Are the men on here between ages 19-24 interested in a ltr?

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So a man cant go to school, get a degree and become gainfully employed while in a relationship now?

the former helps when trying to acquire the latter.

getting into a long term relationship can stifle,and prevent you for accomplishing a lot of shyt if you haven't really done anything yet.

 

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Well im guess im going to remain stuck up,lonely and single :ld:

Once guys sense that im interested in something serious and offer great qualities , they friend zone me :aicmon:

You wouldn't have that problem, if you was a pawg :troll:
But on a serious note, what do you have to offer? Are you in shape, are you willing to cook, and do you have male "friends" or "cousins"
 

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the former helps when trying to acquire the latter.

getting into a long term relationship can stifle,and prevent you for accomplishing a lot of shyt if you haven't really done anything yet.


Co-sign, I'mma be vacationing in South America next year for a month, how would that work w/ wifey? :childplease:
Plus, me and most guys in that age range haven't finished sewing their royal oats. :steviej:
 

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Men want to settle down just like women do. Just at different times. As soon as a woman is 15 EVERY guy wants to fukk her. As long as she looks good she can be broke and have a plethora of men to choose from. Women are on the ride from the age of 15 just having a field day fukking as many men as they want. Men on the otherhand need to be established in order to have a field day with women.

It's just like high school. Freshman girls can date any man in any grade. She is still desired. Freshman boys are not desired because the senior guys have cars, and status. Because the senior guys are more desirable they have a plethora of women to choose from.

That same principle applies here. Younger women can date whoever they want but younger men can't. Men have to wait until they have their shyt together in order to be that desirable man that all the girls want. THEN the women that are his age get jealous because the men are going for younger women and just having fun and not settling down.

Men can't have fun dating broke. There are no trips, and bottle popping at the clubs for men when they are young and broke. For women as long as you look good, men will try and get with you.

Men have pre-success and post success. I'm sorry but it's not exactly like these women complaining that "men won't settle down" are all virgins who are waiting for marriage.

From the age of 15 women are having fun on the ride. By age 24 they get bored. Men are just starting to get on the ride at age 24 because prior to that they weren't having as much fun as those women were.

So women don't exactly want to settle down either. They just get washed up before men do.
 

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You pass up alot of opportunities when you have to decide for two people instead of one. Maybe you get a job in another city, maybe you get into a graduate program far away.....you never know. When you that young, you're laying the foundations for your life and its stupid to make lifetime decisions over a girl you might not be with next year :wtf: I went 800 miles away for school. Ended up being the best decision I made. I met so many people who ended up having a profound effect on me and helping me get to where I'm at now. I had dumped my girl at the time a month or so before leaving. A while back, she ended up skyping me on FB and we ended up talkin for hours. I asked her how she would've felt if we were still together and I told her I was going half way across the country. She told me, what do you think? :aicmon:
 

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Not my nikkas back home but Hispanics out here marry early as hell. Two people I work with just got married, one 22 the other one 19
 

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Co-sign, I'mma be vacationing in South America next year for a month, how would that work w/ wifey? :childplease:
Plus, me and most guys in that age range haven't finished sewing their royal oats. :steviej:

that's what i'm saying.... a relationship can/does/will get in the way of a lot of shyt if you're still out there molding who you are as a person.

besides, a lot of these girls in long term relationships...end up in their late 20's early 30's and havent really been on their own...or done much but be in a relationship all that time.

IMO male or female, nobody should actively be looking for a long term relationship around that 19-24 range... if you so happen to get into one, so be it. but don't be looking for one.
 

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Men want to settle down just like women do. Just at different times. As soon as a woman is 15 EVERY guy wants to fukk her. As long as she looks good she can be broke and have a plethora of men to choose from. Women are on the ride from the age of 15 just having a field day fukking as many men as they want. Men on the otherhand need to be established in order to have a field day with women.

It's just like high school. Freshman girls can date any man in any grade. She is still desired. Freshman boys are not desired because the senior guys have cars, and status. Because the senior guys are more desirable they have a plethora of women to choose from.

That same principle applies here. Younger women can date whoever they want but younger men can't. Men have to wait until they have their shyt together in order to be that desirable man that all the girls want. THEN the women that are his age get jealous because the men are going for younger women and just having fun and not settling down.

Men can't have fun dating broke. There are no trips, and bottle popping at the clubs for men when they are young and broke. For women as long as you look good, men will try and get with you.

Men have pre-success and post success. I'm sorry but it's not exactly like these women complaining that "men won't settle down" are all virgins who are waiting for marriage.

From the age of 15 women are having fun on the ride. By age 24 they get bored. Men are just starting to get on the ride at age 24 because prior to that they weren't having as much fun as those women were.

So women don't exactly want to settle down either. They just get washed up and depreciated before men do.

You either a fukking fakkit or a virgin. There are billions of broke men around the world fukking women of different social status.

You just can't judge other people by your life, you just can't. :ld:
 

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A long term relationship won't stifle your career. Your own decisions will. Unless ur career will involve f*cking a plethora of women, i do not see why any women would be upset with your career path if you choose to pursue it.

Being in LTR at that age is normal. I believe u are in the minority if u haven't experienced one yet by 24-25.
 

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You either a fukking fakkit or a virgin. There are billions of broke men around the world fukking women of different social status.

You just can't judge other people by your life, you just can't. :ld:
A man with money has more women to choose from than a man without money. Period. Then again you are in the hood where no one has money so you have no competition. Didn't you put me on ignore? Funny how everyone who was camping in that "Put Sierra on ignore list" thread still follows me around quoting me every day. What I said is true outside of the matriarchal ghetto you live in.
 
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