Men in general don't do mixers and speed dating events. Too much superficial bs.
This and it being a specific religion on top
I personally don’t know too many seriously Christian black men in the church. If they are really into religion, it’s other religion.
Only time I really see BM in the chirch is if theyre being dragged along by family or actually have something invested into the church (Pastor, Deacon, Bishop, etc).
Even my grabdad was buried catholic, did work around church grounds, but was never really in church except for weddings and funerals. Not saying he wasn’t a believer, I just don’t get too many conversations about God with black men unless they subscribe to another religion (Hebrew, Muslim, etc.)