Article: Ex-Christian regrets waiting until marriage to lose her virginity

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And I'm sure you as a woman will show us the true meaning of masculinity

As a woman, I was lucky enough to grow up around male rolemodels who showed me that men care for their wives and families. Can't say the same for many of the posters around here. I'm starting to believe some of y'all are really fatherless, if you think only a fakkit gets his wife to therapy when it's obvious she needs it.

 

[iBrowse]

nikka waited 6 years

"My feminist husband was horrified that I'd let him touch me when I didn't want him to. He made me promise I'd never do anything I didn't want to do ever again. We stopped having sex. He encouraged me to see a therapist and I did. It was the first step on a long journey to healing."

 

[iBrowse]

I KNEW someone was going to quote that part of her post...

#thecoli

 

[Claudex]

I can understand her being embarrassed about people knowing once she got back. The other stuff is a deeper issue. I was raised the same way but I didn't internalize it like that. It became her identity It seems like she didn't prep herself or really know anything about it.

She was ten when they made her promise nikka, ain't no prep for that age.
You can only be glad your parents probably weren't the religious nuts hers were. Some parents man

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

nikka waited 6 years

with her...breh....

somehow i doubt he was a virgin

 

[Elle Driver]

That's disgusting the fact that a damn 10 year old would be shamed into proclaiming her virginity in front of the church. What the fukk is wrong with them? Jesus, their thoughts are so perverted that they project them onto little fukkin kids. Wicked evil ass people.

 

[Raava]

She was ten when they made her promise nikka, ain't no prep for that age.
You can only be glad your parents probably weren't the religious nuts hers were. Some parents man

I am talking about prep when you get older. I was fully aware of what sex was and its purpose and the thought of pleasure from it. I just felt it was for marriage and that it was nothing to be ashamed of.

My mom wasn't a nut, but she was very conservative. My daddy was not but I was a girl so he just echoed her.

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

See my problem is this quote right here:

When I have sex with my husband, I make sure it's because I have a sexual need and not because I feel I'm required to fulfill his desires.

So in a nutshell if she's horny she gets to fukk, but if he's horny he ain't getting none . Pull some shyt like that and ima be like " bytch I'm tired, check with me tomorrow".

 

[ORDER_66]

whoever the husbasnd is is emasculated to the 9th degree jeezus christ... my "feminist" husband?! she just basically called him a low key p*ssy...

 

[Thsnnor]

She seem to be more worried about gossip folks than anything else. If she was married then it should have been no big deal. Saving yourself for marriage then getting married is cool. Having sex after marriage is cool. Why was she soooo concerned about what others were thinking regarding her virginity after being married? Wow... just wow...

 

[Ego Noir]

The problem is she looked at her virginity as a source of pride. She held it as the confirmation that she was better than the rest.

So instead of having her purity as a full on and truthful unity to her husband, when her husband finally took her virginity, she saw it as a loss of the only thing that distinguished her.

Thats the problem. Not the church. Not her husband. But her own selfish ego.

 

[PhonZhi]

Was expecting this thread to do better numbers

 

[ChemicalBk]

^word

 

[onelastdeath]

"I don't go to church anymore, nor am I religious. As I started to heal, I realized that I couldn't figure out how to be both religious and sexual at the same time. I chose sex."

LMAOOOO

That's real as shyt though

 

[Camammal]

Thats what religion does to you...makes you a fukking weirdo who can't enjoy sex because their invisible daddy is watching them 24/7 like a pervert. The fukk i look like waiting 6 years for bad sex? then you are stuck with a bytch who is afraid of some dikk? LMAAOOOOO