As A Man, Do You Really Want A Relationship?

Ezekiel 25:17

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Ive straight up ghosted so many women because in the talking phase i cud see the nasty attitudes they be trying to disguise..at this point its about my peace of mind more than anything

What were the signs they had a nasty attitude?

Also you shouldn't ghost, puts you in a bad light. These women need to be told about themselves
 

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With the modern day, western woman?

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No man wants to deal with the emotional labor rooted in stupidity lol

In the past the emotional labor that came with relationships was at least associated with family and legacy and that shyt is dead.

this is why so many dudes are indifferent now as family and legacy is finished even for the ultra rich
 

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Even though most people my age been burnt out and I know it probably want last, but I still love the game, I love chasing that dream. I know there's a high percentage chance it will end like my last but still i play to win. I love the honeymoon stage and the excitement of this new person. It's like being on a bad team in the NBA, you still practice and average 20pt 10rebs and can still have fun, but it's be a miracle to get a ring in the end.

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this is the issue. when people, men and women, choose poorly.

Choose poorly has been a cop out too long. The issue is American Culture and Family law do not make sense in the modern lens nor do not provide an enviornment for family creation.

People use exceptions to the rule as the norman when Majority of marriages fail (hence the exception of the rule is those who last inspite of a system that doesnt support nor defined modern family creation).
 

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I like those “relationships” where everyone has there own place and it’s unspoken that you are only smashing each other.

There’s no set schedules on when to meet up. You can consistently tell her you’re busy but you know she’ll be there for you when you want to f her.

It’s nice knowing that someone is there for you without having the ball and chain feeling of a commitment relationship.
 

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And of course they in the comments saying all men are trash and acting like he represents all men.

It's all by design brehs.

I promise, I woke up this morning thinking about the terms "discord" and "psyop."

It's by design, a purposeful push to pit women against men, but a lot of ya'll already know that.

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I don't even feel like quoting the other stuff.
 

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Sure with the right person for ME

This is a silly question IMO

Kevin Samuels told y'all what the deal was for years and died a villain but his words are unknowingly quoted by many of you in every single one of these relationships threads.

Furthermore, I have never been in long term situation with a woman, ESPECIALLY SINGLE MOMS, that did not eventually want to move from FWB to a full on relationship.
 

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Choose poorly has been a cop out too long. The issue is American Culture and Family law do not make sense in the modern lens nor do not provide an enviornment for family creation.

People use exceptions to the rule as the norman when Majority of marriages fail (hence the exception of the rule is those who last inspite of a system that doesnt support nor defined modern family creation).

Choose poorly is not a cop out. Divorce happens because dumb people choose dumb partners.
 
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