As a man, does hearing that another man cheated on his wife or spouse change your opinion about them

[call_me_step_daddy]

i heard MLK was a cheater..no fukks was given

find me a nikka that never cheated in a 20 + yr marriage and ill show you a miserable ass nikka

cuz 9 times outta 10 his wife became so comfortable with him that she feel she can talk/ treat him any type of way, cuz she just knows he ain't going nowhere smh

thats why you gotta always keep a chick on her toes..make her wonder wtf you doing sometimes, you dont have to be cheating necassarily either to do it.

 

[xCivicx]

Nope I don't care either way

It's none of my business

 

[Shorty K]

Beat me to it.

I mean its always very interesting listening to certain women talk because society has really done a number on their view of men and what men are and how men work and think and it's also made them forget who and what they are as well.

 

[SunZoo]

i heard MLK was a cheater..no fukks was given

find me a nikka that never cheated in a 20 + yr marriage and ill show you a miserable ass nikka

cuz 9 times outta 10 his wife became so comfortable with him that she feel she can talk/ treat him any type of way, cuz she just knows he ain't going nowhere smh

thats why you gotta always keep a chick on her toes..make her wonder wtf you doing sometimes, you dont have to be cheating necassarily either to do it.

Encourage people to play mind games on people they're in 'relationships' with brehs.

 

[EmpressKali]

I pray all your sisters and daughters get cheated on.
Cant wait till they come running to you crying and screaming that their husband put his raw penis inside some random woman who could have been having sex with anyone and could potentially expose your SISTER or your DAUGHTER.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If he's fronting hard for social media (overcompensating) acting like he's this super caring/loving boyfriend/husband, then yes I'll look at him different.


That shyt be corny as fukk imo.

Yea

 

[Shorty K]

I pray all your sisters and daughters get cheated on.
Cant wait till they come running to you crying and screaming that their husband put his raw penis inside some random woman who could have been having sex with anyone and could potentially expose your SISTER or your DAUGHTER.

This is what I'm talking about. Men need to be more honest with our women. When our daughters and sisters get cheated on it really don't affect us the way you think it does. We're more annoyed when we find out they're dating street nikkas then a nikka out here getting it that dips into some side from time to time. We evaluate men as if they're men, if this man holding the fam down, we honestly could give af less about some dumb female shyt like who that nikka fukking on the side

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I pray all your sisters and daughters get cheated on.
Cant wait till they come running to you crying and screaming that their husband put his raw penis inside some random woman who could have been having sex with anyone and could potentially expose your SISTER or your DAUGHTER.

What God are you praying this demonic prayer to btw.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If it happena over and over and she stays, then no
Ala tami rivera
Then no

If they just regular ppl and a nikka cheating and super sneaky then yes

Women who marry men with high status because they have high status and are wanted by other women have no reason to expect fidelity

 

[Ghost Utmost]

If I met someone who claimed to be a strict vegan and if they seemed to be benefitting from it I might be impressed that they have willpower.

Then I see them pulling off from Hardee's biting on a 1/2 lb burger.

I wouldn't be mad cause I don't really care but I would not think of them as someone with willpower. So basically of they never played the role in the first place, then I would never have a reason to judge.

Same with being married. If a dude is honest with his wife and life is working for him then I consider him as having a quality that other men don't. When I find out he's a scumbag then I think to myself that he's nothing special after all and depending on how his cheating is affecting his so called loved ones he might even be seen as a fukc up.

Basically I expect men to not be shyt. I am impressed with men who defy their nature and do what they do to care for their loved ones. And cheating on your wife is not love or care so keep those stupid ass arguments to yourself.

 

[Shadow King]

I can't trust a nikka that willingly cheats on a woman he says he's in love with


He might be a good dude, but I'll never know if he'll switch up on me too

Basically this. One of my best friends is like this though nikka got married too early

 

[call_me_step_daddy]

Encourage people to play mind games on people they're in 'relationships' with brehs.

you call it a game, i call it a key in sustaining a long lasting relationship

being predictable in paying bills is good, being predictable in taking care of your kids is good, but when have you ever heard of being predictable in a relationship as being good? lol

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Only if he portrays himself as monogamous and faithful to the woman he's with/married to.

If you can't be honest with her, you damned sure can't be honest with me.​

 

[SunZoo]

you call it a game, i call it a key in sustaining a long lasting relationship

being predictable in paying bills is good, being predictable in taking care of your kids is good, but when have you ever heard of being predictable in a relationship as being good? lol

You can be spontaneous without "keeping a chick on her toes and wondering wtf you be doing".

That's not spontaneity, that's being manipulative.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

If we're gonna simplify people to pure biology, it makes no sense for a woman to cheat. Pure biology if you're having another man's seed the man you're with will just bounce leaving the woman to raise the b*stard by herself, depending on if the man hasn't beaten the shyt out of her to cause a miscarriage before dipping. Biologically speaking if a man found out the mother of his child cheated there's really nothing stopping him from just booting her out to the streets and letting her figure out to survive herself while he finds an upgrade. Your post seems to come more from a place of weird envy and denial over the fact that men aren't built to be monogamous the way women are than actual science. You also REALLY overrate how attached men are to their seeds biologically

What you've said is that a woman has a lot to lose if she gets caught.

I agree

But cheating and sleeping with more than one person are not the same thing. Just because you have sex with other people doesn't mean you have to lie about it aka cheat. But the consequences of being honest about sleeping with other people outside of marriage are potentially more disastrous for the female...An unfaithful woman who wants her children to be provided for will lie so the husband doesn't doubt if they're his aka biology.

Therefore lying about being unfaithful is something that a woman in most circumstances has to do.

Your argument is about why a woman shouldn't get caught which I agree with, not about why she shouldn't have sex with other people.

No one is built to be monogamous male or female.