Do you have to continually deny affection, acknowledgement and respect to your child, even once he reaches the goal you set for him, for him to develop work ethic?
It’s about the work..... being smart or naturally gifted ain’t worth shyt if you have zero or little work ethic.....
It works for them.
What does this have to do with emotionally fukking ur kids up to the point they can’t handle failure and lack empathy and simple social skills toward other people? U can be hard on ur kids without emotionally scarring them. But I guess black people the only ones who get shyt for being any sort of strict on their kids. While others get praised for it.
Why get a raise for excelling at your job? Why get promotions? Why get awards at award shows? fukk it all. Right? It’s all positive reinforcement. Simple logic. Not saying they had to PAY u. But that method could easily backfire on someone who is less emotionally intelligent as u. Lol
I just want my kids to be financially productive. I could give a shyt less about anything else. Nonetheless, I don’t think raising your kids in a pressure cooker environment to encourage academic and professional success and mental health are mutually exclusive. These are just some weak ass asian kids overall in the article.
Yea. What is success to u? U just have a narrow view. Do u have children? Do u know how big suicide is in Asia? Especially when it comes to academic failure. Every kid is different. Just like every adult is. Some kids u gotta be harder on than others. Etc etc. if u can’t maneuver that. U will undoubtedly risk ur relationship with ur children in the future. If everyone thought like that. No one would have the small jobs that make it easier for u to do what u successfully do with comfort.
