This ordeal reminds me of this Asian lady that I helped during my time at Best Buy. She wanted a mini microphone to capture her ex husband's ranting and doing shyt to her for the lawyer. Suddenly, she started talking about how her husband treated her like a dog (cac), abused her and left her with nothing. All the time I was going:
So you mean to tell me you wanted it one way, but received the other with a golden ribbon. This ordeal boils down to observation for a western perspective of the great white male. Instead of looking at love beyond the cover, its more of a financial game with fetish tendencies. No different from pawgset. Its all the illusion of beauty and perfection, instead of the realization that there is no love to begin with.
Now for folks that actually look beyond the stigma and actually love the chick/dude...love is love, but this type of behavior and mentality disgusts me as a black male within the body of a marsupial who would indulge in the finest of Asian cuisines