As a man, does hearing that another man cheated on his wife or spouse change your opinion about them

[Paradise50]

Random, but I know quite a few chicks that got burnt by their dude cause he rawwin hoes while he cheating



nikkas really be reckless out here



When I cheated on my ex (a few times ) I always made sure I strapped up. For one that's hella disrespectful to burn ya chick, and for TWO I don't want some shyt PERIOD ......How y'all nikkas that reckless to raw dog a god damn slut!?

 

[DarrynCobretti]

Not. At. All.

We are human with flaws, issues and temptations.

It is hard work to stay faithful.

Once you're famous, rich and attractive? It is like playing video games on the hardest difficulty.

I'm a married man, attorney, black and I think look okay... shyt is HARD WORK to stay on the right path.

Really? "hard work" eh..

My nikka you posted this like you had this expression on your face when you typed it..

 

[PartyHeart]

@PartyHeart came through and crusted the building. Dude said 'let's talk biology' but when she hit him with that hammer he said 'forget biology'. Bravo sis bravo

dap+rep

He really started getting mad and hurling insults when I pointed it out too. And then tried to call me emotional when he was the one losing it over scientific facts he can easily look up and confirm himself

 

[Larry Lambo]

Let's not talk about what people are biologically programmed to do, because the environment we live in ain't conducive to our biological inputs.

Humans were also equipped with the ability to reason and make decisions as to what is best for themselves, their partner, and society as a whole.

If you want to justify men cheating because they are programmed to spread their seed, then don't get mad if every chick has a kid with a 6'6" dieseled up cat because he had superior genes.

And don't even question if you make a chick your lady and she leaves you for a genetically superior dude.

We live in a society that is far different than what our biological impulses were created in, but we are intelligent enough to adjust.

A world that people only did what their primal instinct tells them to do, is not a civilization at all. Might as well be a fu**ing chimpanzee.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Didn't even read this thread but casts using biology reasoning that they don't even understand....

 

[Larry Lambo]

This is what I'm talking about. Men need to be more honest with our women. When our daughters and sisters get cheated on it really don't affect us the way you think it does. We're more annoyed when we find out they're dating street nikkas then a nikka out here getting it that dips into some side from time to time. We evaluate men as if they're men, if this man holding the fam down, we honestly could give af less about some dumb female shyt like who that nikka fukking on the side

Any man that has that attitude about a man cheating on his daughter is a shi**y father. I'm not gonna let a man punk a woman I love like that. That level of selfishness is not tolerated.

Talking about it's all good if he takes care of home. There's a million other dudes out there that can do that and not smash thots on the side. Why she gotta settle for that bull is beyond me. When you say that it makes it seem like she's undesirable and has to take whatever man she can get and be happy that he's willing to provide for her, even if he's reckless with his d**k. FOH.

Disrespect is disrespect. If you can't stay sexually faithful to a chick, let her know from the jump or don't get in serious relationships.

 

[Shorty K]

Any man that has that attitude about a man cheating on his daughter is a shi**y father. I'm not gonna let a man punk a woman I love like that. That level of selfishness is not tolerated.

Talking about it's all good if he takes care of home. There's a million other dudes out there that can do that and not smash thots on the side. Why she gotta settle for that bull is beyond me. When you say that it makes it seem like she's undesirable and has to take whatever man she can get and be happy that he's willing to provide for her, even if he's reckless with his d**k. FOH.

Disrespect is disrespect. If you can't stay sexually faithful to a chick, let her know from the jump or don't get in serious relationships.

Bruh, you ain't about to do shyt and you're really not about shyt and less than a man if you're about breaking a family apart over some side. Were you raised by a single mother or something?

 

[DarrynCobretti]

That isn't the way any of this works. Women do not need the same amount of testosterone to get as physically stimulated as men.

The problem with that statement, is that you're implying women on average get physically stimulated as much as men.

There's empirical evidence out there that have shown men typically think about sex more than women (some scientific studies have said men think of sex as often as every 7 seconds) and score higher in libido studies.

There's actual evolutionary biologists who have multiple theories why this is, but the bottomline is there isn't some biological equilibrium between men and women in the sexual desire category like you're implying.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Bruh, you ain't about to do shyt and you're really not about shyt and less than a man if you're about breaking a family apart over some side. Were you raised by a single mother or something?

My parents been married 44 years. If my pops cheated, he never got caught. Mom said she was zero tolerance on that.

If I have kids that's the type of household I would raise them in, and if my daughter came crying to me about her hubby cheating, I would advise her to pack up her sh*t and go.

It would be his fault why the family broke up. He violated the marriage, not her.

If brehs would just think about people other than themselves, this isn't an issue. But everybody wants to look out for numero uno and don't care how it impacts others.

 

[Shorty K]

My parents been married 44 years. If my pops cheated, he never got caught. Mom said she was zero tolerance on that.

If I have kids that's the type of household I would raise them in, and if my daughter came crying to me about her hubby cheating, I would advise her to pack up her sh*t and go.

It would be his fault why the family broke up. He violated the marriage, not her.

If brehs would just think about people other than themselves, this isn't an issue. But everybody wants to look out for numero uno and don't care how it impacts others.

I'm really tryna understand what kind of man are you really that you'd advise your daughter to break her family up over some side p*ssy. You're pretty clearly anti family, I just hope you never have a daughter and are ever in a position where a family's unity depends on your decision making. You clearly not built for this nuthaving shyt

Your pops prolly even cheated on your mom and know better than to tell his lil sassy son about it too. Know his son the type to make the whole block hot with that gossiping ass mouth of his

 

[intruder]

NOPE

 

[DPresidential]

Really? "hard work" eh..

My nikka you posted this like you had this expression on your face when you typed it..

Lol.
Nah, I absolutely love my wife.

However, I'm keeping it real about the constant with towards being a faithful man in this society.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Hm nah I'm just aware that men ain't about to do shyt over some side unless it's a husband wife thing. But I'm sure you'd enjoy your bro putting his life on the line over some side p*ssy your man got

More assumptions and projection breh. I understand the pain of women means nothing to you. I hope that gets better for you.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

He really started getting mad and hurling insults when I pointed it out too. And then tried to call me emotional when he was the one losing it over scientific facts he can easily look up and confirm himself

More assumptions and projection breh. I understand the pain of women means nothing to you. I hope that gets better for you.

With all due respect the first 3 words of this thread are "as a man"

I really didn't care for a woman's opinion on this.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The problem with that statement, is that you're implying women on average get physically stimulated as much as men.

There's empirical evidence out there that have shown men typically think about sex more than women (some scientific studies have said men think of sex as often as every 7 seconds) and score higher in libido studies.

There's actual evolutionary biologists who have multiple theories why this is, but the bottomline is there isn't some biological equilibrium between men and women in the sexual desire category like you're implying.

https://www.gq.com/story/health-myth-does-the-average-man-really-think-about-sex-every-7-seconds

Common breh. This has been proven not be true and she actually already made a post addressing this point. She explained herself and the point very well.

But there's no real research to back up this oft-cited stat. And while people often attribute the myth to research by the Kinsey Institute, the *actual *research shows that while men think about sex a lot (and yes, more often than women), every seven seconds is a gross exaggeration. When Kinsey researchers asked men and women how often they think about sex, 54 percent of men said they think about sex several times a day, 43 percent responded a few times per week or just a few times per month, and 4 percent said less than once a month. Meanwhile, 19 percent of women said they thought about sex every day or several times a day, 67 percent responded a few times per week or a few times a month or, and 14 percent said less than once a month.

Note that a larger percentage of men and women only think about sex several times a week