then why not stay single? this is what i dont get lol
As a red blooded male, Would you say cheating is normalcy, or its wrong?
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then why not stay single? this is what i dont get lol
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
Don't cheat. Just tell your wife what the deal is. That's what a real nikka would do. 
Mickey Kane
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What type of dumb ass question is this?
Is desiring multiple women at once wrong? No.
Is f*cking multiple women whilst in a r'ship at once wrong? Yes.
Jesus, I worry for the upbringing of some people.
Is desiring multiple women at once wrong? No.
Is f*cking multiple women whilst in a r'ship at once wrong? Yes.
Jesus, I worry for the upbringing of some people.
I'm Billy FUCO!!
Banned
I don't get it, either
These nikkas basically want a woman who'll always be with them and let them smash other hoes. Nothing necessarily wrong with that in itself, as long as you're upfront about what you want from the start
They apparently don't realize there ARE women out there who'll accept that kind of setup.....but they'd rather pass over those women and deceive a good woman who wants a monogamous relationship......maybe the deception is part of the thrill, or some dumb shyt like that
Then there's the whole thing about the woman possibly getting her side fun too after realizing the nikka is getting his......which the nikka will most likely have a problem with.....making him THE BIGGEST of hypocrites
Mickey Kane
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*sighs*
In 2013, we still asking why 'men can't just tell women up front they want to see them whilst sleep with other women'? C'mon man.
The majority of men in the population aren't 'high value' enough to hold that sort of leverage & make such demands. A woman has to be a couple of levels below you to accept such a condition & frankly, most of the time, that isn't the case.
In 2013, we still asking why 'men can't just tell women up front they want to see them whilst sleep with other women'? C'mon man.
The majority of men in the population aren't 'high value' enough to hold that sort of leverage & make such demands. A woman has to be a couple of levels below you to accept such a condition & frankly, most of the time, that isn't the case.
Because even tho I'm blatantly honest women still think I will come around and won't hear otherwise until they see the light and that determination turns to resentment. I don't get into many relationships and don't lead on.
Haha real talk
I dont know what regular ass chick will be cool with her man slanging pipe to otha bytches, unless son is a movie star or something
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
cheating.
...ahh the good ol days
...ahh the good ol days
the game is to be sold, not to be told...Haha real talk
I dont know what regular ass chick will be cool with her man slanging pipe to otha bytches, unless son is a movie star or something
(lol, always wanted to say that)Mickey Kane
All Star
the game is to be sold, not to be told...
Elaborate good sir.
What is normal? Doing it because everyone else is?
Obviously it's wrong. If you want to deal with many women, how about taking the simple route and you know, being single?
This, 'it's cuz I'm a male' excuse is nonsense. Women like to get it on just as much as men, so is it ok for women to cheat too? People will laugh and think it's fun when they're the one doing it, but when they find that the son their raising is not their own, I'm sure things will take on a new perspective.
Obviously it's wrong. If you want to deal with many women, how about taking the simple route and you know, being single?
This, 'it's cuz I'm a male' excuse is nonsense. Women like to get it on just as much as men, so is it ok for women to cheat too? People will laugh and think it's fun when they're the one doing it, but when they find that the son their raising is not their own, I'm sure things will take on a new perspective.
lol, that very quote means i shouldn't elaborate.
but seriously a bum could pull it off (but he would definitely have to put more work than a movie star or rich dude). He needs to provide something that the chick is desperately longing for. Structure and direction. If you have her convinced that she can only get that from you and that her life is going nowhere without you, she will follow you anywhere no matter what league she is in physically or socially. when you say a chick has to be on a lower level than you, i agree on a self-esteem level. the rest matters but not as much. will you be able to pull it off forever? probably not. will she eventually wake up from the spell? most likely. but a bum could pull it off and it happens.
and to those who say it's pimping, really when you think about it, we all do it sort of. Chances are a relationship will work more smoothly if the man has better self-esteem than the chick because only then will she follow. finding someone with the exact same self-esteem as you is practically impossible and why would she follow someone who she feels better than? the difference is that if she has lower self-esteem than you and decides you're the one who can make her feel better, she surrenders power to you. What you do with that power is up to you (and it's a responsibility). Is getting a second girl cause you know she will put up with it abusive? I don't know. i feel like as long as you keep everyone happy...
So i've been told by elders...
Cheating is wrong and immoral.
If you can't fight the temptations and urges then be single.
I've never cheated and I view all cheaters regardless of gender as scum unworthy of love
If you can't fight the temptations and urges then be single.
I've never cheated and I view all cheaters regardless of gender as scum unworthy of love
Mickey Kane
All Star
Ahh, yes. More or less what I meant when discussing the concept of a 'high value' man. A high value man can be a 'bum' but I'll theorise that this is more likely to be the case when discussing younger women i.e. 18-25 but as they mature, 'security' becomes increasingly important to their hypergamy & status & resources are more of determinant of 'high value'.
