Arguing should not be part of a relationship. At worst minimal.

[Wink Beaufield]

I had another dude tell me if I'm not having constant arguments with my girl then something is up with the relationship.

I'm like bruh, who raised you to believe that shyt?

 

[Token]

Foreal. And when you mention how stupid it is people wanna say "Well, every relationship has issues. " "Relationships are hard work." "You have to make an effort."

talking like they've been married for 50 years and not dating for 4 months. Bye.

 

[MoveForward]

shyt me and my lady argue every week about some bullsh1t. We haven't gone a month without an argument in 13 years.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

arguments happen but it's not cute and should never be a constant in a relationship

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

life with my ex was like that.....

we literally couldnt go 3 days without arguing.....

never again

 

[King Khufu]

Arguments happen.
You right though, it should not be normal.
Just people disagree, doesn't stop them feeling for eachother.
If they hate each other, they will argue their way out of the relationship lol.
Fine by me!

 

[GhettoTeK]

It's crazy i feel like a lot of woman believe arguing is normal. Like if y'all not going at it that mean you don't care. Im all set i never argue with nobody too much energy wasted

Word. I save my energy for fighting

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Usually too many arguments are a sign the relationship is dysfunctional.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I’ve been with my girl for almost 5 years and I never even had to raise my voice with her, much less argue. I’m a very easy going person, non confrontational person, fukk I look like arguing with a woman especially one I love

Disagreements are bound to happen and they can be resolved in a civil manner. Unfortunately people, esp women, normalize and romanticize fukk shyt in relationships

 

[old_timer]

My wife and I fight about 5-6 times a year

Most common Root cause is..
she thought we had firm plans and I was unaware or thought those were "maybe" or " Ill let you know if I can make it"

But if I say "no" or clearly rule out possibilities..
Way before deadline
then I seem inaccessible or absent or disinterested

There's really no solution except to navigate the best I can

The Dr Phil answer is to give her hour by hour updates but fukk that shyt sounds "reasonable" (to a nitwit) but only creates resentment and turns fun time into a chore

We both like to socialize "as a couple" but 90% of when we don't go, it was me who couldn't make it.. And understandably that can irritate her

 

[HarlemHottie]

Been together 19 yrs. We got together so young (19), we had no idea wtf we were doing. Both sets of parents had been married, but weren't together as we grew up. We argued over dumb shyt, not side kids or whatever, but we realized it was toxic and he put his foot down (while also checking himself). We haven't argued in, easily, over a decade.

 

[Clayton Endicott]

Before I got married, I dated a few women that thought I was boring cuz there was no drama and shyt. Not only is it immature, but it's counterproductive too. I'm too even keeled for that shyt.

I see folks at work arguing with their SOs on the phone all the time. Be on the assembly line on some shyt. Be talking mad reckless too. Everybody looking at them like

 

[Neuromancer]

My girl an I don't argue.

 

[get these nets]

Had an ex who started arguing randomly which made me talk with her less which made her argue more like a vicious cycle.

I broke up with her and all her friends said what kinda man can't handle arguments? that means he was never really down for you..lol

Birds of a feather, flock together.

Dudes who tolerate bullshyt from the jump are fukkin idiots. I don't care what she looks like, or what the sex is like, it's NEVER worth the headache.

 

[get these nets]

Argue with women constantly BEFORE you share residence, finances and children and believe that things will get better in the future, Brohams !