Are dudes out here really getting into relationships with women that don't cook or clean?

[Phitz]

My brother is married to a doctor, she pays a house cleaner and has someone come prep meals. I'd definitely take a spouse who make $400k a year and pays a house cleaner than a home maker who make $50k, but thats just personal preference

I agree, but that's not the average marriage

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Man it sounds like she’s a keeper. Is she open to adoption?
Trust me fam kids ain’t all it’s cracked up to be. It’s harder to find a woman that’s your best friend than it is to have a baby. So far u winning.

She already has two kids but I want one of my own if have to be honest. But idk, we will see

 

[camroni]

So many women out there complaining about being single but so many don't cook or clean. The 2 women I've been with were in their early twenties and I had to teach them how to cook. I blame their mothers.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

My lady too clean

It be annoying sometimes.

bruh my girl clean the spot every Saturday and be moving shyt back from the wall like we just moved in EVERY Saturday. I mean cool but damn

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea.

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
@™BlackPearl The Empress™

Ooof this a tough one …i mean why keep dragging out the inevitable…just rip the bandaid off man no reason to keep pulling it off slowly

 

[97Pac]

I agree, but that's not the average marriage

Yea thats why I said originally I'd only be ok with a women who doesn't cook and clean is if she is a high earner and just outsource those duties.

My lady cooks, cleans, wants to be submissive to me...all of the stuff a man can ask for but we are on the verge of possibly breaking up because she's older and I want a child but we both decided it isn't a good idea.

It really sucks to be in this situation because we get a long so great and we are truly best friends. I see whats out here now and it just makes me smh...I'm conflicted

I need a woman's perspective @CarmelBarbie @HarlemHottie
@™BlackPearl The Empress™

Is adoption off the table? Plenty of black children need good homes.

 

[Mowgli]

She's already a mother (2 kids). We started messing around after her divorce and a gf of mine passed away. We didn't expect anything serious but we clicked. I've been with different women and I've never been the one to be in a relationship, I really can take it or leave it.

But she sincerely enhances my life, isn't about the drama, caters to me like no other woman before, hell we play video games together..she set the bar and I know for me personally ill regret it if the next woman doesn't come close to it...at least be nice and respectful but a lot of women I come across today aren't even that

You have to keep trying. The end of the road is not an older single mother with 2 kids just because she cook and clean.

She's done her part and had babies already. Why should your wants be put on hold because she's had kids already?

If you want kids it makes no sense to stick around. You're comfortable and sprung basically. Don't wait to long.

 

[Cat piss martini]

ok.....a chick cant cook.
that mean her mama was in the streets
and wasnt shyt.
any bytch dont keep a clean house
should be destroyed.....trifflin bytch!

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Easier to hire a cleaning service.

I like my woman as stress free as possible.

She has enough shyt to deal with.

And I do the cooking because I love to cook.

Simp, set low expectations for ya woman brehs, ya girl feel like all she gotta do is give you the p*ssy and not do nothing else smh

 

[Theodoresolderbreh]

 

[Hey_zeus]

Non cooking i deal unless you ain't trying to learn and better yourself. We can cook together until she starts to build skills and can do her own thing for us. Now cleaning? That's not a skill. No wiggle room. It's trifling and I question your morals if you don't clean. Fukk did you do when you lived alone? Living in squalor because you're lazy

 

[tuckgod]

Yes, if you got a career women more than likely she ain't cooking shyt for you.

You might get some Alfredo on a Saturday night if you're lucky


But more than likely y'all together bc y'all enjoy each other's company, and are together to combine a bag .

1000%

 

[tuckgod]

Non cooking i deal unless you ain't trying to learn and better yourself. We can cook together until she starts to build skills and can do her own thing for us. Now cleaning? That's not a skill. No wiggle room. It's trifling and I question your morals if you don't clean. Fukk did you do when you lived alone? Living in squalor because you're lazy

 

[fifth column]

There is no chick that can’t cook or clean unless they made that decision to be a lazy bish

 

[Wildhundreds]

Yes, if you got a career women more than likely she ain't cooking shyt for you.

You might get some Alfredo on a Saturday night if you're lucky


But more than likely y'all together bc y'all enjoy each other's company, and are together to combine a bag .

My lady did this and we raised children.. Some women are just built better than others..