Austin Dunham "White men have it easier in dating"

[RickyDiBiase]

This red pill blue pill rainbow pill shyt was always mad corny but what he's saying is facts, and it's weird how some people are being abrasive and defensive with this topic. And it's got nothing to do with confidence, this is just the reality of decades of white supremacy ingrained in society.

White dudes can have dirty shoes, messy hair, bad skin, be borderline alcoholic and still be a potential prospect for most women. You know this if you take care of yourself and are in the dating game. Women are also way more submissive and respectful with white men.

This shyt doesn't just apply to dating either. If you work in a corporate environment, you know that you need to be clean cut and on point at all times. Meanwhile white dudes can be unprofessional and openly discuss how drunk they got the previous weekend while picking their nose without anyone judging.

You sound like whole bytch tbh

 

[Illuminatos]

What are y’all mad about? Don’t y’all nikkas be the main ones pushing the narrative of mediocre White men pulling attractive Black women? What’s the problem?

 

[CoolinInTheCut]

You sound like whole bytch tbh

stay mad hoe

 

[RickyDiBiase]

stay mad hoe

Why would I be mad cause I could care less who a cracker fukking ?

Meanwhile yo ass sitting in the house like a damn spinster scrolling and looking at white man fukking goofy bytches and you over here crying “why not choose me!?!?!”

SMFH

 

[Iverson_64]

He isn’t wrong.

Racism and that “white makes right” mentality is everywhere. People point that all the time, why does it not apply to dating? I’d go so far as to say we have it harder than most races.

I don’t like to use the word entitlement because it’s basically a buzzword at this point, but the only reason why there are so many white incels is because they literally are entitled and expect dimes to fall from the sky and/or have given up

Go on Reddit, tiktok, whatever social media you see and you’ll find young black men complaining about dating or dating apps or asking for advice, and it’s all usually barebones shyt.

And I keep reading ITT that it’s only hardmode when you’re just seeking white women, but even that isn’t even true. Latinas, Asian women (Tyrell Shaw literally committed suicide over Asian wome), even black women depending on the type you’re looking for and what you are.

And the white men these women are dating, even the other races of men, don’t have to put themselves through the wringer the way black men do.

Young men of all races are complaining about the same shyt cause Gen Z is the most chronically online/socially awkward generation which has a major impact on dating success.

 

[Ahadi]

He didn’t say he was struggling. He said that he won’t eat the same with white women as a white dude who is similarly good looking to him.

He even said he gets the “I don’t usually date black men, but you’re different” from white women

Your blackness isn’t too black basically lol

She’s calling him a diet black man

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Young men of all races are complaining about the same shyt cause Gen Z is the most chronically online/socially awkward generation which has a major impact on dating success.

White men have a history of being spoiled entitled shytters that get the world handed to them and still want more.

But poc men have to go through the same beauty standards with white men that poc women do with white women, except there aren't as many think pieces or movements for it and some have it worse than others.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You sound like whole bytch tbh

Dusty white men are struggling
Just look at Reddit or tiktok
They complain everyday

 

[klutch2381]

This red pill blue pill rainbow pill shyt was always mad corny but what he's saying is facts, and it's weird how some people are being abrasive and defensive with this topic. And it's got nothing to do with confidence, this is just the reality of decades of white supremacy ingrained in society.

White dudes can have dirty shoes, messy hair, bad skin, be borderline alcoholic and still be a potential prospect for most women. You know this if you take care of yourself and are in the dating game. Women are also way more submissive and respectful with white men.

This shyt doesn't just apply to dating either. If you work in a corporate environment, you know that you need to be clean cut and on point at all times. Meanwhile white dudes can be unprofessional and openly discuss how drunk they got the previous weekend while picking their nose without anyone judging.

White people are allowed to be mediocre in all aspects of life and still be "seen." Whereas when you are black, you often have to be exceptional. We aren't allowed to be mediocre. The 6 certs, 6 feet, 6 figures, 6-pack running joke on here is a microcosm of that. If a breh says he is struggling with women—what will the typical advice be to him? Get in the gym, get your dress game up, get a skincare routine, learn how to talk to women, etc. He essentially has to cultivate 4/5 different personas. The "average" white man is not doing all that. Moreover, I don't think speaking to that makes one have low-self esteem. It's the current reality of the world, unfortunately. We are constantly, incessantly, bombarded and disseminated in almost every medium that whiteness equates to "better." Of course, the average mentally well-adjusted white man is going to have more racially robust dating options should they seek to explore them. Additionally, proximity to whiteness, assimilation, etc., are real social phenomena.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

