As a man, does hearing that another man cheated on his wife or spouse change your opinion about them

Larry Lambo

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I'm really tryna understand what kind of man are you really that you'd advise your daughter to break her family up over some side p*ssy. You're pretty clearly anti family, I just hope you never have a daughter and are ever in a position where a family's unity depends on your decision making. You clearly not built for this nuthaving shyt :manny:

Your pops prolly even cheated on your mom and know better than to tell his lil sassy son about it too. Know his son the type to make the whole block hot with that gossiping ass mouth of his :sas2:

Your can't shame your way into justifying infidelity. You don't get a say in whether a relationship continues by calling it "side p*ssy". It's betrayal and behooves the woman to ride out on dude, because he doesn't respect her enough to show any type of discipline with his d**k. Doesn't matter that he takes care of home, just like it wouldn't matter if a chick cooked/clean/raised the kids and decided to get some side d**k.

What you fail to recognize is that if a woman leaves because a man cheated, it's not her fault that the relationship ended. It's HIS fault. He broke up the family.

Of course my pops wouldn't tell me if he cheated. Why the f**k would he do some dumb sh*t like that? "Son I know you love your mother, but I disrespected the f**k out of her, and I expect you to laugh and have a beer with me about it". I wouldn't snitch but I would lose a ton of respect for him.

It's millions of men out there that would be faithful to a braud. Women don't have to settle for a man that can't be, if that's what she wants.

There's some brauds that don't give a f**k, tho. If you know you can't stay faithful then it's best to find a chick like that.
 

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Naw I wouldn't. The relationship he has with his spouse/Gf is just that there relationship. Over the years my boy has shown me time and time again he's a stand-up dude in regards to our friendship. So my opinion of him wouldn't change. A mistake doesn't define your character.

Rell Shyt
 

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I'm really tryna understand what kind of man are you really that you'd advise your daughter to break her family up over some side p*ssy. You're pretty clearly anti family, I just hope you never have a daughter and are ever in a position where a family's unity depends on your decision making. You clearly not built for this nuthaving shyt :manny:

Your pops prolly even cheated on your mom and know better than to tell his lil sassy son about it too. Know his son the type to make the whole block hot with that gossiping ass mouth of his :sas2:

So you're accepting for women cheating on men as long as it was purely physical and she just wanted a more genetically superior specimen to stretch her walls? Don't break up the family or leave her?
 

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So you're accepting for women cheating on men as long as it was purely physical and she just wanted a more genetically superior specimen to stretch her walls? Don't break up the family or leave her?

Would you actually believe a woman if she told you she was only cheating on you because of pure physical attraction and there was no emotion involved?:usure:


I wish y'all would stop treating women like they're men, they're not.
 

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Your can't shame your way into justifying infidelity. You don't get a say in whether a relationship continues by calling it "side p*ssy". It's betrayal and behooves the woman to ride out on dude, because he doesn't respect her enough to show any type of discipline with his d**k. Doesn't matter that he takes care of home, just like it wouldn't matter if a chick cooked/clean/raised the kids and decided to get some side d**k.

What you fail to recognize is that if a woman leaves because a man cheated, it's not her fault that the relationship ended. It's HIS fault. He broke up the family.

Of course my pops wouldn't tell me if he cheated. Why the f**k would he do some dumb sh*t like that? "Son I know you love your mother, but I disrespected the f**k out of her, and I expect you to laugh and have a beer with me about it". I wouldn't snitch but I would lose a ton of respect for him.

It's millions of men out there that would be faithful to a braud. Women don't have to settle for a man that can't be, if that's what she wants.

There's some brauds that don't give a f**k, tho. If you know you can't stay faithful then it's best to find a chick like that.

Bro there is no shame, there is no justification at the end of the day you just said not sticking your dikk in some side is more important to you as a man than keeping your daughter honest to her wedding vows. That shows you have very low character and family values. The vows they take in front of the family don't say, "we're together until side p*ssy is involved", you just an ain't shyt individual looking for a way out, really, if side p*ssy is all it takes to end your marriage. I feel sorry for your family, they're in very shaky hands once your parents pass away, and it's their fault for not instilling strong family values in you. You honestly would rather have your grand kids raised in a broken home then tell your daughter she gotta get over and past the side p*ssy. shyt's disgusting. Your marriage won't be shyt.
 

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Bro there is no shame, there is no justification at the end of the day you just said not sticking your dikk in some side is more important to you as a man than keeping your daughter honest to her wedding vows. That shows you have very low character and family values. The vows they take in front of the family don't say, "we're together until side p*ssy is involved", you just an ain't shyt individual looking for a way out, really, if side p*ssy is all it takes to end your marriage. I feel sorry for your family, they're in very shaky hands once your parents pass away, and it's their fault for not instilling strong family values in you. You honestly would rather have your grand kids raised in a broken home then tell your daughter she gotta get over and past the side p*ssy. shyt's disgusting. Your marriage won't be shyt.

Any man or woman who encourages their own children to stay with a person who doesn't respect them is trash.

If a man cheats on his wife he doesn't have strong family values and he should be single so he can fukk as many women as he wants without consequence.
 

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Any man or woman who encourages their own children to stay with a person who doesn't respect them is trash.

If a man cheats on his wife he doesn't have strong family values and he should be single so he can fukk as many women as he wants without consequence.

You're clearly talking out the side of your neck and have no idea what family values are if you believe ego is more important than keeping your family together. Don't even waste the people who rock with you time in getting married if this is your mentality, them vows you're making them waste time of their lives to listen to you say and pretend that you actually stand on clearly don't mean shyt.
 

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You're clearly talking out the side of your neck and have no idea what family values are if you believe ego is more important than keeping your family together. Don't even waste the people who rock with you time in getting married if this is your mentality, them vows you're making them waste time of their lives to listen to you say and pretend that you actually stand on clearly don't mean shyt.

The person who cheats doesn't honor their vows, their partner or their marriage.
 

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The person who cheats doesn't honor their vows, their partner or their marriage.

The person who ends the union and breaks the family apart is also not honoring their vows, their partner or their marriage. I really don't understand why you're ignoring this fact. If you say till death do you part through the good and the bad in your vows and break up the marriage over cheating, you're pretty much an even lower scumbag than the cheater tbh. At least the cheater is trying to keep the union going while your flakey ass pretty much blew the spot up when an out was presented to you :manny:
 
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Spin this question with your father instead
 

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Yes, if the man is willing to betray someone he is married to and potentially has kids with..he will betray you as well. Cheating on someone reveals their true character. If you don't like your wife, leave her and not string her along.
 

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The idea that being in love stops you from doing something is crazy to me

I think everything is situational but people who attack people who have cheated but never got any opportunities are like those "nice guys" they are actually many many times worse
 

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This is what I'm talking about. Men need to be more honest with our women. When our daughters and sisters get cheated on it really don't affect us the way you think it does. We're more annoyed when we find out they're dating street nikkas then a nikka out here getting it that dips into some side from time to time. We evaluate men as if they're men, if this man holding the fam down, we honestly could give af less about some dumb female shyt like who that nikka fukking on the side :mjlol:

Im sure Magics Johnson's brothers in law agree with you.
 
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