Sexual energy is at the basis of reality. Most people don't know how to use it or direct it and thats why their waist is a waste. Those that do - MJ and Nikola Tesla for example - create things that are out of this world and far beyond regular people by tapping into this abundant resource and sharing their gifts with the world.
Thing is their interpersonal relationships suffer immensely due to this energetic rerouting and this only adds on to feeling totally disconnected to the rest of the race as they feel no one else gets them. And they don't because they're built different.
Taking it back to the virgins:
They may crave the intimacy but are scared of the act of opening up and allowing someone to get close. Add in the ease of access to porn, the nature of coping mechanisms and self deception paired with a general lack of insight and you get really unhappy people.
Folks don't talk about this because trauma is the worlds secret weapon that holds society in check. Its also very effective which is why they use it again and again. The world breaks all of us. Some of us learn how to rearrange the pieces to become more than the sum of their parts but ultimately all any of us wants is the wholeness we lived in as children.
