Average Women aren't SETTLING for Average Men Anymore

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Women have too many options. Their hypergamous nature is being exposed on a worldwide level. Combine that with the fact that if they open a tinder account, dudes are gonna flock to her like a hoarde of enemies in Dynasty Warriors.

Women are already terrible a picking a dude on the same wavelength. What do you think happens when they have to pick 1 out of 1000 versus 1 out of 100?

It's going to be real interesting to see how chicks born after 1990 going to be once they hit the wall. :francis:
 

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Women have too many options. Their hypergamous nature is being exposed on a worldwide level. Combine that with the fact that if they open a tinder account, dudes are gonna flock to her like a hoarde of enemies in Dynasty Warriors.

Women are already terrible a picking a dude on the same wavelength. What do you think happens when they have to pick 1 out of 1000 versus 1 out of 100?

It's going to be real interesting to see how chicks born after 1990 going to be once they hit the wall. :francis:
They will get old
 

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They rather get embarrassed and slutting out by a Highly Desired Man than be with a guy on their level. I'm not bitter, i'm cool with it. That's just society, nobody wants who wants them.

I consider myself a 7. I only wife 8s and 9s, I smutted out 6s and belows. I'll keep a 7 around for a while. That's just the game. Everyone chasing the next level up.

:yeshrug:It is what it is. Be the best you can be and let the cards fall where they may.
Are you back in shape op , eating right & keeping the weight off
 

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I can see both sides. Weird.

Everyone, man or woman, should go after who they are most attracted to. If not then cheating occurs. Eventually water has to seek its own level.

But I've heard mostly women being unrealistic in their standards. See guys know when they're being ridiculous with their list it's comical. So we tell each other step ur game up aka work out, dress well, get more money 6series 6 figs etc.

But rarely do I hear women say the same or take the same advice. It's that whole self acceptance mantra. It's "if he can't handle me at my worst then he doesn't deserve my best" or "why are men dropping the ball" or "men are intimidated by strong women" smh pls stop

Times have changed. Dating and marriage are at an all time low for obvious reasons. And yet with no self work or more to offer they just expect great guys to just settle with them like it's the norm. See guys don't just expect IG model wives without doing anything. We aspire and level up because we get it. But women think nothing needs to be done.

I've seen avg girls shoot their shot through friends and it's like easy Steph curry take a look at my exes first. No offenses but chill. Its almost insulting lol
I've pissed numerous female friends of mine off. I point out how for one a lot of their "qualifications" contradict each other. They'll want the good looking guy with the great body, great job, cares about his family, can cook and whatever else. I always ask if he has all that going then she'd complain about how he doesn't have time for her since all of that stuff takes time. Then I always point out if he has all that what about them is so great that this great man would lower his standards and settle for them since they ain't bringing much to the table. Sometimes I'm too blunt I know but shyt has to be said lol.
 

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being a highly desirable and high quality man goes beyond just looks :gucci:

@biscuitsnbangers this whole thing is about looks :gucci:

They rather get embarrassed and slutting out by a Highly Desired Man than be with a guy on their level.

I consider myself a 7. I smutted out 6s and belows. .

I consider myself a 7. I only wife 8s and 9s, I smutted out 6s and belows. I'll keep a 7 around for a while. That's just the game. Everyone chasing the next level up.
 

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I can see both sides. Weird.

Everyone, man or woman, should go after who they are most attracted to. If not then cheating occurs. Eventually water has to seek its own level.

But I've heard mostly women being unrealistic in their standards. See guys know when they're being ridiculous with their list it's comical. So we tell each other step ur game up aka work out, dress well, get more money 6series 6 figs etc.

But rarely do I hear women say the same or take the same advice. It's that whole self acceptance mantra. It's "if he can't handle me at my worst then he doesn't deserve my best" or "why are men dropping the ball" or "men are intimidated by strong women" smh pls stop

Times have changed. Dating and marriage are at an all time low for obvious reasons. And yet with no self work or more to offer they just expect great guys to just settle with them like it's the norm. See guys don't just expect IG model wives without doing anything. We aspire and level up because we get it. But women think nothing needs to be done.

