As A Man Can You Purposely Ignore Love?

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This. Women probably love as much as men we just get attached. After the first time it's hard to be in love again. I could never love a man I don't trust and most men start off with little White lies so it just kinda kills whatever could be. I don't even say anything when I catch the little lies. I just lose interest and kill any potential for anything physical.
I think all humans get attached lol

But this is kinda off topic. Do little white lies really matter to women? I lost a good female friend over a lie I told her
Every since then I promised to tell every woman the truth even if the truth is embarrassing to me. But that shyt is hard when it's something I may feel inadequate about
 

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I think all humans get attached lol

But this is kinda off topic. Do little white lies really matter to women? I lost a good female friend over a lie I told her
Every since then I promised to tell every woman the truth even if the truth is embarrassing to me. But that shyt is hard when it's something I may feel inadequate about

Depends on the woman I guess.

When you start off lying. I think you're a liar. In my experience people who lie about little things will lie about big things too.

Also it's hard for me to respect grown ups that lie unnecessarily. Like, what are you lying for? You're grown.
 

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folks in here are talking about attachment & emotional dependency.........love is every positive action & intention in all forms

what y'all seem to be talking about is the opposite of positive


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I think love can be negative too tho
A person can kill you cause they love you so much
 

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the older I get the harder it is to "love" romantically.

Back in the day a chick would look me in the eye and say I love you and i'd say it back and meant it at the time

last time a woman told me that I was just silent :heh:
 

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I think love can be negative too tho
A person can kill you cause they love you so much
no they can't

a person can kill you over the idea of you as a possession

love is not possession nor is it the crimes of passion committed when fools feel that their sense of possession is slipping away

love is always life affirming

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no they can't

a person can kill you over the idea of you as a possession

love is not possession nor is it the crimes of passion committed when fools feel that their sense of possession is slipping away

love is always life affirming

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I disagree. Love is the other side of hate. Love being the positive while hate is the negative. The only thing binding them is obsession.

The saying there's a thin line between love and hate Holds true for a reason
 

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Why would one want to do that?

When you’ve gone your whole life without, and suddenly your life starts to change for the better, you might get paranoid too. Plus when you love yourself you don’t really need love from anyone else.

it's weird how brehs are so keen on being anti-social to the point they don't see the dead end of pushing away the chances at love and community

just bizarre.

I guess man lol Different strokes

you can't avoid it.


But you can ignore it.

Church, this is what I really meant.

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the older I get the harder it is to "love" romantically.

Back in the day a chick would look me in the eye and say I love you and i'd say it back and meant it at the time

last time a woman told me that I was just silent :heh:

Yeah, it is what it is though.

This board gets more and more depressing by the day...

It is what it is.
 

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I disagree. Love is the other side of hate. Love being the positive while hate is the negative. The only thing binding them is obsession.

The saying there's a thin line between love and hate Holds true for a reason
i agree love & hate are opposites

obsession is not an aspect of love

& the line between love/hate is as wide as all eternity

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My brother's relationship with his girlfriend of 5 years ended a couple months ago

Since then the nikka already took up BJJ and bought his first house :mjlol: he was good at saving before, but now without her burden he gonna be on some young gawd shyt :blessed: im happy for him :mjcry: havin that stupid lil bytch off his shoulder is the best thing to ever happen to him
dont let these hos weigh yall down :ufdup:

THIS is what I’m talking about. That energy you have to get shyt done when you’re single is insane. I rather have it go on forever than someone new pops up, now their burdens are yours, etc..
 
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