Are women really not getting approached?

Caca-faat

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It's not my job to kiss your ass. Go create a #MeToo page on how men are garbage.
Actually I don’t think men are garbage at all. I was raised in a single parent household with just my father from the age of 3. He did the very best he could as a bachelor raising a small girl child, which I can assure you is not easy. I have plenty of respect for the man who instilled in me the value of selfworth, world knowledge, black history and black pride. His example has taught me to avoid fukk boys such as yourself. While running his own business he still managed to teach me how to cook and clean to raise me to be an independent woman. This man carried me to school on his back when our car broke down, discussed world politics with me from a young age and taught me that possibilities are greater than the eye can see and for reasons like that is why I can respect men who go out of their way to guide our future, teach our children and provide for their household.

One thing he didn’t teach me was to not argue with faceless c*nts on the internet who couldn’t answer a direct question because their ability to read and understand is so poor, those who deflect their insecurities onto other people and those who have nothing better to do than vibrate negativity into their radius. I bet plants dry up and shrink when you walk by. Just ugh! :scust:
 

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I still get approached but it is by a different type of man
I don’t club any more so it’s at different places like the petrol station or even at a red light
The grocery store etc
It be them OG brehs rocking the Ving rhames fit? They holler at any and everything...and especially if you a big gal :lolbron:
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Yes, women don’t get approached.

Barely got approached when I was single. A couple of looks and cold Hollas but genuinely approaching...nah

Really the other person who was aggressively in my inbox was @Every Moment... Older
:yeshrug:

U either

1. Busted and dont know it or mediocre/average looking
2. Give off a bytchy vibe (resting bytch face)
3.Or u in a location where ur not most mens type


And I wouldnt take male attention off Coli seriously
 

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Yes, women don’t get approached. At least thats what I experienced.

Barely got approached when I was single. A couple of looks and cold Hollas but genuinely approaching...nah

Really the other person who was aggressively in my inbox was @Every Moment... Older
:yeshrug:
A cold holla is an approach
 

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U either

1. Busted and dont know it or mediocre/average looking
2. Give off a bytchy vibe (resting bytch face)
3.Or u in a location where ur not most mens type


And I wouldnt take male attention off Coli seriously
I’ve been told I look too innocent or like a goodie two shoes.

Or that I seem shy.
 

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ID never cold approach a non Black woman but I’ve never got a negative or rape culture feel from a black women when approaching. I just walk up and start conversation
 

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A cold holla is an approach
I had a lot of those but I lived in Atlanta. They do that for sport. It’s means nothing to me or them probably.

I only count guys who are approaching in a “relationship-ish” vibe / Friendly approach. Even if I didn’t like them I still count it as a genuine and proper approach.
 

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I had a lot of those but I lived in Atlanta. They do that for sport. It’s means nothing to me or them probably.

I only count guys who are approaching in a “relationship-ish” vibe / Friendly approach. Even if I didn’t like them I still count it as a genuine and proper approach.
:stopitslime:You won’t know from the first approach
 
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I had a lot of those but I lived in Atlanta. They do that for sport. It’s means nothing to me or them probably.

I only count guys who are approaching in a “relationship-ish” vibe / Friendly approach. Even if I didn’t like them I still count it as a genuine and proper approach.

Lol how is he supposed to want a relationship when he first hollas if he barely fukking knows you...:mjlol:

So u do get approached, just not by the men u want..


U know what nvm... lol
 

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ID never cold approach a non Black woman but I’ve never got a negative or rape culture feel from a black women when approaching. I just walk up and start conversation
There is cold holla screaming “hey yellow shirt ” which is just rude.

Then their is the friendly “oh I like your hair” friendly conversation approach. I only trust approaches from these type of men. Most likely would treat a woman like he has some sense about him.
 
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