I've seen avg girls shoot their shot through friends and it's like easy Steph curry take a look at my exes first. No offenses but chill. Its almost insulting lol


Your leaving out something here,these women yall are speaking of standards aren't unrealistic if they have actually had high demand men fukk them. If they have had high demand men "hang out" with them. The reasons men aren't unrealistic is because chances are a IG model won't be fukking and entertaining a lower tier man out of boredom,or just because she is horny and needs some dikk:mjlol:. But you know for a fact that men will clearly do that. We have no problem punching down if a chick is willing to wet the dikk,and we know she's going to make it easy to do so,with very little maintenence. In my pre righteous era I kept chicks on the roster who I didn't find dateable attraction level wise,but they were suitable for fukking. Send them some text here and there throughout the week,pretend you just coming over to chill but you 100% came to fukk in reality. Guys don't expect IG models because you not getting IG models,unless you actually have the ability to get and keep an IG model calibre woman. The fact that the range is wide for what men will fukk vs what they will date,makes it understandable why woman could be confused. Yall are being disingenious acting like men are fukking these chicks who are not on their dating level,and just discarding them. If thats what was happening then yeah,maybe you could say women should know better. But its not, you can get kept on the roster in limbo for years as long as you remain low maintenence and don't ask for much. And alot of women don't know to ask for more,because like I said earlier,they have no idea what a real relationship is. Occasional text,occasional fukking, is how the majority of relationships in our community begin. So alot of these women think there permanant side chick/jumpoff status is just the beginning of a beautiful relationship:respect:. It is up to black men as fathers and mothers of course,to teach their daughters to demand more BEFORE getting fukked. Thats a fairly easy way to weed out who's serious and whos interested,not that its full proof.
 
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They rather get embarrassed and slutting out by a Highly Desired Man than be with a guy on their level. I'm not bitter, i'm cool with it. That's just society, nobody wants who wants them.

I consider myself a 7. I only wife 8s and 9s, I smutted out 6s and belows. I'll keep a 7 around for a while. That's just the game. Everyone chasing the next level up.

:yeshrug:It is what it is. Be the best you can be and let the cards fall where they may.
The results of free love and sexual liberation.

Being a single mother has no social repercussions and women are encouraged to have fun nowadays.

They have their fun, get used up then change it up when they're past their prime.
 

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The amount of ugly ass couples I see is astounding

Get off that internet

And the amount of ugly ass women I see cheating on their ugly ass men is equally as astounding.

I feel like we need a disclaimer when this topic is brought up. Any man can have a long-term relationship with ugly women.

But only a select few men can casually and consistently have sex with attractive women.

plenty of average nikkas is eating out here...
i know this nikka who works 9-5 as a baggage handler with mad hoes...

stop blaming women for your lack of game....

Give me an example of "game".

You can give me a story or even make it up if you want. Just one example.
 

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I guess I'm supposed to feel sorry for average nikkas now?
Yeah,lets blame black women,yeah lets blame dating sites. Everybody but blaming black men collectively right?
If black men have been brainwashed to treat our women like trash,and degraded the image of the black woman what did you think would happen:henbron:?
Lets do the math on this,we have a bunch of average nikkas who are getting average women,and suddenly think they are Iceberg Slim. They begin to "smut" out the average women like you spoke of proudly doing. Why the hell should average women get "smutted" out by average nikkas who have no plan for them? When they can get smutted out by more attractive men or tricks? I don't condone that behavior at all,but you dudes who complain about this make no good argument for women NOT doing this. If men at every level think they are pimps and playas,and just want to run through a bunch of random women and be #HOH whats left for these lost ho's to do. Luckily I woke up and realized how weak it is to slang your dikk like its worthless in low calibre women based on character,looks,etc. Ain't shyt "playa" or "pimpin" about that:respect:

These women are under the impression they can pull above average men,because above average men compliment,take them out for a meal or movie,and fukk them regularly. The very same shyt that regular nikkas did that they THOUGHT was a real relationship. 90% of Black women have no idea what a real relationship is or looks like.

Wait a minute.

Who said said ANYTHING about specifically black women?

This shyt applies to ALL women. Hell, white women are even worse with this.

So don't try to make this into a "you hate black women" thing.
 
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