Are women really not getting approached?

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

They don't get approached as much because they don't want to be approached as much (especially the under 30 crowd).

Before social media and dating sites blew, chicks would be leaving the house hoping dudes spit at them. It was part of the ritual. I started noticing around 2004-2005 when chicks started looking at you funny if you hollered at them in public. It's like they are thinking "You have POF, you d

nikkas keep saying they not getting approached by the guys they want. Obviously. Have you seen women standards these days?

Standards are low

I was homeless bagging chicks...bringing chicks back to my spot that had an air mattress, and sofa.

We can kinda think guys like The Weeknd and Future for that...especially white chicks..they attracted to that low life type of shyt...

Though I play guitar ,got dimples so I got that on my side too

Artists,musicians can get away with that broke shyt for awhile with these young insecure birds that are just happy to get attention from a dude.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Did you see her again?

I never did. She was hella nice to talk to. Convinced flowed and she seem like she was chill like she had a hobby

 

[Caca-faat]

If women didn't get approached #metoo wouldn't exist

"Me Too" (or "#MeToo", a two-word hashtag used on social media to help demonstrate the widespread prevalence of sexual assault and harassment, especially in the workplace.[1] It followed soon after the public revelations of sexual misconduct allegations against Harvey Weinstein.[2]

I think there maybe confusion about the #metoo movement. This sheds light on sexual harassment in the workplace where a person in some kind of authority over you in most cases a boss, takes advantage of that financial power. #metoo mostly refers to a group of women having the same person abusing that power, therefore “me too” Aka #metoo.


Not to be confused with rape culture. Where sexual assault and innuendo is seen as an accepted/expected part of society with regard to those affected; one variation of this is street harassment. Such as loudly proclaiming amongst a group of men as a woman walks by “Baby, lemme eat that ass!” Approaching a woman on the street is very different.


Please see definition below

Rape culture
noun

1. a society or environment whose prevailing social attitudes have the effect of normalizing or trivializing sexual assault and abuse.

. Approach women, brehs.

This is a very extreme, unlikely version of a real interaction. Be brainwashed by the media, brehs.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Your from a different generation though

I was tagged in the OP

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

nikkas in NY be following bytches down the block walking side by side asking them for they numbers

If a chick say they ain’t getting approached it’s because they have resting bytch face or they don’t like the men that are approaching them.

This happens for some white girls with a certain kind of haircut and a decent booty :

She'll complain "black guys are always hitting on me" . Eventually ends up with some abusive redneck that cheats on her anyway. She hits 45 and all of a sudden wants to sample the brehs .

 

[Thanos]

I got female friends and what I see is that they do get approached, but they aren't getting approached in the amount of times they want.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's a diff day now, even talking to a woman is deemed harrassment if you don't know her

 

[Juliano Soprano]

They not getting approached by the type of guys they like

Women are still getting approached..but they don't WANT the dudes they get approached by.

Yep, any girl I’ve talked to about this ALWAYS says something along the lines of “Only older men or super aggressive/touchy ‘aye shawty’ type dudes approach me”

Fact of the matter is we shoot above our level, only girls I usually cold approach is the ones I will absolutely regret not approachin the next day...basically a dime piece in the body, face or both. Girls do the same shyt too, girls that usually approach me aren’t my type at all, they shooting they shot tho.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Thanks. Now try doing this to a woman you find attractive in the street on a normal day. She maybe dumbfounded at first but It will make her day. Noticing small details will take you a long way.

I do that shyt alot

They used to the compliments online but not out on the street. I worked with a chick who used to have her sneakers match her eyeshadow ..I picked up on that one day..told her..I could see her blush like a mofo. She was a pretty chick but out in seattle dudes ain't telling her that in public.

 

[Umoja]

with that sensitive bullshyt.

This has nothing to do with "presenting the black man a sex fiend" and everything to do with shyt most of us have all seen in our daily lives.

You're sounding exactly like those race realist fools. What makes the black man different to his white, yellow, red and brown counterparts?

If "sometimes" men don't approach even when they're interested then that's still a valid complaint from women. And it's not really arrogance to be a woman whose seen men check her out and act interested but make no moves. That happens enough times and you start to notice a pattern.

How is it a valid complaint? You don't know someone, what they do they owe you ? It is arrogance to reach the conclusion that someone is checking you out and that they should make a move when all you have done is looked pretty in the room. The mindset is rooted in conceit and a sense of entitlement.

And why do y'all keep saying they're just not getting approached by the men they want like it's a groundbreaking development? When nikkas complain about not getting any play they're usually talking about not getting it from chicks they actually WANT. That shyt ain't news. Saying shyt like that is basically all-lives-mattering what's actually being said. If you're a woman getting approached by a majority of bums and other undatable men how does that help?

How on Earth did you manage to link this shyt to black lives matters? Black Lives Matters speaks of a hardship we as a people have to endure. When people say All Lives Matter, they are removing focus away from the hardship we have to endure.

When people say ''They're not getting approached by the men they want'' they are making corrections to an inaccurate claim. You cannot say ''No one is approaching you'' when you have a slew of men shooting their shot. It is their problem if it isn't helpful, as the rest of potential suitors don't owe them shyt.

On top of that, numerous studies have shown that in-person interactions are way on the decline, yet somehow these women are what, lying? distorting the truth? In an age where more people than ever are opting to meet partners online, all of a sudden men are somehow still approaching at the same rates?

You're shifting the goal post. Society changes. Adapt to it or become a spinster.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I tried to get my uber drivers number about a year ago. She pulled over and kicked me out

It's mad awkward when guys do that.

 

[JP_614]

Some arnt some women give off that vibe like not to talk to it’s usually the ones who’s with another female and the both straight had some homies tonight fail to capitalize and I was trying to hype em up like don’t be scared of rejection




I’m married I’m out

 

[Bumblebreh]

It's a diff day now, even talking to a woman is deemed harrassment if you don't know her

so asking for directions can now be considered harassment?
They are situations in which you should never approach a woman as it can be deemed as inappropriate but just talking to a woman like a normal human being is not harassment.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah it can be .

so asking for directions can now be considered harassment?
They are situations in which you should never approach a woman as it can be deemed as inappropriate but just talking to a woman like a normal human being is not harassment.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I still get approached but it is by a different type of man
I don’t club any more so it’s at different places like the petrol station or even at a red light
The grocery store etc