At what AGE are woman FULLY responsible for their own choices and decisions? 🤔 I have to ask this Cassie related 🤔

[Reptile]

Whenever they can fully weigh actions and consequences.

 

[Reptile]

If you want to be a goddamn predator, just do it. Don’t come here trying to justify whatever BS you got cooking. Be a fukking man about it.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Thecoli.com

Where women have to either accept full responsibility for their choices as well as the choices of others or be treated as infantile children

Aint that funny

 

[jilla82]

the unspoken truth is a large portion of women are a slightly mature version of a child

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Functionally, never

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Yes they would.

Any man over even 21 delivering pizza back in the 90s and early 2000s would have been considered a massive looser.

That shyts about to come back with in the next 10 years with the millennial gen. If you think a 40 year old delivery driver has won in life

You said doing uber or Lyft, not delivering pizzas… Did you grow up around black people?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

There's a BIG conversation that everyone's avoiding (in society). About when is the age of consent, accountability, and responsibility.

A 16 year old girl isn't old enough to have sex...but if she kills someone she's old enough to serve life?

If two people get drunk and have sex, one of them, the woman can claim she was drunk and raped. What about the man being drunk? Why isn't he the victim?

These questions are avoided.

Theres a reckoning thats overdue for legal accountability.

Either being a freak is legal or it’s not.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Yeah, I do think there's a double standard but the subtext I think is men are more powerful than women in an overall sense. It's assumed by all we can take advantage of women easier than the opposite. But then in a different context women will claim to be our equal.

“power"

Yeah here we go. I guess accountability and agency doesn’t exist.

Again, no one will excuse violence but… yall are playing games with this “power” word

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

If you want to be a goddamn predator, just do it. Don’t come here trying to justify whatever BS you got cooking. Be a fukking man about it.

Try to moral grandstand for daps but unwittingly support being a predator because it’s the manly thing to do brehs….

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

At 18 I joined the army and they gave me a weapon and said


“You are a killing machine”

They really told you that?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

 

[Shadow King]

27.

At that point you can’t blame your parents, friends or other people. Also the party culture we all grow up in should be way out of your system.

Also at that point you should have enough life experience to make the right decision for your life.

This goes for men and women but if your making minimum wage past 25 your a looser. If you have a kid and your not married your a looser. If you working demeaning jobs or a dead end job your a looser. If your blaming others for your life your a looser.

20 years ago your Uber or Uber eats driver would have been considered a looser.

By 27 if your still involved in anything like what I’ve listed above your a looser.

If you gonna be talking like this you need to know how to spell the word loser lol

 

[Gloxina]

I’m legit curious. Are there any cases of men in this predicament?

Of course! They just don’t talk about it because society judges yall differently in these situations.


Like that pastor Eddie Long who mysteriously died of some illness they didn’t reveal until ppl noted his rapidly deteriorating health.
All those young boys ppl said he was flying around with him and paying them. They weren’t all underage. Some were young college students who, it can be guessed, were being financially assisted by him. He wasn’t just reading the Bible with those young men.
18 is legal, but it’s easy to make bad decisions when the person who is in control of your career, livelihood, opportunities, etc is telling you that you need to do something strange for some change. Coercion is real and happens to both sexes.

The point is if you are 18, 19, 20 and someone 2x your age is pressing you, you may give in because you’re intimidated. You still made the decision, but you made it under duress.


Everyone can look back at situations that happened when you were younger and say “you know what, if that shyt happened today I would’ve handled it differently”. Ppl try you when you’re young and new to the adult world.
If you were talking to an 18YO girl you KNOW you could play her like a fiddle compared to a 28YO woman. That’s the point.

A grown man in his 30s can talk down to a young man and son him more easily than he could a man who is his own age (30s). Someone steps to you a certain way, it ain’t going down. But if they step to your 18YO little brother or cousin, they might not know how to handle the situation because they don’t have life experience yet.


Do I believe some of the stuff with Cassie and Diddy was consensual? Yea, sure. Do I also believe a 36YO man put a 19YO in a recording contract and made it clear he was in control of her career and that if she didn’t play his game her career would be over? Yes, I also believe that. And when you are 18, 19, 20 that can be incredibly intimidating.

I mentioned it before- I’ve have college professors try it, pastors try it, police officers who were a little too flirtatious, etc. A lot of old men try it with young women. A LOT. But the men in my family were only a phone call away and I knew those men trying me didn’t really have control over my life. So I froze and waited for them to realize I wasn’t engaging and they looked like weirdos or I found an exit and never turned back.
But if that was my boss literally in charge of my (music) career, or the person who signed off on a scholarship or school admissions <— those are the crazy situations where men in power may try young women.

Cassie was an extreme case. Sounds like it was a decade of Harvey Weinstein. If Diddy had gotten to her at like 25, she probably would’ve been like “hold up fukk this” MUCH SOONER.

I always mention JLO. You know Diddy was cheating on her and beating her ass too- the difference is JLo was a grown ass 30YO star in her own right and was able to walk away when shyt got dicey. Cassie never built anything independent of a man so whenever she left Diddy, she would literally be starting from scratch like when she was 19.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

1. How many times have Coli brehs said the trick to women is treating them like overgrown children?
2. Men lead women, not the other way around.
3. Old men chasing after younger women because they’re more “agreeable”.
4. Women predators(especially if they’re attractive) being excused for their predatory behavior.

A few among many.
Women don’t get treated like adults until it comes to who they’re fukking on. Then we wanna have a convo about accountability.

What you posted aren’t examples of infantilizing women but yet want to whole them accountable…..

1. Treating women like overgrown children is a byproduct of women not having to be accountable in western society over the last 2 decades.

2. Men should lead their household because most of the responsibility lies on us to provide, protect, and provision. If you don’t think so, you share your girl..

3. Older men deal with younger women because a lot of em can. Younger women tend not to be burnt out or jaded like older women and I see you absolved younger women for getting involved with older men for their own ulterior motives…

4. There is a double standard for a reason…

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

If two people get drunk and have sex, one of them, the woman can claim she was drunk and raped. What about the man being drunk? Why isn't he the victim?

Been saying this for decades… Society will lead you to believe that women will not initiate sex unless it’s under pristine circumstances