Are Single Men "SETTLING" when getting in relationships with Single Mothers?

[UpAndComing]

Talking on the phone with Single Moms Unappreciation thread

 

[Circle p]

Too many women out here with no kids to get with single mothers..so yes you're settling

 

[MaxPain]

Are single women settling when getting into relationships with single fathers?

Yeah

 

[MaxPain]

And yeah u are settling when u get with a single mother, esp if ur young or have no kids urself

 

[Auger]

Nope

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Are single women settling when getting into relationships with single fathers?

Women get all when they see a dude with a kid though

 

[TheGreatMTB]

yes and no.......it isn't the fact that she's a single mother that makes it settling.

If Rihanna had a kid right now, most men would still cuff given her looks, money, success, etc.

I think it's the image of the stereotypical single mother that makes it seem like a man is settling. Entitled, average looking, struggling to make ends meet, etc. If you're a man who has a lot going for him, getting with a woman like that might be settling. ...but a fine woman, who has a nice paying job, who doesn't feel like you owe her shyt just because she happened to get pregnant, and can already support herself without needing your money? that's not really settling, in fact in this extreme example she's still better than most non single mother options.

but if you're the type that thinks raising anyone else's kid is an L period, then it would be settling.

 

[MaxPain]

Women get all when they see a dude with a kid though

Yep its a different dynamic

Single moms and single dads arent equal


But if I had a daughter id tell her not to settle for a single dad regardless

 

[Wildhundreds]

And yeah u are settling when u get with a single mother, esp if ur young or have no kids urself

You may have hit the nail on the head here.

But I'll take it further and say you're wasting time and money, being in serious relationships while young.

 

[therewillbeboogienights]

Im trying to understand how b*stard kids hate single mothers.

Omg

 

[MaxPain]

You may have hit the nail on the head here.

But I'll take it further and say you're wasting time and money, being in serious relationships while young.

Only way I can see a man not wasting his potential with a single mother is if he has kids of his own

Ull always play second place to the childs father.

 

[Lamar Givens]

Is this a lowkey I hate Russel Wilson thread

 

[therewillbeboogienights]

Yes...how many times must that question be asked? THe answer will never change...you wife up a single mom you’re encouraging whore behavior and bad judgment...single moms should be straight beat skeet and retreat status

Uh, what if the couple amicably split? Why is the onus on the mother for creating a child and being the sole person to raise it?

 

[ItzRailT]

Depends on the situation if homie got his stuff together and Ole girl broke as hell than yeah he settled. Plus if she a became a single mother after fukking and sucking recklessly than hell yeah he settled because let's face the guy most single mothers end up wouldn't gave probably wouldn't have gave him the time of day before the baby.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Ull always play second place to the childs father.

Not always.

I can see that with young mothers.

Definitely not with moms in their 30s.