Are the men on here between ages 19-24 interested in a ltr?

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So a man cant go to school, get a degree and become gainfully employed while in a relationship now?

One thing at a time. How a nikka gonna study for the MCAT, GMAT, or CPA Exam, or learn some high-tech shyt like trying to become a Database Administrator, Computer Programmer, or Pharmacist, and they busy worrying about what their girl is doing/why she's mad or why their wife is screaming at'em, or why their baby is screaming at the top of its lungs while they trying to study? All I'm saying is, that's not an environment for success. If nikkas really want to get this money and have a good life, nikkas gonna have to get their priorities straight and focus on what really matters while they're young (18-30). You can't do it worrying about that other shyt. Long-term relationships can come afterwards.

Once again, this goes for women too.
 

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Im semi ready....but im picky and too focused on my own life :manny:
 

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One thing at a time. How a nikka gonna study for the MCAT, GMAT, or CPA Exam, or learn some high-tech shyt like trying to become a Database Administrator, Computer Programmer, or Pharmacist, and they busy worrying about what their girl is doing/why she's mad or why their wife is screaming at'em, or why their baby is screaming at the top of its lungs while they trying to study? All I'm saying is, that's not an environment for success. If nikkas really want to get this money and have a good life, nikkas gonna have to get their priorities straight and focus on what really matters while they're young (18-30). You can't do it worrying about that other shyt. Long-term relationships can come afterwards.

Once again, this goes for women too.

I agree with this. Right now I'm thinking about graduating and getting in to law school, the chick I'm chilling with is always complaining that we don't hang out enough. I like her, but sometimes I wish she'd understand that my focus right now is on trying to get paid. I don't even want to be in a ltr until well after I'm done with law school, a few years in to my career. I won't even consider marriage before I turn 30 :yeshrug:
 

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Sierra Mist has now been successfully added to your ignore list. You will now be returned to where you were.

sierra ":wrist:" mist
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Put me back on it.
 

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A man with money has more women to choose from than a man without money. Period. Then again you are in the hood where no one has money so you have no competition. Didn't you put me on ignore? Funny how everyone who was camping in that "Put Sierra on ignore list" thread still follows me around quoting me every day. What I said is true outside of the matriarchal ghetto you live in.

I am white and I've never been near any hood you live in, so calm down with this self hate shyt :whoa: :pachaha: That's why I don't have to pop bottles and do other clown shyt you saw in rap videos to get women.

You just a theoretical ass bytchmade motherfukker with no connection to reality whatsoever but a lot of essays on how to live life which you definitely don't have.

And don't hate yourself, it's not your fault. :pachaha:
 

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I am white and I've never been near any hood you live in, so calm down with this self hate shyt :whoa: :pachaha: That's why I don't have to pop bottles and do other clown shyt you saw in rap videos to get women.

You just a theoretical ass bytchmade motherfukker with no connection to reality whatsoever but a lot of essays on how to live life which you definitely don't have.

And don't hate yourself, it's not your fault. :pachaha:
You people never even talk to women in real life. That's why this site is full of people who are butthurt about shyt that happened 4 years ago on sohh. That's why you thirst buckets send pms to the fat bytches on here.
You said you had me on ignore though.
Sierra Mist has now been successfully added to your ignore list. You will now be returned to where you were.

sierra ":wrist:" mist


Keep ignoring that.
 

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Me and a couple other friends in that age group have been looking for LTR's since we were sophomores or juniors and most girls in our age group either have a serious bf, are engaged, or don't want one. I've found that this leaves most early twenties guys with girls they can't see themselves with past three months.

Really it seems like neither side wants an LTR in this age group unless they are getting a MRS.degree or if a guy meets a girl he doesn't want to let go aka the guys engaged or dating exvlusively
 

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A lot of cats are just realizing that there's no benefits in being in a relationship with most modern women since NOT being in one gets you better benefits and treatment. Boyfriend is the one paying for all the dinners, has to listen to all her problems, deal with the arguments, etc., while she usually has a guy on the side who she does MORE for than her boyfriend. The answer to the question lies in the answer to another question. What can you get now by being exclusive to a woman that you can't by not?
 

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long term relationships are too damn expensive

dinner dates
movies
going out
buying shyt for them on special dates
random trips
 

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I am white and I've never been near any hood you live in, so calm down with this self hate shyt :whoa: :pachaha: That's why I don't have to pop bottles and do other clown shyt you saw in rap videos to get women.

You just a theoretical ass bytchmade motherfukker with no connection to reality whatsoever but a lot of essays on how to live life which you definitely don't have.

And don't hate yourself, it's not your fault. :pachaha:

he's right tho... once females hit puberty... the only thing they truly need to have to be desirable in the real world is p*ssy, and good looks.

unless that woman is only looking for somebody to fukk her, you're going to have to have your shyt together in some capacity.

to even deny that a male with money has more options of women than a man that doesn't is just false.

that's hypergamy for you breh.
 

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You people never even talk to women in real life. That's why this site is full of people who are butthurt about shyt that happened 4 years ago on sohh. That's why you thirst buckets send pms to the fat bytches on here.
You said you had me on ignore though.



Keep ignoring that.

Why would you edit your posts like that? Are you agitated? :pachaha:

Why are you addressing me as "You people"? Are you now telling the whole forum they don't get p*ssy? :skip:

I see a lot of estrogen in your posts, clown. :ufdup:
 

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If you keep pimpin girls you gonna keep pimpin girls.

If you keep simpin girls you gonna keep simping girls.

None of this has to do with a Long Term Relationship.

Rhianna and Chris Brown got a LTR so that's one example of this dumb a$$ thread being wrong.
 

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he's right tho... once females hit puberty... the only thing they truly need to have to be desirable in the real world is p*ssy, and good looks.

unless that woman is only looking for somebody to fukk her, you're going to have to have your shyt together in some capacity.

to even deny that a male with money has more options of women than a man that doesn't is just false.

that's hypergamy for you breh.

You can fukk women strictly off your looks, confidence or these two things together while those who can't get p*ssy in other ways other than spending money on it do all the work.

That's why bytches always have a provider and a lover at the same time. They not really respect a man who wastes money on them.
 

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depends on the maturation of that person. I'm 24, and I favor a long term relationship more than I did when I was 19. Some might not think that's a long period of time in between but you experience things on a daily basis. Most is to change who you are and make you a better person. I have 2 kids, I'm not looking for something just for that month or that season, I'm looking for someone to build with long term.
 
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