Assorted Gems: 6 Tips to LEVEL UP your life

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this is like the 2nd thread of yours i've ever posted in:dahell:
and why do you keep calling me young? Is it a sex thing?:dahell:

Because you're young :dahell:

I like you, you're smart and creative, but you don't realize how much you still don't know, you remind me of a young, male, me :heh: I like your confidence
 

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why, do you think?:jbhmm:

That's the goal breh finding out WHAT makes you happy most think its money or a job I've been in the same position had everything in ATL good job nice krib woman all of that but on a day to day I wasn't happy couldn't figure out why. So I upped and move to cali struggled for a super quick second and then I found happiness in the grind cant explain it but it brought purpose to my everyday life instead of going through the motions of life. Good luck breh


I feel like a change of scenery would probably help and I know if I move I'll make more money doing what I do now elsewhere.

My daughter lives with her mother though and until she's ready to go I can't leave, me and her have talked about it and she clearly doesn't want to spend the rest of her life here but I don't think she's ready yet.

My biggest fear is that I finally get the chance to go and it doesn't fix anything, I've been going through the shyt over and over trying to identify other problems that might be the cause but the only ones I come up with I'm not sure how to fix.
 

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I feel like a change of scenery would probably help and I know if I move I'll make more money doing what I do now elsewhere.

My daughter lives with her mother though and until she's ready to go I can't leave, me and her have talked about it and she clearly doesn't want to spend the rest of her life here but I don't think she's ready yet.

My biggest fear is that I finally get the chance to go and it doesn't fix anything, I've been going through the shyt over and over trying to identify other problems that might be the cause but the only ones I come up with I'm not sure how to fix.

There's a good saying. "No matter where you go. ...there you are. "
 

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40 year plan??????????
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Long term :win:
 

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There's a good saying. "No matter where you go. ...there you are. "

right, but part of me feels like anywhere but here would be a better option.

I had it pretty fukked up the last couple of years, I found my father dead in his apartment laying in a pool of blood and 2 months later my stepfather died in the other room while me and my daughter were opening christmas presents. A few months later my daughter's mother locked herself in a hotel room and swallowed a bottle of pills..she's ok and doing amazingly better now but it was a lot of stress for a long time while I was working 2 jobs trying to support everyone.

I analyze myself constantly trying to see how much it all fukked me up but I've dealt with it all better than most would I think, I feel like it might be somewhere in the back of my mind screwing with me more than I think though.

That's why I think maybe just getting away from here might help some...it's just so much baggage I'm carrying around and everything around here is a constant reminder
 

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damn, reading that back I shared more than I meant to lol

It's okay. You've experienced a lot of loss and trauma recently. It takes time to heal. Like real time, meaning, years. A change of scenery and fresh energy could help you move on more quickly, but only you know for sure.

Also maybe look into ways to refresh your life where you are, just until you make that move.
 

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I'd give you positive rep but I don't know how lol

probably a post count issue
It's okay. You've experienced a lot of loss and trauma recently. It takes time to heal. Like real time, meaning, years. A change of scenery and fresh energy could help you move on more quickly, but only you know for sure.

Also maybe look into ways to refresh your life where you are, just until you make that move.
 
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