Are there any other men who just flat out have NO interest in getting married?

[Mr. Negative]

I wanna say yes, but in all honesty I'm just a broke loser who feels like no woman would accept that shyt because of past experience, whereas before all I wanted to do is get married and have a family, simply because I never had one.

So I create all these filters.

I'm not interested cause you're not my type

I know you got 3 kids by 4 dudes

You got a man

You don't give head

etc etc

 

[Mr. Negative]

oops

 

[Malta]

I wanna say yes, but in all honesty I'm just a broke loser who feels like no woman would accept that shyt because of past experience, whereas before all I wanted to do is get married and have a family, simply because I never had one

Fam, there are women out there writing dudes in prison letters, there's a woman out there that will accept you.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

My friend turned 35 and is on that wave, on one hand he does well with the women, on the other hand that nikka will answer your texts promptly

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

My friend turned 35 and is on that wave, on one hand he does well with the women, on the other hand that nikka will answer your texts promptly and won't leave you the fukk alone if you do text him. I don't know, he travels a lot which got me a lil jealous, but he does come off as lonely sometimes, I asked him once if he was gonna have kids and he told me he's using his nephews as surrogate children

It's a lonely life, trust me.


Freedom... But lonely.


I'm in my mid 20s and my boyfriend is 39. He's dying to get married.

We will, but not this instant. In the next couple of years.




The good thing is if you are attractive, got your ish together in your mid - late 30s... You will have your pic of women. Trust me. You will have good options. Just don't rack up a bunch of baby mommas. Keep your credit and funds right. Look good. You'll be straight.

 

[King Poetic]

nope.. i'm in my 30's been with my girl for 5 years and i told her straight up marriage isn't for me and i also have no problem getting ask to go out on dates, but i have seen my sister go through a divorce, seeing my parents argue and sleep in other rooms & i just feel that marriage isn't for me..

will i be lonely can i do and go where ever i want to without any pressure

just remember there's always 5 to 1 black women to men... so no matter what age a brother with money and something going on can find a mate...

 

[Turk]

I'm not gonna out myself as too as far as age goes but let's just say I'm in my late 20s.

I've enjoyed living the single life, with some serious relationships sprinkled in, but I just have no interest of getting engaged or married. The idea of living with someone, having to share my life, sacrifice things I enjoy, just doesn't appeal to me at all. I like going out on weekends, I like playing video games on Saturday and Sunday mornings and some weeknights, I like going to the gym to hoop late on weeknights after work, I like watching sports.

I've never yet been with a chick who was OK with all this.. and I've never yet been with a chick who made me feel compelled to sacrifice all, or even some of that for. So as long as I can have casual hookups outside of all that, I don't see any sort of need to enter into a serious relationship.

Last chick I was with, I really liked her, we were serious, and she had me out going shopping on weekends, doing wine tastings, dinner with her friends, going to her family functions. This is all stuff you are supposed to do in a relationship but I was so bitter. I fukking hated doing that shyt. I was miserable and like "why am I doing thiis instead of doing shyt I really enjoy?"

I guess one fear I have is that I'll wake up one day and be 50 and be alone, and at that point it's too late to be out single and mingling tryna find a bytch.

I guess the bruh Phonte said it best… I want a girl when I want a girl, and when I don't want a girl I want a girl who understands that

I fell you though OP

assuming I'm still here after 25....I can't picture myself getting married. I have no positive examples of marriage in my personal life....so that alone makes me want to throw it to the bushes. I also cannot picture being with the same person forever.....like waking up next to her, going to bed with her, seeing her everyday........I don't like anyone that much. My loner tendencies are way too much too.

Hell last year I went a month without speaking to anyone

 

[toomanydoses]

If I found the one yes. That bytch is in a fairytale tho...

 

[MikelArteta]

I'll never "settle", because I'll never settle for someone who isn't humble, loyal, has a little b*stard or Is sick of all the losers.

See when you build your life up to a certain level and have passions and hobbies and don't seek validation from others, regardless you will enjoy life.

Secondly free vagina is one of the easiest things in the world to procure if that what you aimmore.

The marriage rate is plummeting divorce rate is sky high every day, 30,40,50 year old women are back on the market there's never been Kore single women out there of every age and demographic than ever before in any time in history

Third I'll never reach the point where I need to be married, im not a woman.

You will meet her, or you will settle.


If not, you will end up in your late 40s or 50s alone, paying for p*ssy and regretting it.


Take my advice.


You just haven't reached that point yet, or found the right woman.


If you are lucky, you will.


If your not lucky, you won't.



God Bless.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

I'll never "settle", because I'll never settle for someone who isn't humble, loyal, has a little b*stard or Is sick of all the losers.

See when you build your life up to a certain level and have passions and hobbies and don't seek validation from others, regardless you will enjoy life.

Secondly free vagina is one of the easiest things in the world to procure if that what you aimmore.

The marriage rate is plummeting divorce rate is sky high every day, 30,40,50 year old women are back on the market there's never been Kore single women out there of every age and demographic than ever before in any time in history

Third I'll never reach the point where I need to be married, im not a woman.

Okay.

 

[Malta]

It's a lonely life, trust me.


Freedom... But lonely.


I'm in my mid 20s and my boyfriend is 39. He's dying to get married.

We will, but not this instant. In the next couple of years.




The good thing is if you are attractive, got your ish together in your mid - late 30s... You will have your pic of women. Trust me. You will have good options. Just don't rack up a bunch of baby mommas. Keep your credit and funds right. Look good. You'll be straight.

As far as I've seen, getting women isn't a problem for him and they're all 7-10 years younger than him. Staying with one longer than 3 months does seem to be a problem, son had a long term relationship end badly and been on that life since. He always traveling which makes me jealous, word to the dastardly @Soundwave (fukk you buddy) but like I said there are times where it's obvious dude is lonely.

 

[Guile]

There are a ton of guys in their 40's and 50's now who have been married and divorced multiple times.

Settling doesn't mean happiness or even a lasting marriage.

Getting married because of pressure is one of the worst mistakes a person can make.

 

[Black]

I'm gonna continue to fukk hookers, randoms, & bytches who just got out of prison.

 

[AtomicUse]

My friend turned 35 and is on that wave, on one hand he does well with the women, on the other hand that nikka will answer your texts promptly and won't leave you the fukk alone if you do text him. I don't know, he travels a lot which got me a lil jealous, but he does come off as lonely sometimes, I asked him once if he was gonna have kids and he told me he's using his nephews as surrogate children

You sounding real :chattpatty: with this post.

But damn that sounds tight for your boy, he prolly one of those guys who scared of commitment but doesn't want to be alone. Perpetually painful lifestyle right there.

 

[Malta]

You sounding real :chattpatty: with this post.

But damn that sounds tight for your boy, he prolly one of those guys who scared of commitment but doesn't want to be alone. Perpetually painful lifestyle right there.

What you want me to say about a dude that will call you after you text him to tell him Curry is killing it, I'm from Harlem we don't do that

Dude was with a chick years, ended badly and since then he's been the road warrior.