Article: How Having An Affair Saved My Life

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Monogamy is unnatural.

More poly/monagamish relationships/marriages and a situation like this could have ended up in a happy marriage/partnership. Not saying that's going to be for EVERYBODY but people who invest so much feeling and emotion to the institution of marriage AS IT IS NOW pay no attention to how it began or even how it's transformed and how it's going to continue to do so.
 

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If you listened to the coli wtf would you believe in? These muthafukkaz is the most ass backwards illogical motherfukkers alive. Then again you to look at the age disparity. You got kids posting with grand parents.

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All women say they would never cheat yeahwhen there in love and emotions are high of course.

But when your unemployed, or the relationship becomes routine and boring and the tingles are gone, and jerrondale at work is emailing her and taking her out to lunch. Or her first love pops up.....



That's prolly what this chick that b4 she got married too :unsure:
 

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Well it's history has told me that for the most part women cheat due to EMO and men cheat due to EGO it's that's simple. :russell:
 
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I used to be shocked but this is standard CAC behavior and logic.

And CAC Men tolerate it and take it up the ass on the regular basis these days from their Women.

Let them fukk themselves, but we should learn from their mistakes.
 
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Monogamy is unnatural.

I remind my Woman of this all the time. :jawalrus: Slowly planting that seed.

Never give them the expectation that you have lost the desire to pork other Women.

The difference is most Women are physically incapable of having sex with another Man without catching feelings. I can fukk a bytch today and not think about them 2 days from now at all. This is how Men are built. We have millions of sperm. They only have hundreds of eggs. That's a pretty huge fukking difference. Not to mention we have something like 300x more testosterone than they do in our bloodstream at all times. Nurses (the ones that actually paid attention during these classes) should be the least surprised at male "infidelity". :manny:

Don't ever communicate or re-assure a Woman that she is the only one. But always communicate she is the priority/main. Don't set the expectations bar high for her to fall. At least then she would think back "Well I'm not surprised the nikka told me every other day how nice this booty looked and how he wants a 3-some". They not gonna tell they momma on you because they know that you was honest from the jump. :obama:
 

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This article is stupid as hell. People are always trying to justify and make a movement out of their bad behavior. :mjlol: trying to rewrite history to make themselves the victor.
 

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people who cheat are selfish due to the fact they don't have the spine to break it off with someone they aren't completely happy with...people also ride that high in the beginning of a relationship and don't know how to act when it fades away so they don't want to give up a sure thing and go out and test the field because don't want to be single they keep the person around while they are having touchy interviews to replace the person they are with essentially
 

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Brehs............ this fukking comment from the comment section


"Been there, done that, story mirrors my own. The fact of the matter is that there is so much shame tossed at women for figuring out that we're more than what we've been brainwashed to believe. If we create a socieity where we tell women that their worth is wrapped up in what guy they marry, how nice their house it, and how perfect their children are while ignoring the idea that not all women are going to be good at being wives, mothers, or homemakers, we as a society are first damaging women and then punishing them for trying to crawl out of that damage.

I figured out in my early 20s that being married was not a life for me. I'm not good at it and frankly, it exasterbated my depression to the point where I was attempting suicide. But rather than understand that maybe, just maybe, another man coming into the picture and helping a woman with the confidence she needs to take control of her life and to SAVE HERSELF, we point fingers and say "shame! Shame on you for not being a stepford wife. How on earth could you cheat on a man?!" instead of asking a guy "why are you perpetuating this prision for your spouse and pushing her to the brink of death?" Perhaps we should have more compassion for women who realize their calling in life is to not be married."


:comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon::comeon:


Sign me up brah. This streak lasting longer than the undertaker's
 
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