Are women the ones doing the cold approaching now?

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I havent necessarily been approached, but 1 time in DC with my fellow black brothas was on our way to meet some ladies at a brunch spot, some ladies were like "Hello Kings..." I didn't say nothing back tho cause I felt like i'd have to stay and have a convo with ladies I wasn't really tryna talk to.
this story doesnt even belong in this thread my G....
 

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If you dress well, smell good, have a nice body and groom yourself then women will approach you.

It won't always be direct, but it will be obvious. She'll say you smell nice, or she likes your shirt, or she likes your glasses. Or she might say that you must work out. Or She'll ask you where the Macy's is even though it's right behind her.
 

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There is this woman at work I can't stand.

She doesn't work for my company but she works for a company we contract with.

She got in one of my employees faces one day and I have been on her ass ever sense. She leaves my employees alone now because she knows better.

Anyway, come to find out she's been sexually harassing a manager from another company.

He was telling me yesterday the bytch says all types of nasty to him. Just randomly shyt like she'd "throw that ass on him."

She looks like a high yellow Druski with less breasts and has a slightly moldy smell to her.

:mjlol:

nikka about to hit her with that HR complaint and get her the fukk out the building.
 

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There is this woman at work I can't stand.

She doesn't work for my company but she works for a company we contract with.

She got in one of my employees faces one day and I have been on her ass ever sense. She leaves my employees alone now because she knows better.

Anyway, come to find out she's been sexually harassing a manager from another company.

He was telling me yesterday the bytch says all types of nasty to him. Just randomly shyt like she'd "throw that ass on him."

She looks like a high yellow Druski with less breasts and has a slightly moldy smell to her.

:mjlol:

nikka about to hit her with that HR complaint and get her the fukk out the building.
I bet if she wasn’t fat/ugly and stank he wouldn’t be complaining :mjlol:
 

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There is this woman at work I can't stand.

She doesn't work for my company but she works for a company we contract with.

She got in one of my employees faces one day and I have been on her ass ever sense. She leaves my employees alone now because she knows better.

Anyway, come to find out she's been sexually harassing a manager from another company.

He was telling me yesterday the bytch says all types of nasty to him. Just randomly shyt like she'd "throw that ass on him."

She looks like a high yellow Druski with less breasts and has a slightly moldy smell to her.

:mjlol:

nikka about to hit her with that HR complaint and get her the fukk out the building.
This is like the reverse version of that "flirting vs sexual harrasment" meme, :lolbron:
 

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Yeah I don’t get approached that often

I’ve been called handsome quite a few times and have a baby face (I always get asked for my ID and people have told me I look like a teenager) but the only woman that have ever approached me out the blue have been older woman.

I’m guessing chicks my age think I’m younger than I actually am or something, cause the only time a chick ever initiated convo on an intimate level with me was in High School
Same boat.
 

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That's a red flag according to Mr locario

Programming babble lol...this is probably true in about the lightest shade of gray.

Just about all men who are successful with women have had women approach them in the passive-aggressive manner that they do.
 

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That's a red flag according to Mr locario


No wonder people/young men are so fried if that's the kind of shyt they are listening and watching and emulating. These influencers, in their desperation for clicks, have just straight up invented and inverted fundamental concepts, of being a "man" and some old school hip hop player shyt. This was what old school players and pimps would describe as being chosen. Rappers and R&B singers spend like two decades describing those scenarios, all of our favorite songs reference this idea.

It starts around elementary/middle school, you get Valentines, girls come up to you, my friend likes you, girls write their number in your yearbook, girls come sit by you at lunch, or just walk by and wave. My girl wants to go out with you. My girl wants your number. This is just basic stuff. Damn, getting old is weird.

Anyone who has spent any time in a club or a bar, or high school, or whatever just lived life at all would know this is utter nonsense.
 
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I havent necessarily been approached, but 1 time in DC with my fellow black brothas was on our way to meet some ladies at a brunch spot, some ladies were like "Hello Kings..." I didn't say nothing back tho cause I felt like i'd have to stay and have a convo with ladies I wasn't really tryna talk to.

i have a friend that acknowledges every black person. man she can talk talk talk her ass off but she really just saying what's up on principal
a basic hello would have done just fine :snoop:
 

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