Engage people with what they expect; it is what they are able to discern and confirms their projections. It settles them into predictable patterns of response, occupying their mind
Some people will assume because one is Black that they are poor, stupid or uniformed. Let them, for it behooves me not to change their mind. Let them feel superior, even falsely, for while I strive to better myself and leave a legacy for my kids they will rest on their laurels never once seeing what I have amassed while they slept.