Article: How Having An Affair Saved My Life

[The Mad Titan]

Whats crazy is yall pretending she didn't accept full responsibility.

Taking full responsibility for doing dirt doesn't make it any less dirty, especially when you put that dirt on display to empower others who are on rocky roads. And then pretending like it was the ONLY way she could live her truth or even more ridiculous "save her life" is laughable dude.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Whats crazy is yall pretending she didn't accept full responsibility.

i don't give a fukk nikka

 

[Danny Up]

i don't give a fukk nikka

Copout. You were confident and deadass wrong, now you don't give a fukk. Cool.

 

[Danny Up]

Taking full responsibility for doing dirt doesn't make it any less dirty, especially when you put that dirt on display to empower others who are on rocky roads. And then pretending like it was the ONLY way she could live her truth or even more ridiculous "save her life" is laughable dude.

Nobody said it was the only way. To be empowered you need to go against something, someone deems wrong. Hers was having an affair. People accepting responsibility is always a good thing.

 

[agnosticlady]

Uh, yeah she did. .I made the choice to take it with full knowledge of the possible consequences

NO in that line she stated that she was presented with an affair, instead of just saying I met someone, or went out of my way to meet with someone and turn it into an affair. Nobody just pops out of the blue and say's, "Hey I want to have an affair with you" The whole article is a jumbled up mess of a person trying to convince others that the only way she could live life and mature was through an affair.

 

[thatdude954]

What she said was right though. People spend way too much time worrying about what others will say and they miss out on life. That's the allure of the bad guy. He/She gives of the illusion they don't give a fukk and just do what they do.

Im talking about how she sees cheating as a positive thing. Maybe she got married to soon, maybe she was living a lie, maybe conventional marriage isnt for her but she cheated. No one can force you to cheat.
You shouldnt get married then 6 months later say, "eh I'm not feeling this" and leave. Thats why I dont believe in getting married as soon as you get your diploma. Still too much to experience and she missed those experiences and 4 months in she is craving them (and the D).

She just needs to admit she wants D and keep it moving. Just change the whole title to "I never had a ho phase" cuz thats the gist of it lol
never got a chance to fukk around
never got a chance to find out what she liked
cheated on her husband

An affair saved her life....but what about her ex?
ik you have to do what makes you happy but when what makes you happy changes this quick, youre a bird. Marriage isnt some I want chocolate today, vanilla tomorrow type shyt.

Never took it srs. Never had a chance.

 

[Easy-E]

1972 Miami Dolphins.

Floyd Mayweather's professional career.

2003-04 Arsenal FC in the Premier League.

NO LOSSES.

Here's to u guys being the 07 Pats

Cuz I want a boo-boo one day

 

[Danny Up]

NO in that line she stated that she was presented with an affair, instead of just saying I met someone, or went out of my way to meet with someone and turn it into an affair. Nobody just pops out of the blue and say's, "Hey I want to have an affair with you" The whole article is a jumbled up mess of a person trying to convince others that the only way she could live life and mature was through an affair.

WTF? You're arguing semantics. You acting like muhfukkaz don't go home/to the bathroom wit men and women they just met.

 

[Danny Up]

Im talking about how she sees cheating as a positive thing. Maybe she got married to soon, maybe she was living a lie, maybe conventional marriage isnt for her but she cheated. No one can force you to cheat.
You shouldnt get married then 6 months later say, "eh I'm not feeling this" and leave. Thats why I dont believe in getting married as soon as you get your diploma. Still too much to experience and she missed those experiences and 4 months in she is craving them (and the D).

She just needs to admit she wants D and keep it moving. Just change the whole title to "I never had a ho phase" cuz thats the gist of it lol
never got a chance to fukk around
never got a chance to find out what she liked
cheated on her husband

An affair saved her life....but what about her ex?
ik you have to do what makes you happy but when what makes you happy changes this quick, youre a bird. Marriage isnt some I want chocolate today, vanilla tomorrow type shyt.

Never took it srs. Never had a chance.

You're suppose to see the positives in EVERYTHING! Nowhere did I see her say she was forced to cheat or denied cheating. She said it was liberating.

Marriage is just like everything else, you have the right to change your mind.

What about her ex? He's liberated too. Does it he see it like that or is he wallowing in self pitty like you other sacks of shyts. A "trifling whore" left you, the fukk is you upset about?

 

[The Mad Titan]

Nobody said it was the only way. To be empowered you need to go against something, someone deems wrong. Hers was having an affair. People accepting responsibility is always a good thing.

Son are you reading this

It was certainly an unconventional way to learn about myself. But I figured one of two things would happen. I would have this affair, learn what I needed, and use that knowledge to improve my life and my new marriage. Or I would have this affair, learn that I shouldn't have gotten married at all, and get out.

What kind of simple thinking is this, either she's not very bright when it comes to common sense or she's lying to herself and a everyone who reads this. What Kind of knowledge are you going to gain from an affair?

One, your a scum bag, two, you have no self control, and three you need to not be in a relationship at all.

That's it, period. All this extra stuff is excuses, you dont make a write article called "how having an affair saved my life" when there was no life threatening issues going on to start with

She simply got what she wanted, probably got hit up by some attractive dude after being married and then wondered what it would be like to do what she wanted with who she wanted for the rest of her life.

Now her life is "saved"

She could have very well choose not to cheat, and experience the total opposite side of this equation. But that probably would have taken self control, and wouldn't be getting written about or spotlighted on websites now would it.

 

[agnosticlady]

WTF? You're arguing semantics. You acting like muhfukkaz don't go home/to the bathroom wit men and women they just met.

ok

 

[Ashley Banks]

There's good girls out here, right?

Yes, I would never cheat

 

[Ohene]

Ever had a bytch do some grimey shyt and then ignore YOU

Women have levels of grime that men can never reach.

Sigh

 

[thatdude954]

You're suppose to see the positives in EVERYTHING! Nowhere did I see her say she was forced to cheat or denied cheating. She said it was liberating.

Marriage is just like everything else, you have the right to change your mind.

What about her ex? He's liberated too. Does it he see it like that or is he wallowing in self pitty like you other sacks of shyts. A "trifling whore" left you, the fukk is you upset about?

Never been married bruh and no one should wallow in self pity. I see the positive in her understanding what she wants out of life right now, I just feel like she didnt have to cheat to see it and that she should of never been in this position (married so young).

My thing is she didnt take marriage seriously. Its a 50+ year investment. You have to commit to it, understand how big of a life decision it is and she didnt (maybe her ex husband didnt either but he didnt cheat or write about it).

 

[BruhMayne]

You been here since 2012, and you still believe in marriage. Thought thecoli would destroy any confidence in that.

@ the coli being reason, the shyt I have seen in real life was valid enough to lose confidence breh

But waking up young in the middle of the night for kool aid and catching your parents slow dancing in the living room in the a.m. is 30+ years strong