Are your 30's mad lonely... pause ?

Micky Mikey

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Im lonely but church is a crutch.

Seek something tangible. Set goals.

Im losing weight, working out, cutting back on alcohol, etc.

Getting right with yourself starts with the body.

There other avenues to awakening than church. In fact church on most occassions is just another distraction from true spirituality. This is why so many people leave church ultimately filling unfullfilled.
Instead develop a meditation routine. Start with maybe 30-60 mins of absolute silence daily without fail and observe what thoughts or experiences arise as a result.

Taking care of the body is important especially if you decide to go the spiritual route. However, do not neglect the mind. Too much emphasis on the body is a distraction from spiritual truth.
 

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There other avenues to awakening than church. In fact church on most occassions is just another distraction from true spirituality. This is why so many people leave church ultimately filling unfullfilled.
Instead develop a meditation routine. Start with maybe 30-60 mins of absolute silence daily without fail and observe what thoughts or experiences arise as a result.

Taking care of the body is important especially if you decide to go the spiritual route. However, do not neglect the mind. Too much emphasis on the body is a distraction from spiritual truth.

Could not agree more. Mindfulness is true spirituality.

This book changed my life

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Tbh after HS its been lonely for me. Met few new people through different jobs here and there these past 4 years
but other than that i have no life. And in my late 20s now.

Not tryna fish for daps or have cats feel sorry for me but it is what it is.

But what i will say is that a major part of it came from me isolating myself right at 17-18 for mad years. Mostly due to issues around me and then me going through depression. But its a lonely life now for sure.
 

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Tbh after HS its been lonely for me. Met few new people through different jobs here and there these past 4 years
but other than that i have no life. And in my late 20s now.

Not tryna fish for daps or have cats feel sorry for me but it is what it is.

But what i will say is that a major part of it came from me isolating myself right at 17-18 for mad years. Mostly due to issues around me and then me going through depression. But its a lonely life now for sure.
What's your family situation like?
 

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My 30's have been more peaceful than lonely. I lived about 5 lives full of non-stop fukkery in my teens and 20's so I actually embrace the "loneliness". :blessed:

That sigma male lifestyle aint built for everybody. Because you do have your moments. Me personally, I'm an only child so I grew up and paid my dues in the streets riding dolo, so it's my natural state. But only a select few really can handle that lone wolf lifestyle.

Right now I'm embracing the fact that I can maneuver when I want, where I want. With a girlfriend, kids, family etc. you have to factor in their needs, likes/dislikes on a lot of day to day decisions in general.

Once I secure that bag in this IT game, my glow up is gonna be something phenomenal :banderas:

Eventually I know I'll get chose and that chick will give me an offer that I can't refuse. But until then, imma enjoy my freedom. :manny:
 
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