Are dudes out here really getting into relationships with women that don't cook or clean?

cheek100

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Mannnnnnnnnnnnnn I'm scared to death...its a mess out here man..I don't think I can do..my girl is TOO good to me but I really do want a child of my own..smh
Man it sounds like she’s a keeper. Is she open to adoption?
Trust me fam kids ain’t all it’s cracked up to be. It’s harder to find a woman that’s your best friend than it is to have a baby. So far u winning.
 

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America has a 50% obesity rate and a lot of Americans are eating out. Knowing how to cook means healthy meals


I know, those look like good points on paper but the type of woman that really knows how to throw down in the kitchen is serving calorie packed meals and probably doesn't spend much time in the gym.

Cooking and gym time often don't mix well (it's the whole reason meal prepping is a thing).
 

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Yup they say they want a useless woman because they don't want a servant.....

Mamas boys ya know.


How you gonna have a family and a woman cooking spaghettios. Ordering takeout and fast food all the time. You gonna do all the cooking while she plays with her phone? Ur insane
 

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I know, those look like good points on paper but the type of woman that really knows how to throw down in the kitchen is serving calorie packed meals and probably doesn't spend much time in the gym.

Cooking and gym time often don't mix well (it's the whole reason meal prepping is a thing).

I gotta disagree. Eating out at restaurants you don't know what you getting. It's not all about calories either, but things like sodium content which is high even at high end restaurants. And I can't imagine the food is even real unless you eating at actual restaurants all the time and not fast food.

Losing weight doesn't require gym. Diet is 90% of losing weight. Gym just speeds up the process and build muscle.
 

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I'm about #livingaparttogether. So a chick cooking and cleaning isn't a requirement - I can do that myself. Give me a chick with a good, compatible personality and a willing throat and I'm straight.

My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea.

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted:mjcry:

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
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fukk them kids breh. That woman will provide much more value in your life than those parasites you're craving ever will.
 

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do you need them to cook and clean? why cant you do it?

i live alone and cook and clean.

if im with a woman and she cant cook, then she has to clean after me and vice versa :ehh:
 

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My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea.

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted:mjcry:

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
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Nah you need a man's perspective

You want kids she doesnt so you're living your life based on what she wants. What's to debate. There's probably a good reason she doesn't want to be a mother. She's not the last woman who cooks and cleans. Try again but younger next time.
 

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I gotta disagree. Eating out at restaurants you don't know what you getting. It's not all about calories either, but things like sodium content which is high even at high end restaurants. And I can't imagine the food is even real unless you eating at actual restaurants all the time and not fast food.

Losing weight doesn't require gym. Diet is 90% of losing weight. Gym just speeds up the process and build muscle.


I do 8 hours of HIIT cardio a week on top of 15-20 hours of weight training. I eat whatever I want lol

Eating out at restaurants every night is extreme, all I was trying to say was that I prefer a financially stable woman with a good salary so we both can indulge in a nice restaurant every now and then. And BTW, We ain't doing Applebee's or chain restaurants. The places we eating at require a reservation :ufdup:
 

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Nah you need a man's perspective

You want kids she doesnt so you're living your life based on what she wants. What's to debate. There's probably a good reason she doesn't want to be a mother. She's not the last woman who cooks and cleans. Try again but younger next time.

She's already a mother (2 kids). We started messing around after her divorce and a gf of mine passed away. We didn't expect anything serious but we clicked. I've been with different women and I've never been the one to be in a relationship, I really can take it or leave it.

But she sincerely enhances my life, isn't about the drama, caters to me like no other woman before, hell we play video games together..she set the bar and I know for me personally ill regret it if the next woman doesn't come close to it...at least be nice and respectful but a lot of women I come across today aren't even that
 

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I do 8 hours of HIIT cardio a week on top of 15-20 hours of weight training. I eat whatever I want lol

Eating out at restaurants every night is extreme, all I was trying to say was that I prefer a financially stable woman with a good salary so we both can indulge in a nice restaurant every now and then. And BTW, We ain't doing Applebee's or chain restaurants. The places we eating at require a reservation :ufdup:

Even places that require reservations are high in all types of sodium content breh. I'd rather know how to cook like those restaurants so I can do it on my on while being healthier. Cooking doesn't take me long anyway, like 10 minutes prep and 15 minutes cooking. If I do Baking or Crockpot and it's even easier.

If you work long hours then I understand, but I usually get home at 430. Cardio/gym in the morning
 
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