I’m vigilant 24/7. Check my back before I open my front door. Check my rear mirror before opening my car, check underneath and around it before entering. I’m watching every sketchy character with scrutiny who leaves and enters a public place.
My girl thinks I’m paranoid but that’s the problem with most women, especially pretty ones: they grow up very naive. They don’t sense danger until it’s too late. Not victim blaming but a lot of them are oblivious to danger 9/10.
Us men know there are wolves everywhere. It’s kept me unscathed so far so I’ll continue to keep my head on a swivel.