As A Man Can You Purposely Ignore Love?

[-deleted-]

No. No one can avoid love.

You can’t. You’re a woman. You’re literally biologically inclined to seek it. You’re a gatekeeper of relations and nothing wrong with that, embrace it.

 

[Prynce]

It’s different, you know that. Your passions can only fulfill you. You can’t find fulfillment in a person.

I disagree

I think you gotta find the right woman which is hard

Also I think true love for a man comes with time put in by the woman

If you had a chick that's really down for you and care. You couldn't help but care for her after time

 

[KneeGrow.]

Rather not open myself to any vulnerabilities while feeling this boost that I’ve been feeling ever since coming to terms with the benefits of being single. The freedom makes you feel untouchable. I love that invincible energy.

But I know love often hits people out of nowhere. That’s why I’d rather avoid it. I like the way things are going now and want to keep that momentum. Just keep it real casual with women. I know there are women that can bang it out the park when it comes to attraction, but I rather avoid the passion that comes with that kind of love because it often just burns you. I wanna keep shyt consistent with myself as is.

Well, luckily for you, love is a choice. You don't have to love anyone. That doesn't mean you won't lust, crush, or become infatuated.

Is it possible that you'll meet someone that challenges your newly found ideas about being single? Sure. At that point, you'll make the decision about whether or not they're worth (or worthy of) opening yourself up for.

Don't stress it bro you'll know when you know.

 

[-deleted-]

Well, luckily for you, love is a choice. You don't have to love anyone. That doesn't mean you won't lust, crush, or become infatuated.

That’s the thing, lust I understand but I rather avoid infatuation entirely.

Is it possible that you'll meet someone that challenges your newly found ideas about being single? Sure. At that point, you'll make the decision about whether or not they're worth (or worthy of) opening yourself up for.

Don't stress it bro you'll know when you know.

It’s 2019, we in the Wild West

 

[KneeGrow.]

It’s different, you know that. Your passions can only fulfill you. You can’t find fulfillment in a person.

What about your passions for the person? The relationship with the right person can help you grow just as much as any skill you develop.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Yeah, anyone who's closed off and won't allow a potential relationship to reach its potential will avoid love. I mean that's why a lot of relationships fail or don't get anywhere because people can't get over their selfishness, insecurities or passed experiences. No man is forced to commit to a woman.

People underestimate how rare it is to find a woman that can love a man for who he is. With how women are in this society now there are men that want to find a chick they can commit to but won't because many women can't fulfill their end of the deal so dudes that couldn't care less about commitment damn sure won't find it in most cases.

 

[KneeGrow.]

That’s the thing, lust I understand but I rather avoid infatuation entirely.



It’s 2019, we in the Wild West

Oh if you tryna avoid infatuation you might be shyt outta luck. The only thing that'll work in that case is total isolation from women you might be attracted to. You're fighting too many forces otherwise.

 

[BigMan]

you sound upset OP hablamelo

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I know a man that lost his mother a long time ago and he hasn't loved a woman since .

Imo tho I think it's possible for a man to live the rest of his life without loving any women (having casual sex doesn't equal love), women shouldn't answer these questions for a man because the truth is gonna hurt them.

There are misanthrope's walking these streets as we speak who haven't loved anybody probably since they were young.

 

[mortuus est]

Yeah, anyone who's closed off and won't allow a potential relationship to reach its potential will avoid love. I mean that's why a lot of relationships fail or don't get anywhere because people can't get over their selfishness, insecurities or passed experiences. No man is forced to commit to a woman.

People underestimate how rare it is to find a woman that can love a man for who he is. With how women are in this society now there are men that want to find a chick they can commit to but won't because many women can't fulfill their end of the deal so dudes that couldn't care less about commitment damn sure won't find it in most cases.

men and women are just as both trash as each other, no one is better

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

men and women are just as both trash as each other, no one is better

Did I say one is better? OP asked a question from a man perspective so I'm speaking from a man perspective.

 

[Living Bait]

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I think women love easier, but men love harder.I know chicks who love a different nicca every 3 months.

Niccaz will be just fukking a chick every 3 months.For the most part, men love women for who they are.

Pretty face, azz, titties, cool personality etc..etc..Women go by various criteria.Money, social status, cars,

houses......Traditionally.It's starting to change, tho.Because men are acting more & more like bytches these days.

But yeah, women are more likely to look at your attachments.They're easier to get lost in the sauce because of it.

 

[mortuus est]

Did I say one is better? OP asked a question from a man perspective so I'm speaking from a man perspective.

you said women instead of people but ok breh

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

you said women instead of people but ok breh

I know what I said. I don't care about adding "men are too" after every statement about women so people won't get their feelings hurt. Don't like it? Don't read it.