As an adult in your mid-late 20s early 30s how do you make new friends

[Action Mike]

Tired of being with my gf every weeken

they always want to be doing something

 

[Truefan31]

Man I work so much cuz I got a fam. Got a couple close friends but not really sharing same interests. Need to get out there cuz I don't really fukk wit my work peeps. I think most of them are dumb as hell

 

[LezJepzin]

Tired of being with my gf every weeken

At least you got a girlfriend

My coworkers are racist as fukk , my friends are now either busy with families, moved or consumed with their careers . Don't get me started on trying to kick it with old classmates stuck in the late 90s

I have so many interests but it's getting old going solo dolo all the time because nobody else is available.

 

[DrX]

lol at that age the one "friends" are business related, like associates maybe

 

[Taadow]

Find people who share the same interest as you
thats how I met my closest and most ginuwine friends

This is the mature answer.


The cold, true answer is this:

Nicca fucc all that - if you a grown-ass man, you shoulda made all your friends by now.
Real chit, you only need like 3 real friends, and that's only if you the type of dude that wants to get
married or some dumb chit like that...because you don't wanna be that dude that has no groomsmen.

Folks at the wedding would be all "what kinda nicca doesn't have a few friends to stand up with him
during this important time in his life?? Who threw him a bachelor party? He didn't have a bachelor party?
Oh lord...he's one of them dudes..."

any kind of "friends" you might make now don't really count. I mean - their adults and chit.
So you're meeting them as grown-up responsible people. True friends are muthafuccas you knew from
elementary school and whatnot, because you know their real flaws and chit...you was there when they peed
their pants in 1st grade, or when they had to wear thick glasses, or you helped them beat somebody's ass
before. They got stripes with you and vice versa. Fucc learning about some new muffuccas.
Ain't nobody got time for that...

 

[Family Man]

Real shyt. I get kind of sad when I see girls with their "bestie" out on the town or taking pictures because I USED to have that.

Now all I have is my husband and my kids and occasionally my sister.

It's kind of sad..

My wife does meet ups with other mothers in the area. She met some really cool folks that way. Bad thing is the wives eventually over step and try to set up "play dates" for the husbands. I ain't with that shyt.

 

[emerald]

I meet new associates everywhere I go from all walks of life by just being friendly, respectful, sociable and genuine. Where and how I meet people for real friendships depends on the type of people I want to have in my circle. Making new friends is easy but as you get older, keeping them is what's hard.

Unfortunately, I just don't have the time, energy or patience to maintain current friendships or establish new friendships right now and it sucks. God bless those who have mastered the art of work-life balance.

 

[WaveGang]

No. New friends

 

[Cake]

Loser. Same dude talking about taking a girl on a date is tricking. Come to find out you don't even have friends.

I meet all my friends through work, school, other friends, and clubs to a lesser extent.

After high school I notice my friendships became shallow. I know a lot of people from my job and school that I can party or politic with. But that's pretty much it. Just a total superficial friendship. Adults don't make friends in the same way.

 

[RoGethoes]

Had the same problem. Now I met all my friends thru hooping, adult rec leagues etc. One thing I've found is that good friends are kinda like good women they ain't gonna just fall in your lap, you gotta seek em out and engage them.

 

[TRY GOD]

Friends?

How many of us really have them


Especially ones you can depend on

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you make them whenever you meet someone new. unless you're looking for someone close, and you can't determine how close you'll be

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't care to make new friends, although I should but meh

 

[tater]

Bookstores like 2nd and Charles and Books A Million. GameStop, High School Events and House Parties. (I see you Binlahab) you still searching for friends after that thing with the white cat fell through. Welcome to the coli breh.

High school events?

My main problem. Trying to get with like minded go getters...I stress so much for my friends to get passports but they either are too broke or just don't want to pursue the thought like, at all. Other dude hits me up just to talk about video games, movies, nonsense for like an hour...he's damn near 30 doing this smh. Embarrassing. My circle is shyt

@the cac mamba

I feel you 100%. I have maybe three GOOD friends. I had four, but we're no longer .

Just grew apart and she's mad flaky. My other friend has a kid and she sometimes gets in these attitude funks that drive me bonkers but she's still my girl. My other friend is a giant pothead. I would love to do stuff with her but she's not really a go getter. No passport, no money, flaky when it comes to doing actual stuff that requires effort lol. I've been friends with this girl for 17 years, I wish she was doing better in life, but that's what it is. This girl at my job is cool but she's trying to have a baby, so that won't last.

It's hard to meet people, especially as a transplant. I try to meet people, but it's hard! I'm pretty social and don't mind talking to other people either. Maybe we just need to be more aggressive. Like go out and ask for numbers. It's hard though!

I don't want to have no one to hang out with once the weathers nice. I'm sick of doing things alone . I mean girls though...I have a boo. But sometimes I want some female companionship. So we can go shopping and talk about periods. It's hard to meet women friends.

I'm jk about the periods.

 

[Action Mike]

I don't care to make new friends, although I should but meh

Why?

Well if you got a cool circle, your good