Article: Ex-Christian regrets waiting until marriage to lose her virginity

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Her husband sounds like a fukking fakkit; "my feminist husband" :dead:

It looks like shes just asexual though, the hoes u hear about on deadbedrooms on reddit who just dont enjoy sex.

Feminist means you support equal rights..if you believe Women should get the same pay as men in the work place then youre a Feminist..im one
 

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I can't say I'm surprised. Virginity became so tied to her identity and self-worth that she got the message that it was sinful/dirty, in general, rather than undesired outside of the right context (marriage..well, according to that point of view). The teachings didn't make that point clear to her rather young mind and messed with her psyche, making her sex-negative..at least temporarily.
 

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Feminist means you support equal rights..if you believe Women should get the same pay as men in the work place then youre a Feminist..im one

What woman describes their man as a "feminist" husband???? that shyt doesnt sound emusculating to you????? if a womanever said that shyt about me id loose my shyt, its disrespectful to the man...
 

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i'll tell you why she felt repulsed. on her wedding night, something she has been waiting for since forever, she was stuck with this lame probably telling her "we'll take it slow, i don't want to hurt you. this is so romantic" and she couldn't have felt anything else beside disappointment. she probably felt like she was sleeping with the lamest of lames.

My feminist husband...

:mjlol:
 

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i'll tell you why she felt repulsed. on her wedding night, something she has been waiting for since forever, she was stuck with this lame probably telling her "we'll take it slow, i don't want to hurt you. this is so romantic" and she couldn't have felt anything else beside disappointment. she probably felt like she was sleeping with the lamest of lames.



:mjlol:

IT'S NOT HIS FAULT SHE'S fukkED UP IN THE HEAD!!!!!!!

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IT'S NOT HIS FAULT SHE'S fukkED UP IN THE HEAD!!!!!!!

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never said it was. at the end of the day, she chose him. what i'm saying is, she was always fukked up but the big trigger to all this was the fact that she "stayed pure" and held on to her virginity all these years, despite peer pressure, despite desires she might have had and all this to give it up to some lame. kept the powder dry this long just to waist it. had she given it up to someone she felt was more worthy, who made her feel those tingles, she would have felt good about sex. someone she could look up to. but this dude puts her on a pedestal so he's the one who looks up to her. the one thing i agree with you on is that she was fukked up in the head either way so she probably would never have felt like someone was worthy enough.
 

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Sounds more like she regrets marrying her husband and wishes she had given into the devil instead of betting the farm on whats right. Demonic hindsight.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:

No it sounds like the damage any person would experience after a lifetime of being told a normal human behavior was sinful and engaging in it made them a worse person. Many women are unfortunately indoctrinated into this self hatred. Some are on the opposite end of the spectrum and have lots of sex but again still only view it as a means to please a man (or many men) and not themselves.

All in all society needs to stop forcing women to harbor negative feelings about sex. It does no one any good.
 

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No it sounds like the damage any person would experience after a lifetime of being told a normal human behavior was sinful and engaging in it made them a worse person. Many women are unfortunately indoctrinated into this self hatred. Some are on the opposite end of the spectrum and have lots of sex but again still only view it as a means to please a man (or many men) and not themselves.

All in all society needs to stop forcing women to harbor negative feelings about sex. It does no one any good.
No friend, the damage is already done to your mind when you allow yourself to be used by men who feel nothing for you like trash. Human beings are not perfect and this way of life has a habit of leading to murder, misery and hayhem over and over again, ALL AROUND THE PLANET!

You saying, men need to just accept whores makes about as much sense as men saying to women, you need to accept infidelity. Promiscuousness and infidelity are two things that human beings by and large do not want for their children and its sad that you will teach your daughter that its ok to be loose with her body. You arent ready for family im sorry.

Sex isnt a problem. Married couples get it in friend, as they should Its casual sex with strangers that people have a problem with and men see little value in a woman thats given the treasures of her flesh to multiple up on multiple men, being used for sexual gratification and then coming to him saying

*im ready to be your queen now*

The chemical rewiring of your mind from being a mans jumpoff has already caused damage that may take decades to reverse. The same is said for men that sleep around. Viewing women as objects to be conquered and discarded like rubbish makes it hard for said individual to treat the right woman in the right way. How can he know or learn when he only values a womans body and not the true and pure relationships that should come from these unions in the form of marriage and family.

Please get your mind right friend. I think you have a virus in your head made up of demonic spirits.

And that so demonic, friend. :sitdown:
 

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never said it was. at the end of the day, she chose him. what i'm saying is, she was always fukked up but the big trigger to all this was the fact that she "stayed pure" and held on to her virginity all these years, despite peer pressure, despite desires she might have had and all this to give it up to some lame. kept the powder dry this long just to waist it. had she given it up to someone she felt was more worthy, who made her feel those tingles, she would have felt good about sex. someone she could look up to. but this dude puts her on a pedestal so he's the one who looks up to her. the one thing i agree with you on is that she was fukked up in the head either way so she probably would never have felt like someone was worthy enough.

Bullshyt. she was fukked up since day one... no matter what he did he wasnt gonna win this shyt... she is so fukked up in the head no matter what he did. Whether he was worthy or not. HER ISSUES HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM!
 

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There's so much to say here, but; she hit the nail on the head.

She took much pride from a virginity. And the fact she got married, then, had sex shows a dysfunction. That was the whole point; wait until marriage.

I won't judge her for leaving the church. I don't know what she went through.

I have my own issues with my being a virgin and wanting to wait until marriage. Goin' to hell isn't as simple as doin' something wrong. Humans are pretty flawed.
 
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