction.

Too many black women are out here dating abusive bums because "he's cute".

You'll hear them say they want a provider who makes 6 figures, while a grown man is living with her and driving her car.
 

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It depends on which standards.

Despite all the bullshyt they say online, the only standard I've seen that black women actually hold us to is physical attraction.

Too many black women are out here dating abusive bums because "he's cute".

You'll hear them say they want a provider who makes 6 figures, while a grown man is living with her and driving her car.
This is about control. :hubie:

The same way some men like to have financial control over women in the relationship, there's a segment of women who get off on having financial control over men.
 
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black men and black women are both toxic in their own separate ways, the result of extreme social conditioning that our community has been subject to for decades, a defense against which most of us lack because of poor education.

the simple and unfortunate truth is that the majority of black people aren’t able to exercise critical thought, which has left us dangerously susceptible to the psychological manipulations of white supremacy.

we don’t examine the propaganda that our brains consume, unable to distinguish between fact and fiction, taking what we see and hear at face value and digesting it like a robot would a program.

so, black men want a bad bytch that looks like a video ho, and black women want a thug nikka getting that bag.

:unimpressed:


It’s usually the “free thinkers” that actually are the main ones who don’t critically think
 
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