Are Single Men "SETTLING" when getting in relationships with Single Mothers?

[Stuntone]

We hear women preaching daily about not settling for less when choosing men, but we never hear what settling means to men. Seems they want use to take any type of woman. Men are expected to except any size, color, attitude and women with kids.

So i ask you, would you consider yourself settling when being with a single mother?

 

[xoxodede]

Are single women settling when getting into relationships with single fathers?

 

[Lýba'rhaésheýun]

I Suppose It Depends What You Think About Children. I Got A Bruh On IG who got an obese girlfriend with 2 kids... but if he likes the fat and likes being a dad like figure I guess he isn't really settling is he?


Me Personally I'm Mad Stubborn So I Wouldn't Settle For Anything I don't want whither its Dating or something anything else. I wouldn't mess with a single mom tho cause I don't particularly like kids and I remember what happened when my moms once dated a man who didn't like kids couldn't stand that man I ain't putting no kid thru that. And I'm not putting myself through that either.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Depends on her situation. If you're getting with a "I just need a man to help me with these bills" kind of woman, then you lost. If she's got her own thing going on? Nah. Hell I've seen a lot of single dime women with kids, careers, good personalities, etc.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Not for me but my preferences arent everyones

 

[Wildhundreds]

Im trying to understand how b*stard kids hate single mothers.

 

[OliviaTwist]

Y’all make it seem like single mothers have leprosy or something

 

[Wildhundreds]

You got brehs who grew up in a two parent home with no outside siblings.

They may prefer a woman with no kids because thats all they've seen. But that same breh would dap another guy, who wife a single mother, because they understand the importance of family.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Are single women settling when getting into relationships with single fathers?

Yep!

Both are settling.

 

[xoxodede]

Yep!

Both are settling.

My ex was a single father and I didn't think I was settling. But, it was a lot to deal with. It's not something I would sign up for again.

 

[King Poetic]

Let people live their lives

If it doesn't affect you financially or personally mind your business..

I dated single moms...in my experience i had more bad than good experience...

But everyday is different

 

[timothy_strickland]

if she's a widow because her husband or baby daddy died of cancer or in a car accident? Or she got married and divorced later? I mean not all single mothers embody the predictable stereotype of the ratchet bird who explictly ran after, chose, and let an emotionally unavailable thuggish nikka with swag nut in her vagina and then saw him leave her alone with a kid.

 

[Rell Lauren]

Absolutely. If you're a single man with something going for themselves, there's no reason to get serious with a single mom. With that said, let people do them.

 

[Peak]

Im trying to understand how b*stard kids hate single mothers.

 

[ejthompson23]

Yes...how many times must that question be asked? THe answer will never change...you wife up a single mom you’re encouraging whore behavior and bad judgment...single moms should be straight beat skeet and retreat status