Are you where you want to be in life?

[Steve Piffler]

In light of the recent changes in my life, it has caused me to reflect on the past. i made so many mistakes... i always seem to make it to the fork in the road and go in the wrong direction. at 35 years old, i'm not happy with where i am. i got , i let my marriage fall apart (when i probably could have done something to fix it a long time ago), my finances have suffered for a long time (although my money is looking a lot better nowadays), etc.

With all that said, i hired a personal trainer and got back in the gym (already 4lbs. down), i have finally acceped the fact that this marriage is not going to work for either of us and hurled all thoughts of a possible reconciliation into the bushes, and i have started making smarter and more calculated decisions when it comes to my finance. i'm a lot less wasteful and am very concious of what i'm spending my money on. it's only a few steps so far, but they are finally in the right direction. the next 2 years will be spent rebuilding myself. i liked being married, but when it ends it tears everything in your life apart before it's finally done. it's like a tornado. i'll probably never do it again.

i'm rambling.... i just needed to vent....

 

[john goodman]

22...

I'll keep this post in mind for the rest of my life... Reevaluate things everyday

 

[intruder]

Nowhere near. Thats why i wake up in the morning

 

[-G$-]

professionally? no.

everywhere else? yes.

 

[resurrection]

I think answering yes to this question is the first step in becoming miserable

 

[Stuntone]

I've went farther than I ever thought I would, mainly bcuz never wanted a lot. I never really dreamed or had goals, just tried not to fukk up too bad and it has worked out for me. Being so optimistic and over-ambitious is dangerous and will have you feeling like an underachiever all of your life. I don't think there's anything wrong with aiming for the modest life. Someone has to be teachers and construction workers. I shot low as hell, ended up a lot farther and now I like an overachiever.

 

[Swirv]

Let it out before you take it out on an innocent. Props to you for making changes for the better. Dont get off track! For your question yes I am happy with my life. I have everything I need, so life is good.

 

[No Sleep]

As long as I can get a box of Church's Chicken everyday I'm good.

 

[We Ready]

Simple answer = NO

 

[opulence]

In light of the recent changes in my life, it has caused me to reflect on the past. i made so many mistakes... i always seem to make it to the fork in the road and go in the wrong direction. at 35 years old, i'm not happy with where i am. i got , i let my marriage fall apart (when i probably could have done something to fix it a long time ago), my finances have suffered for a long time (although my money is looking a lot better nowadays), etc.

With all that said, i hired a personal trainer and got back in the gym (already 4lbs. down), i have finally acceped the fact that this marriage is not going to work for either of us and hurled all thoughts of a possible reconciliation into the bushes, and i have started making smarter and more calculated decisions when it comes to my finance. i'm a lot less wasteful and am very concious of what i'm spending my money on. it's only a few steps so far, but they are finally in the right direction. the next 2 years will be spent rebuilding myself. i liked being married, but when it ends it tears everything in your life apart before it's finally done. it's like a tornado. i'll probably never do it again.

i'm rambling.... i just needed to vent....

No I'm not ....I'm not even sure where to begin...sorry to hear about your divorce what happened in your marriage?

Glad to hear you're getting yourself on track though...at the least you're able to admit your mistakes and try to work on yourself most cant do that.

 

[Miggs]

Ive had financial and personal hardships in the last few years and going to the gym and workin on my body and personal health always kept my head up and gave me strenght to deal with other issues...when ur body feels right ur mind feels right,helped prepare my mind to get things together....

 

[JasonSJackson]

" Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around."

 

[ClassyME]

We've all made mistakes and have skeletons in our closet. Professionally, I am close to my goal. In the long run tho? I have a lot of work to do before I can be fully satisfied with where I'm at in life.

 

[skeetsinternal]

As humans I think we are always striving to improve/test/assess our current state and some of us always wanting more. Material things don't matter to me. I hope to be better socially, maybe find a shorty and end my ratchet ways but for now I am having fun out there

 

[Steve Piffler]

No I'm not ....I'm not even sure where to begin...sorry to hear about your divorce what happened in your marriage?

Glad to hear you're getting yourself on track though...at the least you're able to admit your mistakes and try to work on yourself most cant do that.

short answer, we are growing in different directions.