White people are allowed to be mediocre in all aspects of life and still be "seen." Whereas when you are black, you often have to be exceptional. We aren't allowed to be mediocre. The 6 certs, 6 feet, 6 figures, 6-pack running joke on here is a microcosm of that. If a breh says he is struggling with women—what will the typical advice be to him? Get in the gym, get your dress game up, get a skincare routine, learn how to talk to women, etc. He essentially has to cultivate 4/5 different personas. The "average" white man is not doing all that. Moreover, I don't think speaking to that makes one have low-self esteem. It's the current reality of the world, unfortunately. We are constantly, incessantly, bombarded and disseminated in almost every medium that whiteness equates to "better." Of course, the average mentally well-adjusted white man is going to have more racially robust dating options should they seek to explore them. Additionally, proximity to whiteness, assimilation, etc., are real social phenomena.

The worst part about this advice is that the guy who's asking for it is usually already doing that. It's all generic common sense shyt, obviously if you want to get women you're going to have to talk to them and not be skinny/fat or have a pizza face. It's like the dudes giving the advice just copy and paste the same lines over and over.

What does this even mean?

Are you referring to the most sought after women, or just women in general?

Both?

 

[Manny2828]

This isn’t anything shocking or new. I don’t see the point in making a video about this. Yes women will exclude you myriad of things including race, height, salary, occupation etc.

 

[Shadow King]

Exactly what I've been saying for the longest.

When we have these conversations, we need to clarify whether we are talking about casual sex or committed relationships.

It is not hard for most guys to get into a committed relationship with a woman on his "level".

All you gotta do is pester the bytch until she gives in and settles. This is how so many guys get cheated on.

Casual sex is entirely different ball game. You need good looks no matter what type of woman you want to casually fukk.

Brehs always talking about the 220 pound Flava Flav they seen to say why every man can "eat" when they don't know the figurative and actual price he's paying to see her bed every night.

I been saying this shyt forever too.

 

[Piff Perkins]

The issue I notice is a normal white dude is always going to eat if he wants to. The problem?

1. A lot of normal white dudes don't want to eat
2. A lot of white dudes aren't normal


A lot of young, conventionally attractive (pause) white men aren't interested in...doing shyt. They're at home playing videogames, or working all day, or doing other insular shyt. Over the last 15+ years I've been in contact with so many white dudes at work or college who straight up get out of work/school at 5PM, go to Taco Bell to eat, go home and play videogames until past midnight. Every day. Sure sometimes they get p*ssy or get a girlfriend but it rarely lasts long.

Then on the second point there's too many white dudes who simply are not normal, adjusted humans. I'm talking the dudes who can't hold a conversation, are socially retarded, and are into all that incel shyt. A lot of them are conventionally attractive (pause) or gym bros yet would make a woman run away after a 5 minute conversation. That's how weird they are.

Are there normal white dudes who pursue women and have success? YES. A lot of them. But there's a lot of the other two groups as well so I can't definitively say white men have a cheat code on dating. I'd argue white men disappointment women more than any other race of men because women WANT a white guy and then realize a large percentage of them are anti-social outcasts.

 

[MJ Truth]

If you’re a top tier dude it doesn’t even matter. This only matters for you average ass brehs.

 

[Manny2828]

The issue I notice is a normal white dude is always going to eat if he wants to. The problem?

1. A lot of normal white dudes don't want to eat
2. A lot of white dudes aren't normal


A lot of young, conventionally attractive (pause) white men aren't interested in...doing shyt. They're at home playing videogames, or working all day, or doing other insular shyt. Over the last 15+ years I've been in contact with so many white dudes at work or college who straight up get out of work/school at 5PM, go to Taco Bell to eat, go home and play videogames until past midnight. Every day. Sure sometimes they get p*ssy or get a girlfriend but it rarely lasts long.

Then on the second point there's too many white dudes who simply are not normal, adjusted humans. I'm talking the dudes who can't hold a conversation, are socially retarded, and are into all that incel shyt. A lot of them are conventionally attractive (pause) or gym bros yet would make a woman run away after a 5 minute conversation. That's how weird they are.

Are there normal white dudes who pursue women and have success? YES. A lot of them. But there's a lot of the other two groups as well so I can't definitively say white men have a cheat code on dating. I'd argue white men disappointment women more than any other race of men because women WANT a white guy and then realize a large percentage of them are anti-social outcasts.

This is something I’ve also observed. From what I’ve seen black and Hispanic dudes seem to be the few men actively pursuing p*ssy today. And what I mean by that is we actually put forth effort and go up to women or strategize how to get bytches. Asian and white dudes seem preoccupied with school, video games or some shyt. I never see them obsessed with women or p*ssy to the same caliber as us